Random talk thread: It just keeps happening

[Shadow Mod]

Bore love nest?

[G The Resurrected]

Jesus today has been crazy. More details later as I'm extremely exhausted from the events of today. I get to shower and sleep in a bed tonight! Sadly I'm alone right now, gonna go try and relax for once this week.

[lennedsay]

I'm glad to hear you're warm tonight. Sorry shit is going down man.

[Mupepe]

Is she out in the cold?  Please tell me she is.

[chronovore]

Night two of living on the streets. It got super cold last night.

wtf? If this is due to being kicked out by Roxy, at some point you have to stand up for yourself dude.

can't you get a hotel?

She went crazy on me and since my bank was closed today I couldn't do anything. Top that with the stupid $100 withdrawal limit from the recent Target hack and you have the reason I'm out in the cold. Tomorrow I have to figure this shit out. It sucks but what can I do? She's reacting to the stresses of this week differently.

The problem is this isn't a thing that happens all the time. There are weeks and months that have gone by without incident. But if something triggers her it gets really bad really quick. It would help if she wasn't so against seeing someone to get the help she needs. I know I can't save her from herself. I've also learned to leave so I'm not a target for her to come at. It's unfortunate that the events that happened were so devastating to her already f fragile mental condition. It takes a strong person to go through what we've done this week and not let it affect you and your life. I care about myself, if I didn't I would of been crazy long ago. I went and saught out help for myself too.

Yeah I know, I may go back and see if she'll let me in. But I fear shell just be passive aggressive towards me and that will breed into her getting physically violent since I'm an easy target to vent her rage at. I don't want to be out here any longer than I need to be. It's not fun knowing there's no where to go to. I don't even feel like I have a home to go back to right now.

If we were reading any of this stuff with the genders reversed, we would be calling the police for you. Just because they are the opposite of roles what we read about with abusive boyfriends and wife beating assholes doesn't make it less acceptable.

You need to get out of this relationship, and get on with your life. You are enabling her continued poor mental health by accepting this situation. If you want to help her and help yourself, move on.

[G The Resurrected]

So I've had a bit of time to kind of relax and get things together since the events that happened a few days ago. The police found her completely out of it in the apartment. She was taken in for a 72 hour hold, which she is now home from. We saw a large group of doctors and specialists who are working directly with us in creating a long term support system and treatment plan for both of us. Today was the first day home for her and she's highly sedated. They gave her a combination of benzo's which I'm not to happy with cause it makes her into a zombie. We tried to watch some tv and enjoy some food, but that didn't work out well. She just wants to relax constantly. I know she might be exhausted from all of this stress it's partially to blame for her actions. The main doctor said she had a psychotic break and doesn't think she will have another one based on the conversations they've had with her and being on the new medications. She hasn't been diagnosed with anything other than severe general anxiety, but that might change as we have to go in regularly to see this new doctor.

I'm all she has and it sucks to be in my position. But now that she has a history maybe things won't be so one sided going forward. We're working on this together so she can get better and I don't stress out more than I already am. If anything she needed this so she could get the help she needed. Now its up to her to continue on working on her issues to better not only her life but mine too. It's been one huge wake up call for everyone involved. I didn't like sleeping by myself knowing she was in there by herself, and by the sounds she didn't like it very much as well. But at least she wasn't in the cold like I was. I know you guys may say I'm just asking for something like this to happen again, but I believe that with the proper environment this could all be in the past. I know it sounds naive of me to say that, but I love her.

[fistfulofmetal]

[Barry Egan]

has she even apologized? 

[CatsCatsCats]

This is getting pretty depressing to read.

[lennedsay]

Hopefully you're right and she gets her shit together, but don't be surprised if it doesn't work. Speaking from personal experience, being with someone that has mental issues is completely draining. It seems so easy, especially to us who are only slightly mentally fucked, for them to just follow that path to recovery. But for the other person, that may not or will not be possible. Personally, I eventually had to get out. Looking back, especially now that I have a child, I wouldn't have wanted to have children with him or even marry him and doom my children to a lifetime of that shit.

I don't think you've mentally "checked out" of the relationship yet, so having 20 rational people on an Internet forum telling you to get out doesn't really change your mind. We're basically in a similar situation as you are with her. We keep telling you the logical path, one that may not be easy now but will be for your future, knowing full well you probably won't go through with it.

[StealthFan]

I've had these conversations a million times. I hate it when people come to me to discuss relationships. They never take the advice.

G's just wasting peoples time.

[demi]

So I've had a bit of time to kind of relax and get things together since the events that happened a few days ago. The police found her completely out of it in the apartment. She was taken in for a 72 hour hold, which she is now home from. We saw a large group of doctors and specialists who are working directly with us in creating a long term support system and treatment plan for both of us. Today was the first day home for her and she's highly sedated. They gave her a combination of benzo's which I'm not to happy with cause it makes her into a zombie. We tried to watch some tv and enjoy some food, but that didn't work out well. She just wants to relax constantly. I know she might be exhausted from all of this stress it's partially to blame for her actions. The main doctor said she had a psychotic break and doesn't think she will have another one based on the conversations they've had with her and being on the new medications. She hasn't been diagnosed with anything other than severe general anxiety, but that might change as we have to go in regularly to see this new doctor.

I'm all she has and it sucks to be in my position. But now that she has a history maybe things won't be so one sided going forward. We're working on this together so she can get better and I don't stress out more than I already am. If anything she needed this so she could get the help she needed. Now its up to her to continue on working on her issues to better not only her life but mine too. It's been one huge wake up call for everyone involved. I didn't like sleeping by myself knowing she was in there by herself, and by the sounds she didn't like it very much as well. But at least she wasn't in the cold like I was. I know you guys may say I'm just asking for something like this to happen again, but I believe that with the proper environment this could all be in the past. I know it sounds naive of me to say that, but I love her.

Lol, you're so full of it. Saw you and Roxy playing Xbox One nice and happy together. Oy vey, Bz.

[CatsCatsCats]

Maybe G needs to be un-resurrected

[milchs evil twin]

I just realized The Bore makes me chuckle in exactly the same way GAF did about 8 years ago, but hasn't in quite some time.

Feels bad.

[Sausage]

So I've had a bit of time to kind of relax and get things together since the events that happened a few days ago. The police found her completely out of it in the apartment. She was taken in for a 72 hour hold, which she is now home from. We saw a large group of doctors and specialists who are working directly with us in creating a long term support system and treatment plan for both of us. Today was the first day home for her and she's highly sedated. They gave her a combination of benzo's which I'm not to happy with cause it makes her into a zombie. We tried to watch some tv and enjoy some food, but that didn't work out well. She just wants to relax constantly. I know she might be exhausted from all of this stress it's partially to blame for her actions. The main doctor said she had a psychotic break and doesn't think she will have another one based on the conversations they've had with her and being on the new medications. She hasn't been diagnosed with anything other than severe general anxiety, but that might change as we have to go in regularly to see this new doctor.

I'm all she has and it sucks to be in my position. But now that she has a history maybe things won't be so one sided going forward. We're working on this together so she can get better and I don't stress out more than I already am. If anything she needed this so she could get the help she needed. Now its up to her to continue on working on her issues to better not only her life but mine too. It's been one huge wake up call for everyone involved. I didn't like sleeping by myself knowing she was in there by herself, and by the sounds she didn't like it very much as well. But at least she wasn't in the cold like I was. I know you guys may say I'm just asking for something like this to happen again, but I believe that with the proper environment this could all be in the past. I know it sounds naive of me to say that, but I love her.

Everybody sees how this is a bad idea except you

[G The Resurrected]

Hopefully you're right and she gets her shit together, but don't be surprised if it doesn't work. Speaking from personal experience, being with someone that has mental issues is completely draining. It seems so easy, especially to us who are only slightly mentally fucked, for them to just follow that path to recovery. But for the other person, that may not or will not be possible. Personally, I eventually had to get out. Looking back, especially now that I have a child, I wouldn't have wanted to have children with him or even marry him and doom my children to a lifetime of that shit.

I don't think you've mentally "checked out" of the relationship yet, so having 20 rational people on an Internet forum telling you to get out doesn't really change your mind. We're basically in a similar situation as you are with her. We keep telling you the logical path, one that may not be easy now but will be for your future, knowing full well you probably won't go through with it.

I hear what everyone is saying and I agree that what happened wasn't right. I'm not making excuses she needs to own up to what she did and maybe it's asking much of her to try and be perfect right out the gates but we'll eventually get there. I know she's different than most normal people and that in itself makes life difficult. I currently feel like i'm in some weird limbo place where my life can't continue till she gets better. And I know that I have things I need to do to continue to live a seemingly normal life. I want kids and a wife and I'm not getting any younger. I know the risks of being in this relationship and I will not stay if she continues down a destructive path. For now Its about finding a way to manage her stresses and issues and get her a proper foundation for continued treatment.

I'm not try to waste anyones time by putting my personal problems on here. I don't have any outside support besides myself. I'm not saying treatment is a 100% proven thing, but I owe it to her to help her out and see if she can get the help she needs. Any decline in progress and I'm hitting the eject button.

Demi yes we were trying to watch a movie last night and I've been purchasing games since they are on sale. That doesn't mean we're happy... far from it 

[fistfulofmetal]

Decided to be a bit adventurous today and listened to an album that people have been talking about. Which is CHVRCHES. I'll admit mostly because the lead singer is mega fucking cute as shit.

I was pretty surprised by this, actually. First, I was surprised by the tone. It's not some super happy pop bullshit candy and butterflies feeling. It's pretty dark, at least from what I can tell. Lyrics have an edge to 'em where I'm not embarrassed everytime I'm listening. Second, I didn't realize it would have as much 80's synth going on here. That's pretty rad. It doesn't quite hard enough in that direction as I would like but it's enough I guess. There are a few songs where it actually does pretty hard in that direction with some heavy synth and I enjoyed those the much. Third, the lead singer is really good. I'm willing to give a lot of different music a chance if the lead singer is a female and can sing pretty well. I dunno, I just like female singers over male singers in general. Which actually goes into my only real complaint... there are two songs with a male singer and I straight up skip them every time. I don't wanna hear a male singer. Fuck off.

SO yeah, I enjoyed it quite a bit.

[Shadow Mod]

Hopefully you're right and she gets her shit together, but don't be surprised if it doesn't work. Speaking from personal experience, being with someone that has mental issues is completely draining. It seems so easy, especially to us who are only slightly mentally fucked, for them to just follow that path to recovery. But for the other person, that may not or will not be possible. Personally, I eventually had to get out. Looking back, especially now that I have a child, I wouldn't have wanted to have children with him or even marry him and doom my children to a lifetime of that shit.

I don't think you've mentally "checked out" of the relationship yet, so having 20 rational people on an Internet forum telling you to get out doesn't really change your mind. We're basically in a similar situation as you are with her. We keep telling you the logical path, one that may not be easy now but will be for your future, knowing full well you probably won't go through with it.

I hear what everyone is saying and I agree that what happened wasn't right. I'm not making excuses she needs to own up to what she did and maybe it's asking much of her to try and be perfect right out the gates but we'll eventually get there. I know she's different than most normal people and that in itself makes life difficult. I currently feel like i'm in some weird limbo place where my life can't continue till she gets better. And I know that I have things I need to do to continue to live a seemingly normal life. I want kids and a wife and I'm not getting any younger. I know the risks of being in this relationship and I will not stay if she continues down a destructive path. For now Its about finding a way to manage her stresses and issues and get her a proper foundation for continued treatment.

I'm not try to waste anyones time by putting my personal problems on here. I don't have any outside support besides myself. I'm not saying treatment is a 100% proven thing, but I owe it to her to help her out and see if she can get the help she needs. Any decline in progress and I'm hitting the eject button.

Demi yes we were trying to watch a movie last night and I've been purchasing games since they are on sale. That doesn't mean we're happy... far from it 

I really don't know what you owe her if she can't even meet you at "seek therapy."

[Steve Contra]

A good friend of mine who has had some major health issues just emailed me to tell me that he is probably choosing to die rather than go through another round of surgeries. 

[El Babua]

Damn, sorry Steve.

[Phoenix Dark]

https://www.facebook.com/AmericanWhiteHistoryMonth2?ref=profile

:deadpos :deadpos

I have a friend who liked that page.

Does he seem like a White Pride kind of guy?

seems like an Oklahoma kind of guy

[El Babua]

I'm sure he has black friends. (on Facebook)

[Shadow Mod]

My dad got his port today for any future chemo. But now he's all negative about doing anything further. 

[Sausage]

https://www.facebook.com/AmericanWhiteHistoryMonth2?ref=profile

:deadpos :deadpos

[CatsCatsCats]

Got eye liner in the mail today from the UK. I'm stumped on this one. It's just charcoal eyeliner, why would someone pay to import that to me?

[nudemacusers]

Got eye liner in the mail today from the UK. I'm stumped on this one. It's just charcoal eyeliner, why would someone pay to import that to me?

pop some raccoon eyes and take some mirror selfies

[Phoenix Dark]

[nudemacusers]

I liked that post and unliked it because it made me remember a time when Spencer and BrandNew were young, pretty boys whom I would have loved to see in a little eye makeup and seductive poses.. Now they're just men.

fatalt still has potential, just needs to embrace his inner twinkdom and lay off the facepaint*.


*unless tastefully applied by a nordstrom sales associate.

[CatsCatsCats]

Well, this was from Halloween anyway
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[Joe Molotov]

Good lawd 

[nudemacusers]

you just need some fuck me pirate boots

[fistfulofmetal]

you're the prettiest lady on the bore

[CatsCatsCats]

I'd fuck me

[Olivia Wilde Homo]

It puts the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again?

[nudemacusers]

I'd fuck me

how many tokens

[Atramental]

you're the prettiest lady on the bore

*ahem*

[Joe Molotov]

PD, we need some Spencer x Atra slashfic pronto!

[Rufus]

So, how many pictures do you have of her?

It puts the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again?

[fistfulofmetal]

you're the prettiest lady on the bore

*ahem*

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6/10

[Atramental]

So, how many pictures do you have of her?

Errr...

Check your PMs.

6/10

[Phoenix Dark]

PD, we need some Spencer x Atra slashfic pronto!

I already explained that I only do interracial fanfic.

[Sausage]

Well, this was from Halloween anyway
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too curvy for my tastes

[Olivia Wilde Homo]

Murdered in the digital realm by Positive Touch.

What's the story on this?

http://www.thebore.com/forum/index.php?topic=40355.msg1712220#msg1712220

To be fair, he usually does disappear for months, if not over a year at a time.

[Phoenix Dark]

Yup. Technically, no one has been truly murdered in the digital realm on EB since Fresh Prince

[Joe Molotov]

Fresh Prince :deadpos

[Positive Touch]

And now my sister and ex-fiance are best friends.

:mupepegrin

[Eli Gulgin]

Pics of sister and ex-fiance?

[StealthFan]

you're the prettiest lady on the bore

*ahem*

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Who is that?

[Eli Gulgin]

Atra's e-crush/stalkee.

Mupepe and PD have seen my ex and it will stay that way. My sister isn't too hard to find on instagram.

Heh I wasn't really asking, I'm totes not a creep, however I did imagine your sis looking like you but without facial hair and even purdier eyes and lips 

[Eli Gulgin]

Wait, you're the ugly one? Jeez. Still good enough to eat imo 

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Pls post nudes

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[Eli Gulgin]

I can send you pics of my feet. I need to find nail polish first ->

[Phoenix Dark]

And now my sister and ex-fiance are best friends.

:mupepegrin

mods pls

[Great Rumbler]

And now my sister and ex-fiance are best friends.

:mupepegrin

mods pls
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Come somebody please rehost this image, because it's being posted all the time and it never works.

[Atramental]

[Broseidon]

The title of the car was still in my parents' name, and they were paying insurance. It turns out they only had liability, so I'm fucked.

How old are you?

Judging by the car, 63.

[Shadow Mod]

More of a class issue imo.

[Olivia Wilde Homo]

I was wondering why a grown man in his 20s would willingly own a station wagon, now it makes sense.

[Olivia Wilde Homo]

Relax, people are just busting your balls, there is no maliciousness behind it.  I thought you said that you've grown and matured?  Getting riled up over minor shit like this seems like the old AWESOM-O

[fistfulofmetal]

alternatively, ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ is a pretty good response to potential trolls.

[nudemacusers]

white people are trolled really easily

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