Author Topic: Online dating :( (Read 53905 times)

recursivelyenumerable · « **Reply #480 on:** April 14, 2008, 03:48:19 PM »

These days I get a ton of women looking at my profile but nobody ever messages me, or even replies to my messages. I must be really shitty at writing profiles and messages.

Bloodwake · « **Reply #481 on:** April 14, 2008, 04:03:37 PM »

bud · « **Reply #482 on:** April 14, 2008, 04:06:44 PM »

she sounds so angry

Mupepe · « **Reply #483 on:** April 14, 2008, 04:11:25 PM »

I'D HIT IT

Mupepe · « **Reply #484 on:** April 14, 2008, 04:16:32 PM »

loose, tiny vagina? makes no sense

Mupepe · « **Reply #485 on:** April 14, 2008, 04:28:26 PM »

you need to spend more time with a vagina. i think you're confused about how they work

Bloodwake · « **Reply #486 on:** April 14, 2008, 04:39:20 PM »

ParticleReality makes me want to post an actual picture of a vagina and like explain the concept to him.

recursivelyenumerable · « **Reply #487 on:** April 14, 2008, 05:18:26 PM »

she is a 69% match for me. libertarians

Bloodwake · « **Reply #488 on:** April 14, 2008, 05:24:28 PM »

Quote from: recursivelyenumerable on April 14, 2008, 05:18:26 PM

she is a 69% match for me. libertarians

62% for me. From what she sounds like though, she just wants to fuck around, and I fit her requirements.

Maybe it's time to drive to Georgia, lmao.

tiesto · « **Reply #489 on:** April 14, 2008, 05:50:37 PM »

I've been talking to some girl from Brooklyn on OKC lately, asked her if she wanted to meet up in the city sometime... no response yet though

Not really a big fan of traveling out to the city, but at this point I will do it if a woman is involved.

My big hope right now is that the girl who I went out with on Sat was interested enough to want to date me, and I can go out with her and totally move on from the other girl I liked.

I've also took some steps into actually going up to women in person... haven't gotten to the point where I get a # yet, but for someone who's relied on the crutch of meeting people online since about 2003 (when he graduated college), it's a fairly large step. And what do you know, I actually have been noticing some girls smiling at me and checking me out, even though I think I'm not really that attractive. $:-\$

Bloodwake · « **Reply #490 on:** April 14, 2008, 06:02:43 PM »

Quote from: tiesto on April 14, 2008, 05:50:37 PM

I've been talking to some girl from Brooklyn on OKC lately, asked her if she wanted to meet up in the city sometime... no response yet though Not really a big fan of traveling out to the city, but at this point I will do it if a woman is involved.

My big hope right now is that the girl who I went out with on Sat was interested enough to want to date me, and I can go out with her and totally move on from the other girl I liked.

I've also took some steps into actually going up to women in person... haven't gotten to the point where I get a # yet, but for someone who's relied on the crutch of meeting people online since about 2003 (when he graduated college), it's a fairly large step. And what do you know, I actually have been noticing some girls smiling at me and checking me out, even though I think I'm not really that attractive. $:-\$

Good luck sir.

Flannel Boy · « **Reply #491 on:** April 18, 2008, 12:28:38 AM »

I joined OKCupid yesterday. Unfortunately, all my matches are dogs with fleas. And there seem to be a lot of obese bisexuals. This is probably because I answered the political questions honestly (I didn't know that I had become such a leftist).

I think I’m going to start a new account and not answer a single political or religious question in an attempt to avoid the Women's Studies majors.

recursivelyenumerable · « **Reply #492 on:** April 19, 2008, 11:11:44 AM »

OK, I definitely have a thriving virtual love life now, getting more than enough messages and IM requests. Time to disengage for a while to put my real life in order.

I gave very left-leaning answers to all political questions and have plenty of attractive matches. Granted I make a point of having low standards (highly recommended, guaranteed to make you much happier) but some of them have pictures even you'd probably approve of.

Akala · « **Reply #493 on:** April 19, 2008, 01:03:25 PM »

Quote from: recursivelyenumerable on April 19, 2008, 11:11:44 AM

Granted I make a point of having low standards (highly recommended, guaranteed to make you much happier) but some of them have pictures even you'd probably approve of.

Post pics of the ones we wouldn't!

tiesto · « **Reply #494 on:** April 19, 2008, 01:52:02 PM »

So I went on a date Thurs night with a girl... the girl wasn't bad, there was just nothing too special about her, but one of the things she said is that she was showing my profile to her friend... and her friend was like "no, don't go for him!" and she was like "why, he seems really cool!", she was like "but he says he plays video games". That sucks. And the last girl I liked told me I play way too many video games. $:-\$

Bloodwake · « **Reply #495 on:** April 19, 2008, 06:55:44 PM »

Quote from: tiesto on April 19, 2008, 01:52:02 PM

So I went on a date Thurs night with a girl... the girl wasn't bad, there was just nothing too special about her, but one of the things she said is that she was showing my profile to her friend... and her friend was like "no, don't go for him!" and she was like "why, he seems really cool!", she was like "but he says he plays video games". That sucks. And the last girl I liked told me I play way too many video games. $:-\$

That's a flaw with women. Not you.

recursivelyenumerable · « **Reply #496 on:** April 19, 2008, 07:10:34 PM »

awesome, I don't play video games

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I just spend half my waking hours reading distinguished mentally-challenged discussions about them

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elektrikluv · « **Reply #497 on:** April 19, 2008, 07:17:48 PM »

Yeah you playing video games isn't a flaw. Just those girls don't share the interest.

demi · « **Reply #498 on:** April 19, 2008, 07:37:07 PM »

Quote from: tiesto on April 19, 2008, 01:52:02 PM

So I went on a date Thurs night with a girl... the girl wasn't bad, there was just nothing too special about her, but one of the things she said is that she was showing my profile to her friend... and her friend was like "no, don't go for him!" and she was like "why, he seems really cool!", she was like "but he says he plays video games". That sucks. And the last girl I liked told me I play way too many video games. $:-\$

I'm gonna tell you right now, if you drop video games for pussy, you are the biggest cigarillo i ever know

dont EVER change for a woman, EVER

if she cant deal that you play games, she is not worth the time of day, move on

Junpei the Tracer! · « **Reply #499 on:** April 19, 2008, 08:06:42 PM »

Quote from: demi on April 19, 2008, 07:37:07 PM

Quote from: tiesto on April 19, 2008, 01:52:02 PM
So I went on a date Thurs night with a girl... the girl wasn't bad, there was just nothing too special about her, but one of the things she said is that she was showing my profile to her friend... and her friend was like "no, don't go for him!" and she was like "why, he seems really cool!", she was like "but he says he plays video games". That sucks. And the last girl I liked told me I play way too many video games. $:-\$

I'm gonna tell you right now, if you drop video games for pussy, you are the biggest cigarillo i ever know

dont EVER change for a woman, EVER

if she cant deal that you play games, she is not worth the time of day, move on

REALEST TALK.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #500 on:** April 19, 2008, 08:15:14 PM »

Quote from: Genghis Cohen on April 19, 2008, 07:47:57 PM

Quote from: tiesto on April 19, 2008, 01:52:02 PM
So I went on a date Thurs night with a girl... the girl wasn't bad, there was just nothing too special about her, but one of the things she said is that she was showing my profile to her friend... and her friend was like "no, don't go for him!" and she was like "why, he seems really cool!", she was like "but he says he plays video games". That sucks. And the last girl I liked told me I play way too many video games. $:-\$
No girls have ever gotten mad at me for playing too many games, except when i was ruining my life with a speed + Dynasty Warriors combo.

Probably because you're sexy and can cook

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #501 on:** April 19, 2008, 10:09:28 PM »

I gotta try this out

Bildi · « **Reply #502 on:** April 19, 2008, 10:22:10 PM »

Quote from: tiesto on April 19, 2008, 01:52:02 PM

So I went on a date Thurs night with a girl... the girl wasn't bad, there was just nothing too special about her, but one of the things she said is that she was showing my profile to her friend... and her friend was like "no, don't go for him!" and she was like "why, he seems really cool!", she was like "but he says he plays video games". That sucks. And the last girl I liked told me I play way too many video games. $:-\$

I agree with everyone. Unless you're obsessed with gaming beyond reason, if a chick thinks lowly of your videogaming, piss her off. The girl you went out with sounds good since she still went out with you. But as for her friend, kick her in the cunt.

recursivelyenumerable · « **Reply #503 on:** April 20, 2008, 04:25:19 AM »

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I'm gonna tell you right now, if you drop video games for pussy, you are the biggest cigarillo i ever know

I bet you'll change your tune when MS starts giving out achievement points for sexual encounters

etiolate · « **Reply #504 on:** April 20, 2008, 04:36:18 AM »

I don't think I could date a girl opposed to my interests.

demi · « **Reply #505 on:** April 20, 2008, 04:36:31 AM »

Quote from: recursivelyenumerable on April 20, 2008, 04:25:19 AM

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I'm gonna tell you right now, if you drop video games for pussy, you are the biggest cigarillo i ever know

I bet you'll change your tune when MS starts giving out achievement points for sexual encounters

My gamerscore will still be higher than yours

Flannel Boy · « **Reply #506 on:** April 20, 2008, 10:34:06 AM »

Quote from: recursivelyenumerable on April 20, 2008, 04:25:19 AM

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I'm gonna tell you right now, if you drop video games for pussy, you are the biggest cigarillo i ever know

I bet you'll change your tune when MS starts giving out achievement points for sexual encounters

He'd be the same old achievement whore.

Junpei the Tracer! · « **Reply #507 on:** April 20, 2008, 11:43:58 AM »

Me and Particle gonna start online dating.

Wish us luck guys.

tiesto · « **Reply #508 on:** April 20, 2008, 12:41:35 PM »

Yeah, I'm gonna have to agree with you guys... I wouldn't give up gaming for a girl, because the kinds of girls I would want to be dating/marrying/fucking/etc would accept my interests. Besides, the one girl I went out recently that I actually really liked, plays video games herself (Mario games, Wii, DS, RPGs... basically the shit I like!)

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #509 on:** April 20, 2008, 12:51:54 PM »

Quote from: Junpei the Tracer! on April 20, 2008, 11:43:58 AM

Me and Particle gonna start online dating.

Wish us luck guys.

Your making Particle the cool young dude, aren't you?

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #510 on:** April 20, 2008, 01:11:22 PM »

PR always struck me as a power bottom

Junpei the Tracer! · « **Reply #511 on:** April 20, 2008, 01:29:52 PM »

Quote from: BlueTsunami on April 20, 2008, 12:51:54 PM

Quote from: Junpei the Tracer! on April 20, 2008, 11:43:58 AM
Me and Particle gonna start online dating.

Wish us luck guys.

Your making Particle the cool young dude, aren't you?

Twinks are only in homosexual relationships.

This is a hetrosexual relationship.

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #512 on:** April 20, 2008, 01:46:13 PM »

Well that clears up Junpei's current input/output standing

Junpei the Tracer! · « **Reply #513 on:** April 20, 2008, 02:18:07 PM »

I'm the girl.

It says "Female" in my profile for a reason.

Mupepe · « **Reply #514 on:** April 20, 2008, 02:34:32 PM »

Quote from: elektrikluv on April 19, 2008, 07:17:48 PM

Yeah you playing video games isn't a flaw. Just those girls don't share the interest.

Junpei the Tracer! · « **Reply #515 on:** April 20, 2008, 02:42:59 PM »

Quote from: ParticleReality on April 20, 2008, 02:38:58 PM

Quote from: Junpei the Tracer! on April 20, 2008, 02:18:07 PM
I'm the girl.

It says "Female" in my profile for a reason.

You can't trick me.

Not again.

After you know, all those other times.

Seriously, never again.

Give us a chance. Mama needs some lovin.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #516 on:** April 20, 2008, 03:02:55 PM »

Junpei post a pic of your hair plz

Junpei the Tracer! · « **Reply #517 on:** April 20, 2008, 03:06:28 PM »

Quote from: ParticleReality on April 20, 2008, 03:00:20 PM

Quote
NEVER AGAIN

.

Well,if you change your mind...

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on April 20, 2008, 03:02:55 PM

Junpei post a pic of your hair plz

What for?

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #518 on:** April 20, 2008, 03:08:49 PM »

I want to see if it's straight

Mupepe · « **Reply #519 on:** April 20, 2008, 03:10:45 PM »

I'll date Junpei

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #520 on:** April 20, 2008, 03:16:22 PM »

Quote from: Junpei the Tracer! on April 20, 2008, 02:42:59 PM

Quote from: ParticleReality on April 20, 2008, 02:38:58 PM
Quote from: Junpei the Tracer! on April 20, 2008, 02:18:07 PM
I'm the girl.

It says "Female" in my profile for a reason.

You can't trick me.

Not again.

After you know, all those other times.

Seriously, never again.

Give us a chance. Mama needs some lovin.

Thats just creepy

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #521 on:** April 20, 2008, 03:35:28 PM »

I can confirm that he is a girl.

Go for it PR.

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #522 on:** April 20, 2008, 03:52:14 PM »

I have a feeling cheeseburger Surprise is gonna come back in style

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #523 on:** April 20, 2008, 04:24:36 PM »

You have a learning disability?

recursivelyenumerable · « **Reply #524 on:** April 20, 2008, 04:32:34 PM »

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Isn't it just easier to meet a girl at uni/work/out in the wild/bar then online dating?

I once met a girl in a bar and broke it off when I discovered she wrote awful poetry. Another time I met a hot girl in a coffeeshop and went with her to a dance party; I lost interest when I learned she liked to post journal entries in textspeak. With online dating you see her writing skill right off the bat so there are no nasty surprises.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #525 on:** April 20, 2008, 04:37:39 PM »

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #526 on:** April 20, 2008, 04:41:16 PM »

Quote from: ParticleReality on April 20, 2008, 04:39:52 PM

Quote from: Father_Mike on April 20, 2008, 04:24:36 PM
You have a learning disability?

Yeah.

you do look a bit inbred

Eric P · « **Reply #527 on:** April 20, 2008, 05:25:18 PM »

Quote from: recursivelyenumerable on April 20, 2008, 04:32:34 PM

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Isn't it just easier to meet a girl at uni/work/out in the wild/bar then online dating?

I once met a girl in a bar and broke it off when I discovered she wrote awful poetry. Another time I met a hot girl in a coffeeshop and went with her to a dance party; I lost interest when I learned she liked to post journal entries in textspeak. With online dating you see her writing skill right off the bat so there are no nasty surprises.

purely legitimate reason to stop seeing someone

the nyt did an article exploring if it's ok to dump someone because of reading habits.

they said, ultimately, it was shallow, but still, i have no problems judging people by what they read watch and to which they listen

Junpei the Tracer! · « **Reply #528 on:** April 20, 2008, 05:25:36 PM »

Quote from: ParticleReality on April 20, 2008, 03:24:56 PM

Look, I don't care if you aren't a girl(Though, I do prefer it). You just gotta be honest with me. Building any sort of relationship based on lies isn't my cup of tea, dawg.

I'm sorry,I'll be honest with you from now on.

Mondain · « **Reply #529 on:** April 20, 2008, 06:05:06 PM »

Quote from: tiesto on April 19, 2008, 01:52:02 PM

So I went on a date Thurs night with a girl... the girl wasn't bad, there was just nothing too special about her, but one of the things she said is that she was showing my profile to her friend... and her friend was like "no, don't go for him!" and she was like "why, he seems really cool!", she was like "but he says he plays video games". That sucks. And the last girl I liked told me I play way too many video games. $:-\$

can u cut and paste your profile's text

elektrikluv · « **Reply #530 on:** April 20, 2008, 06:21:35 PM »

Writing skills are a big deal to me too. I've been interested in guys and as soon as I spoke to them online I found them to be so boring and dim and instantly lost interest, "hi hows u, kl, wot u up 2?" and that'll be it :/ I don't get how some people can be talkative and appear intelligent in person but as soon as you talk to them online, theyre a whole different person with nothing to say and the most terrible writing skills.

Mupepe · « **Reply #531 on:** April 20, 2008, 06:29:26 PM »

Is that why you stopped talking to me???

Junpei the Tracer! · « **Reply #532 on:** April 20, 2008, 07:39:31 PM »

Quote from: ParticleReality on April 20, 2008, 05:39:48 PM

Quote from: Junpei the Tracer! on April 20, 2008, 05:25:36 PM
Quote from: ParticleReality on April 20, 2008, 03:24:56 PM
Look, I don't care if you aren't a girl(Though, I do prefer it). You just gotta be honest with me. Building any sort of relationship based on lies isn't my cup of tea, dawg.

I'm sorry,I'll be honest with you from now on.

Okay, good. So for the last time, what are you?

A miserable of pile of secrets. :kylielaff I know,I'm horrible.

trippingmartian · « **Reply #533 on:** April 20, 2008, 08:45:30 PM »

This thread has been pretty informative.

Just joined 'plenty' last night. I have a couple people bookmarked, but I don't know if I'll really go through with trying it out. My brother met a couple of headcases online.

Is it safe to assume that anyone w/o a profile pic is a monstrous abomination? Or are some people just trying to be 'off the radar' for other reasons?

I find it hilarious that there is a drugs question. I chose "prefer not to answer" even though I've only done pot a handful of times in my 26 years.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #534 on:** April 20, 2008, 10:14:46 PM »

Most people without pics are either old or fat

recursivelyenumerable · « **Reply #535 on:** April 20, 2008, 10:28:18 PM »

how does plenty compare with okc? okc seems good for hipster nerds (my target market)

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #536 on:** April 20, 2008, 10:30:53 PM »

Plenty is full of overweight women as well as average looking chicks. Overall OCK is superior imo, although Plenty seems better for finding intimate encounters

recursivelyenumerable · « **Reply #537 on:** April 20, 2008, 10:32:11 PM »

The only reason I joined OKC originally, by the way, is that a profile happened to show up in Google search results for the phrase "generalized abstract nonsense". I would never have considered joining a dating site before, but figured any site with a (female) user into algebraic topology and category theory had to be different and less tacky than others

I'd like the potential for new friends and new forum drama, not just dating by itself. I think the OKC forums are shaping up pretty well, considering how much worse they could've been. Sadly, there are still a lot of really tacky aspects of OKC, like the IM client, the color scheme, and the fact that the page title for when you view a message is "An intimate message". WTF, I just want to ask her a question about programming language semantics.

elektrikluv · « **Reply #538 on:** April 21, 2008, 05:20:30 AM »

Quote from: Mupepe on April 20, 2008, 06:29:26 PM

Is that why you stopped talking to me???

I didn't stop talking to you! I've been away in another city. Your writing skills are excellent.

Mupepe · « **Reply #539 on:** April 21, 2008, 12:43:13 PM »

Quote from: elektrikluv on April 21, 2008, 05:20:30 AM

Quote from: Mupepe on April 20, 2008, 06:29:26 PM
Is that why you stopped talking to me???

I didn't stop talking to you! I've been away in another city. Your writing skills are excellent.

Aw, your flirtations are flattering

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Buy me something in your other city!

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Author Topic: Online dating :( (Read 53905 times)