Well, it looks like Stag and Doe Chick might have re-thought her decision to turn me down.
I said "fuck it" and sent her a facebook message along the lines of "Hey SaDC, I'm not the sort to persistently harrass a woman, but I will say that if you ever happen to change your mind about hanging out some time, feel free to give me a shout."
Not generally a recommended move, I know, but hell, there's no downside.
She replied today "Hey Boogie, If you're ever in the Etobicoke area... give me a shout. Maybe we could grab a coffee or something.
Take care,
SaDC"