Boogie:
There is an issue with rape prevention and the way its headed, and the "rape culture" PA stuff goes into this. So much has gone into making it feel safe for a women to come forward that the many important parts of the greater issue are being overlooked. The issue with the cop is his phrasing, but his inclusion of the idea probably offends people as well and that being offending is a big problem.
The definition of rape has been played with to the point that they've included gray areas into legal boundaries. There are ethical problems there. They are teaching a fear of male sexuality that is harmful to the issue. When you are extending rape to the point that includes a girl who decides to get drunk at a party and then a guy ends up sleeping with her without her specifically saying "yes I want this", then how that girl is dressed does comes into play. To think we are not sending messages by how we appear and that people do not receive these messages is silly.
I would say that overall the problem with rape prevention is that its extended itself into dating, and gender and sexual interaction. These are places that involve many more issues. You can't step into that realm of life and avoid the complexity, but rape prevention is trying to do that and it's not a good idea, even if its reasoning is noble.