My husband came home after a 2 days trip to the onsen with his coworkers, and immediately was like "Can I get a blow job?". Not "Hey babe, I really wanna satisfy your needs for once" Oh wait, he would never say that.
I've even tried to actively encourage him to go fuck other girls since we're splitting up anyway (but that's mostly to get him off my back until I move out). I don't mean to sound cold but I'm just not attracted to him anymore in any way. So I really don't see the point of harvesting some sex there since our sex life was so terrible.
He's been initiating sex a lot lately, which he hasn't done in years. It makes me wonder why.