So I think I've narrowed down my apartment hunt to a couple of choices.
I can live in a small quiet 5 star community run by an apparently awesome apartment manager for ~$1250 a month, but I have to drive through stop/start awful freeway traffic of 40+ mins to and from work each day and it'll be 30-40 mins to visit my friends who live where my work is.
Or I can live in a generic corporate run complex that's one of the better ones (meaning 3-4 star instead of 2-3 star like most of them), in a little bigger place with a nice view that's 5 mins away from my work/friends and is going to be more like $1900 a month.
Or I can live in walkable distance from a giant entertainment center with bars, theaters, parks, dozens of food places, thousands of people in a complex that is 2-3 star (apparently ants crawling out of the drains, dog poop everywhere, noise issues) in a smaller place for like $1800-1900. This drive to work/friends would be about 10-12 mins.
Or I can live in a place that's about 15-20 mins away, near a shopping center with trader joes and some food and gas station and stuff, in a 3.5 starish place, decent size but nothing really going on in the area for around ~$1600.
Money-aside, I'd really rather go with the first one, because I just want to live somewhere totally awesome with great people and good service; clean, safe, lack of bugs. But the drive is going to be really really bad and I will be near nothing at all. The 2nd option is overpriced but being right where work/friends is will be convienient, but it's the nicest room of the 3 corporate ones. The 3rd means I get to live like being in LA/NYC and party all the time and then walk back and crash in my pad, but I hate hate hate bugs and dog poop. Last one is a good middle ground, but it's just totally plain and boring and in the middle for everything.