I'll know what happened soonish, just PMd him. I like Mumei, always have and always will. We've debated that issue for years, and if Gaborn was still alive I'm sure he'd be in there with us.
I agree with Evillore's point but I disagree with shutting down the conversation and demodding someone who disagrees with him. That thread was going to get shut down eventually anyway BUT if you've participated in tranas threads before you'd have to acknowledge it was the most tame one yet. Everyone was respectful for the most part.
Attraction is not just a physical concept. If you cannot mentally get over the idea of someone being born a different sex and going through an imperfect physical transition to the gender they identify with...I cannot possibly see how that makes you a bigot. A bigot would be someone who refuses to acknowledge a trans person's transition, gets angry over what restroom they use, demands they not receive basic medical care that other members of the gender receive, etc.