On a serious note, I try not to use distinguished mentally-challenged fellow but it slips a lot. I've been using it since I was kid, even if I never meant offense and sometimes bad habits are hard to break. I've never been fond of rape jokes, but then I like dead baby jokes. I use "gay" in sentences sometimes, but never really mean to offend gay people but that post really was gay, Spencer. Suicide jokes, depending on where you are and who you are, those can be funny. It's all in the delivery. I've been trying to lower my usage of cigarillo as well, but it's one of my favorite words. I mean just listen to it: cigarillo. Amazing.