I'm not surprised people are giving up for easier games. This game is more obtuse than DeSo
Part of me wants to bail on this and grab
Demons' Souls, which was my original plan.

Yeah thats sounds like me. My butt still hurts from the rape.
But apperently this dude from work got to the same point as I did, in 7 hours . So I didn't even do that bad. But I just didn't feel like I accomplished anything in all that time 
I'm feeling REALLY familiar with the ass-clowns around Undead Burg's fire-camp.
Every time I stroll out of the tower, I feel like I should greet them by name as they're attacking. "Hey, crossbow dork! Hey, over-eager guy... remember this drop off the edge? Hey, it's those guys up there with the fire-bombs, how's it going? It's been, what, 10 minutes since I saw you last?"
So I've got a WHOLE bunch of crap armor and shields. Can I sell these? I didn't see any option for it in the Undead Burg Merchant. Should I just drop "cracked, wooden shields 1~6"? Is there encumbrance?
But more than any of that, can I stuff another of the same spell in my Attunement slots? If not, where can I get more spells?
edit: nvm, just found this:
A player cannot equip one spell to multiple slots, they can however buy multiple copies of the same spell/miracle from different vendors, which when equipped will combine for the total number of charges.