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« Reply #21420 on: January 25, 2014, 05:43:32 AM »
I use dramamine every time because I get motion sickness on planes.

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« Reply #21421 on: January 25, 2014, 11:31:31 AM »
Sounds like a bunch of women in a bar.  You guys dish about your crushes while you doodoo?


I'm starting to think that military camps might be a little camp.


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« Reply #21422 on: January 25, 2014, 01:31:43 PM »
Seems like I've got a stye. My eyelid is swollen after having a zit like thing on it near the eyelash. Thats since gone away but now my eye is fat. I'm soaking a cloth in hot water and massaging it. Any other advice? No insurance for myself so I am hoping I can clear this up on my own. My actual eye doesn't hurt by the way and my vision is fine. Just the eye lid is sore.

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« Reply #21423 on: January 25, 2014, 03:52:59 PM »
Could be a chalazion instead of a stye:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chalazion

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« Reply #21424 on: January 25, 2014, 03:53:38 PM »
Or eye cancer.
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« Reply #21425 on: January 25, 2014, 04:03:34 PM »
Could be a chalazion instead of a stye:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chalazion
aw shit. Seems like its the same issues just takes longer to heal. The swelling isn't that bad since I've been doing heat compressions though.  Oh well. This sucks.

Or eye cancer.
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Shadow Mod

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« Reply #21426 on: January 25, 2014, 05:34:11 PM »
Seems like I've got a stye. My eyelid is swollen after having a zit like thing on it near the eyelash. Thats since gone away but now my eye is fat. I'm soaking a cloth in hot water and massaging it. Any other advice? No insurance for myself so I am hoping I can clear this up on my own. My actual eye doesn't hurt by the way and my vision is fine. Just the eye lid is sore.

Wet towel over green tea pouch over your eye. Use a bandana to secure it in place. Once the tea bag feels used up, just replace it with another. Do it earlier next time too. Every time I get a stye I do this and it's gone in no time.

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« Reply #21427 on: January 25, 2014, 08:11:37 PM »
Thanks dude.

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« Reply #21428 on: January 26, 2014, 12:55:08 PM »
It would appear Valium + marijuana = best night of sleep ever

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« Reply #21429 on: January 27, 2014, 08:26:56 PM »
Got my passport  :jawalrus
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« Reply #21430 on: January 28, 2014, 01:51:29 AM »
Jetlag is being cured just in time for the flight home. I'd say "FML," but this has been an absolutely fun trip, AND i can't wait to get back and start my new project.

I will miss all this great beer though. I'm having a Lagunitas Hairy Eyeball right now. BANG. ZOOM. TO THE MOON.

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« Reply #21431 on: January 28, 2014, 04:15:06 AM »
Um. Swine flu cases in Houston. Should I get a flu shot? They say to get flu shots to prevent flu but...flu shots GIVE you flu. So I just don't know.

:what drunk necrobump. haven't been on recently except for the NSFW thread :teehee the flu shot doesn't give you the flu ya navin. get a damn shot, all of ya. the season's starting early in the states this year and this year's vaccine is 100% compatible with the circulating strains. last time i had the flu was a week after our wedding and i wanted to crawl into a hole and die. get a damn flu shot!

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« Reply #21432 on: January 28, 2014, 12:13:16 PM »
twitch streams are working at work all of a sudden  :ohhh
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« Reply #21433 on: January 28, 2014, 12:45:16 PM »
It's a trap.

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« Reply #21434 on: January 28, 2014, 06:01:57 PM »
so what is up with those calibration settings you can find on the internet? i just got a new tv and the colors looked kinda eh at first so i tried using some settings from avsforum. holy fucking shit am i blind or do they just pull numbers out of their ass because any directions of theirs that i follow look a trillion times worse.

i fucking hate setting up the picture on a tv
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« Reply #21435 on: January 28, 2014, 06:16:50 PM »
i would enjoy this very much plz and thank you
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« Reply #21436 on: January 30, 2014, 02:00:21 AM »
One of the problems with Korea was that the beer was shit. They basically have two brands: Cass and Hite, and they're pretty much the equivalent of Coors Light and Miller Light. Does Japan suffer a similar problem?

Yeah.

Japan's macrobreweries have a total lock on distribution, it feels like. Asahi is the biggest, with Sapporo, Kirin, and Suntory in there as well. The biggest selling beer in Japan is Asahi Super Dry, which is not a bad beer, but it's not to my taste, and most times it is the ONLY thing on tap.

Supermarkets in Silicon Valley sell a lot of interesting beer. In Japan, most markets have a wide variety of beer, including seasonal offerings -- which all taste nearly identical to each other.

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« Reply #21437 on: January 30, 2014, 05:40:07 PM »
There is an extremely high tax on the amount of malted grain used in beer over in Japan, which is why craft is crazy expensive and adjunct lagers brewed by the big guys are dominant.

Sitting in my office and out my window I see a guy wearing a "Jesus is Truth" hoodie holding a sign that says "TIME IS RUNNING OUT. Repent or Parish." He's yelling at the kids going home and waiting for the school bus. Everyone just walks right by him...
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« Reply #21438 on: January 31, 2014, 12:22:33 PM »
New hardcore history is out.

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« Reply #21439 on: January 31, 2014, 01:59:07 PM »
New hardcore history is out.
thanks for the heads up bro

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« Reply #21440 on: January 31, 2014, 02:13:15 PM »
Back in Japan! Fell asleep early, so woke up around 3:00 AM. This suuuuucks!


Actually my question was pretty dumb, because I've had Asahi and Sapporo on a number of occasions. They're definitely better than the Korean macro-brews (I'd rate Asahi at about a 6/10, while Hite is like a 3.5/10), but the lack of variety is something I'd miss, particularly since I'm an IPA/Stout kind of guy.
There is an extremely high tax on the amount of malted grain used in beer over in Japan, which is why craft is crazy expensive and adjunct lagers brewed by the big guys are dominant.

Sitting in my office and out my window I see a guy wearing a "Jesus is Truth" hoodie holding a sign that says "TIME IS RUNNING OUT. Repent or Parish." He's yelling at the kids going home and waiting for the school bus. Everyone just walks right by him...

Jesus-dude was feeling my impending departure from The Land of Good Beer; I repented on my final evening, enjoying Lagunitas' Hairy Eyeball, Sierra Nevada's DevESTATEstion, and finally some Firestone Double Jack.  Then, on the plane home, I felt like having one last beer: mistake. I had a Kirin Lager, and it just emphasized what crap I'm going to endure for the foreseeable future.

Actually, AWESOM-O, Stouts have become popular in Japan, and are readily available in many places. Each macrobrewery has a couple stout versions up, and Guinness is available on tap in many bars. But if you meant interesting craft stouts, you'll be as out of luck as with IPAs.

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« Reply #21441 on: February 01, 2014, 01:16:44 PM »
Fire alarm went off at 2:30 am. 3:30AM, 6:00AM and 7:20AM .  FUCK.

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« Reply #21442 on: February 01, 2014, 02:24:38 PM »
I was hanging out with my sister's dog who, well, is pretty dumb. I was in the TV room downstairs and the doge sits on the top of the stairs looking out of the window in the room I'm in. He starts growling and making these semi-barking sounds and I look outside, there's a guy in the neighbor's yard and I think nothing of it. The dog however keeps growling and suddenly runs down the stairs and to the window and jumps, thinking he's gonna go attack the dude outside. He bangs against the window glass and falls to the floor and then quickly runs back up the stairs in shame. I laughed in tears for a good 5 minutes.

Goddamn that dog is stupid lol. Should have taken a video  :lol

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« Reply #21443 on: February 01, 2014, 03:55:42 PM »
Fire alarm went off at 2:30 am. 3:30AM, 6:00AM and 7:20AM .  FUCK.

I would have killed some motherfuckers.
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« Reply #21444 on: February 01, 2014, 06:12:28 PM »
Fire alarm went off at 2:30 am. 3:30AM, 6:00AM and 7:20AM .  FUCK.

Yet another victim of the gangstalking menace.
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« Reply #21445 on: February 01, 2014, 06:20:26 PM »
Fire alarm went off at 2:30 am. 3:30AM, 6:00AM and 7:20AM .  FUCK.

Yet another victim of the gangstalking menace.
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« Reply #21446 on: February 01, 2014, 06:23:09 PM »

Fire alarm went off at 2:30 am. 3:30AM, 6:00AM and 7:20AM .  FUCK.

I would have killed some motherfuckers.
I think I still may.

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« Reply #21447 on: February 01, 2014, 06:24:56 PM »

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« Reply #21448 on: February 02, 2014, 01:42:39 AM »
 Fucking crazy ass drivers!!!

I went to go pick up some Real3d Hobbit glasses at bestbuy earlier today. After I picked them up me and the missus got on the road to travel to the only theater showing the movie in HFR. On our way there we nearly got into a major accident. I'm glad I'm a confident driver, cause what I had to do was something straight out of a video game. We were on a 4 lane wide highway with a 5th lane for traffic getting off onto a street. I was in lane 1 the outside most lane and saw the pile up so did a mini cooper who was on a 6th lane that was closing into the 5th lane. So I slowed down to let the mini in and looked for a clearing to get into the next lane. In this time a slower vehicle that was behind me decided to follow my moves in getting into the 3rd lane. They suddenly and without notice decided to get into the 2nd lane and pass me and then they got into the 5th lane to get off the freeway. They weren't prepared for the sudden stop in traffic and pushed into the 4th and 3rd lane. I had to quickly move into the 2nd lane only to have them bump me into the 1st lane. It almost put us into a spin, but I was able to straighten out and get control. The car that hit us spun out and hit the center divider and then bounced right back to us and hit us on the driver side. I tried to avoid it but I would have gone straight into stopped traffic If I did. It was intense and I damn near shit myself, I'm glad I just got my brakes done last night.

Funny thing was when Roxanne saw this car before it was on the freeway she noticed they were driving badly. She warned me to stay away from them, but fate had it we'd be bumping each other in just a few minutes. We didn't make the movie but I don't care we are safe and that's all that matters.

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« Reply #21449 on: February 02, 2014, 06:40:08 PM »
Crazy. Silicon Valley drivers are the worst mix of imported Los Angelino aggressives and nonchalant, clueless, no-fucks-given NoCal people.

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« Reply #21450 on: February 02, 2014, 09:18:39 PM »
The movie isn't that good if it's any consolation.

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« Reply #21451 on: February 03, 2014, 03:12:38 AM »
After the blow out we hit the strip club for stripperoake, good night, full party

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« Reply #21452 on: February 03, 2014, 03:36:57 PM »
does anyone know a way to add my little pony to safe search on google? im going to go fucking postal if i image search one more thing and have to sift through a bunch of goddam mlp pictures. every single fuck time i search something.
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« Reply #21453 on: February 03, 2014, 04:44:37 PM »
I never encounter any MLP hits from using Google Image Search and I have censorship turned off. Are you sure they're not tweaking the results based on your search history?
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« Reply #21454 on: February 03, 2014, 04:52:10 PM »
Man, what is the DEAL with MLP? I came back from a couple weeks in the USA, was looking forward to seeing what the new 99¢ rental on iTunes was, and BOOM, it's the freaking My Little Pony movie! Good grief.

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« Reply #21455 on: February 03, 2014, 04:58:46 PM »
It got latched onto by 20-something socially inept nerds that want to feel good about themselves and cling to something that they can use as a group identifier.
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« Reply #21456 on: February 03, 2014, 05:00:34 PM »

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« Reply #21457 on: February 03, 2014, 06:02:43 PM »
if neverlaids wanna live the crap then fine with me but goddam if i want my entire internet splashed with the shit.
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« Reply #21458 on: February 03, 2014, 06:30:56 PM »
Today has been strange as hell. I took the car in to a repair shop to see what could be done about the exterior damage from what happened this weekend. When my cousin from Arizona comes walking in asking about his vehicle. I don't have that many cousins and none of them have family here so it was strange to see him here. Even stranger is the women he was with is not his wife and he and her were quite close. I didn't wish to ask, but as our conversation continued on you could tell there was something going on between the two. I didn't have a ride back home since they are going to work on the car a bit, and so he offered me a ride back home and took me out for lunch. We hit up a local brewhouse and had a few drinks and some lunch. As the day got longer and longer it became clearer that he and this woman are in an extramarital affair. So I just came out and asked if they met on ashleymadison.com or something. And got this quick laugh from both of them, before they answered that they met up on some cheating app. This guy is a good guy I've known him all my life and he has a great family with two kids that are relatively young. I hate being put into these type of moral situations, but I can't help but feel a responsibility to tell his wife. On facebook it shows that he's supposed to be on business in freaking LA not here. On one hand I feel like telling her, but on the other It's his personal life and I don't feel it's my place to say anything or ruin his life. I've never once thought about cheating in my relationship and I just don't understand it.

Car will be fixed up sometime next week though, and my rental is gonna be here later tonight. I rented a Mustang, not out of choice but because it was all they had available to pick up today. The last time I got behind the wheel of one of these I didn't want to get out. We'll see if I feel that way again later today.

So how's your monday going?

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« Reply #21459 on: February 03, 2014, 06:31:59 PM »


 :yuck :yuck :yuck
There's got to be a term for MLP entitlement like that. "WHY DOESN'T HASBRO MARKET TO THEIR TRUE AUDIENCE?!" Fuckball, your minor little niche doesn't account for the majority of sales. You're barely a blip in the sales information. And your fascination is with a kids' show -- and almost inarguably a girls' show at that.

True story: The last USA office I worked at, one guy had a My Little Pony figure on his desk. I asked him, "Are you a brony?" and he kind of lit up, hoping he'd found a kindred spirit. "YES! Yes, I am."  I told him, "You might want to hide that shit."

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« Reply #21460 on: February 03, 2014, 06:33:45 PM »
True story: The last USA office I worked at, one guy had a My Little Pony figure on his desk. I asked him, "Are you a brony?" and he kind of lit up, hoping he'd found a kindred spirit. "YES! Yes, I am."  I told him, "You might want to hide that shit."

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« Reply #21461 on: February 03, 2014, 08:37:49 PM »
Geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez, I can only imagine how quickly the light in his eyes faded and his smile crumbled under the realization. :lol
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« Reply #21462 on: February 03, 2014, 08:44:07 PM »
True story: The last USA office I worked at, one guy had a My Little Pony figure on his desk. I asked him, "Are you a brony?" and he kind of lit up, hoping he'd found a kindred spirit. "YES! Yes, I am."  I told him, "You might want to hide that shit."

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« Reply #21463 on: February 03, 2014, 08:55:56 PM »
Geeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeez, I can only imagine how quickly the light in his eyes faded and his smile crumbled under the realization. :lol

Actually, he moved to defend his choice to keep it on the desk, and that he believed in the power of friendship and love and blah blah blah.

To which I said, "Hey, look. The Legos can stay, and the {video game character redacted} figure just shows team spirit, but that brony crap is just damned creepy."

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« Reply #21464 on: February 03, 2014, 11:08:10 PM »
he probably went home that afternoon and posted a thread about dealing with discrimination on the job.
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« Reply #21466 on: February 04, 2014, 12:32:24 AM »
'oh i'll help you... help you DIE!!!"
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« Reply #21467 on: February 04, 2014, 02:45:27 AM »
OK, honestly, an 11-year-old kid into this? I'm OK with that. Even a boy, sure, no problem -- he's exploring gender identity's grayer areas, and that's swell. We all need things we can grow out of, and leave behind.

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The outpouring of support from the Bronies community has astonished the family.  Suttle left a message for Andrea Libman, who does the voice of Pinkie Pie, asking if she might send a message of support to Michael.  Libman was in South Australia on vacation, and she found a way to record a personal message for Suttle to play for Michael.  In addition, she got every member of the cast to record individual messages for the boy.

“When we play the My Little Pony messages for him, there is increased activity on the EEG,” Suttle said.

OK, that's just charming and great. If you aren't a little heart-warmed by that, I don't know what to say.

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« Reply #21468 on: February 04, 2014, 03:19:39 AM »
The feels when I read that, damn!  :'(

Sadly bullying is one thing about school that continues even to this day. I wish the kid knew he wasn't alone and felt he could talk to someone about it before it got this far. I remember why I went to private school was due to bullying. I only later realized that it might have been caused cause I was inviting the bullying by my behavior and how I acted. Still sucked being tied up to a tree with a jump rope and being beaten up, I can't forget it.

 

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« Reply #21469 on: February 04, 2014, 05:47:03 AM »
It's true though. I never believed friendship was worth anything until I watched a cartoon about ponies with butt tattoos.
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« Reply #21470 on: February 04, 2014, 06:33:20 PM »
I think my frying pan is gay.  I keep separating the hotdogs and they keep on rolling back together to touch and shit.

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« Reply #21471 on: February 04, 2014, 06:40:47 PM »
The feels when I read that, damn!  :'(

Sadly bullying is one thing about school that continues even to this day. I wish the kid knew he wasn't alone and felt he could talk to someone about it before it got this far. I remember why I went to private school was due to bullying. I only later realized that it might have been caused cause I was inviting the bullying by my behavior and how I acted. Still sucked being tied up to a tree with a jump rope and being beaten up, I can't forget it.

G, I worry that you're still bullied. That stuff in the relationship thread, it's worrying.

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« Reply #21472 on: February 04, 2014, 06:43:57 PM »
No sympathy for a grown ass man getting abused by his wife.
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« Reply #21473 on: February 04, 2014, 07:13:10 PM »
No sympathy for a grown ass man getting abused by his wife.

In all honesty, that's sexist -- unless you also have no sympathy for women who are abused by their husbands.

True, the gender roles would more commonly feature the male as abuser and female as codependent victim, but that's not the only pattern which presents in this type of relationship.

To take it one step further, if G's fiancée (whom he insists on calling "wife," as if to cement the relationship artificially) were institutionalized for her illness, would any of the caregiving physicians or nurses at the facility accept fry-pan abuse as an acceptable means to cure her? Would they allow themselves to be hit at all? No.

To me, G's willingness to accept this behavior from her not only delays his fiancée's treatment, but also speaks to the denial G harbors toward his own mental health.

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« Reply #21474 on: February 04, 2014, 08:45:03 PM »

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« Reply #21475 on: February 04, 2014, 09:05:20 PM »
No sympathy for a grown ass man getting abused by his wife.

In all honesty, that's sexist -- unless you also have no sympathy for women who are abused by their husbands.

True, the gender roles would more commonly feature the male as abuser and female as codependent victim, but that's not the only pattern which presents in this type of relationship.

To take it one step further, if G's fiancée (whom he insists on calling "wife," as if to cement the relationship artificially) were institutionalized for her illness, would any of the caregiving physicians or nurses at the facility accept fry-pan abuse as an acceptable means to cure her? Would they allow themselves to be hit at all? No.

To me, G's willingness to accept this behavior from her not only delays his fiancée's treatment, but also speaks to the denial G harbors toward his own mental health.

I have sympathy for women being abused by men, however I have none for men who are physically abused by women. I suppose that is sexist. I'm not suggesting that G or any man should violently defend himself (unless his life is being threatened of course). But the idea of a man allowing his wife or girlfriend to throw frying pans at him, lock him out of his own house, slap him in the face, demean him to his face, etc...I can't respect that.

Ultimately G's willingness to accept this behavior strikes me more as him feeling he can't find anyone else who will accept him - be it due to his weight or something else. G is smart, funny, and pretty loving based on his willingness to help multiple EBers. Why he stays with a vindictive, ugly person who mentally and physically abuses him is beyond me.


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« Reply #21476 on: February 04, 2014, 09:10:15 PM »
The Shield DVD set for $31. Has this ever been released on bluray? I've never seen it.

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No it hasn't.

That is a great deal.  I might buy this.  As a heads up, if you see the comments on the box set on the Amazon reviews talking about how hard it is to get the DVDs out, they are talking about the 2009 series set.  Some dumbass at Fox designed this really nice elaborate box set but it made it next to impossible to actually get the discs out without scratching the discs or tearing into the box set itself.  Really unfortunate.
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Re: New Random Talk Thread: Let the Bottom-Feeding Commence!
« Reply #21477 on: February 04, 2014, 09:16:15 PM »
PD, you seem to have a facile understanding of abusive relationships that is tripping you up. Read the hypotheticals Chrono posed again. The predominant underpinning of any abusive relationship is psychological,  it's not a might makes right type deal.

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Re: New Random Talk Thread: Let the Bottom-Feeding Commence!
« Reply #21478 on: February 05, 2014, 12:10:32 AM »
Today marked six years on the job for me. :cop
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Re: New Random Talk Thread: Let the Bottom-Feeding Commence!
« Reply #21479 on: February 05, 2014, 07:35:41 AM »
Today marked six years on the job for me. :cop

How many no-knock warrants does that translate into?  :heart
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