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[Rahxephon91]

Whatever, I'm tired of having to play this shitty game with women.

I just spent the last week talking to that "married" girl and listening/reading all the sex stuff she wanted to do with me. Only to get played and told no.

If there was something that killed your interest in sex/the opposite sex I'd take it. Does any of that hormone stuff lower your sex drive and whatever?

[brawndolicious]

We've all at some point in time pursued somebody we shouldn't have and then been "disappointed". First you feel angry, then self-pity, then the guilt comes by to take a shit on your face.

You got to get through that anger-shit-face phase and accept  and move on to somebody else.

[Atramental]

My "ex" just broke up with her 3rd bf this year. 

[toku]

stop it

[CatsCatsCats]

Now's your chance to impregnate her

[Phoenix Dark]

Why not go back to your pawg for a FWB relationship as you look for a more permanent relationship elsewhere. Rebuild your stroke game as you prepare for the next challenge. Be a savage.

[thisismyusername]

Now's your chance to impregnate her

This. Now your chance to make that Facebook official longer than 24 hours. Go for it, bb.

I may or may not be drunk for this advice. Take it as you will.

Whatever, I'm tired of having to play this shitty game with women.

I just spent the last week talking to that "married" girl and listening/reading all the sex stuff she wanted to do with me. Only to get played and told no.

If there was something that killed your interest in sex/the opposite sex I'd take it. Does any of that hormone stuff lower your sex drive and whatever?

Shut the fuck up, you flaming homo. If I can get sex with a woman with zero-fucking interest in them, so can you. Stop being your depressed ass and actually move on when women shoot you down. You were working out, what the fuck happened to that? Focus on that, change your shitty attitude to where you don't exude Elliot Rodgers and you'll get into a girls pants eventually. Read that underlined word carefully and then repeat it to yourself.

I'm so tired of your bullshit, tbh.

[Atramental]

Why not go back to your pawg for a FWB relationship as you look for a more permanent relationship elsewhere. Rebuild your stroke game as you prepare for the next challenge. Be a savage.

I'm thinking about it...



edit: Any pointers?

[Rahxephon91]

Now's your chance to impregnate her

This. Now your chance to make that Facebook official longer than 24 hours. Go for it, bb.

I may or may not be drunk for this advice. Take it as you will.

Whatever, I'm tired of having to play this shitty game with women.

I just spent the last week talking to that "married" girl and listening/reading all the sex stuff she wanted to do with me. Only to get played and told no.

If there was something that killed your interest in sex/the opposite sex I'd take it. Does any of that hormone stuff lower your sex drive and whatever?

Shut the fuck up, you flaming homo. If I can get sex with a woman with zero-fucking interest in them, so can you. Stop being your depressed ass and actually move on when women shoot you down. You were working out, what the fuck happened to that? Focus on that, change your shitty attitude to where you don't exude Elliot Rodgers and you'll get into a girls pants eventually. Read that underlined word carefully and then repeat it to yourself.

I'm so tired of your bullshit, tbh.

Man this sure isn't the same shit I've heard forever.

Yeah eventually you'll find someone. Eventually you'll have some success. Eventually if you just "try" and "put yourself out there" you'll find something whatever the fuck that means.

Even though none of that ever actually eventually happens.

Change my shitty attitude? Why women only keep proving it correct.

So I'm tired of that bullshit.

[Madrun Badrun]

Why not go back to your pawg for a FWB relationship as you look for a more permanent relationship elsewhere. Rebuild your stroke game as you prepare for the next challenge. Be a savage.

Ya take advice from panic-mcgee here. 

BTW, is the next bore-con at your wedding?

[Atramental]

...

Bless up.

[tiesto]

Probably my favorite thing about my new (well, been there for 3 months) job is all the hot women there. Very diverse mix too, from PAWGs to Indians to Latinas and of course a few cute Japanese girls! Only problem is that like any large corp things are pretty segmented and people don't really talk too much cross-sector. Cute petite Indian girl introduced herself to me a few weeks back and a cute BBW black girl smiles at me in the hall and says hi - I know meeting at work opens up a whole bag of worms but I just wish I was able to introduce myself to random people and keep a convo going

Anyways - been talking every night to the one I met off Bumble, the 1st grade teacher. We're going for sushi tomorrow at a place near her - wish me luck!

[Joe Molotov]

So many matches and zero dates.

I just can't cut it in this Chad eat Beta/Virgin world.

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Did you feed it pizza?

[Phoenix Dark]

Why not go back to your pawg for a FWB relationship as you look for a more permanent relationship elsewhere. Rebuild your stroke game as you prepare for the next challenge. Be a savage.

I'm thinking about it...

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edit: Any pointers?

just DM or text her "hey..." and see what happens

[FreeNudeLyleLanley]

Change my shitty attitude? Why women only keep proving it correct.

Can we go back to hearing about that other guy having sex with a side piece instead of more of this garbage?

[Rahxephon91]

Change my shitty attitude? Why women only keep proving it correct.

Can we go back to hearing about that other guy having sex with a side piece instead of more of this garbage?

Please, I love having my ponint proven that many of you simply have success by simply existing and not putting that much effort into it.


"Oh look I just use tinder and bam".

[Madrun Badrun]

Rahx, I was successful on tinder and I can tell you it doesn't fix depression or low self esteem. 

[FreeNudeLyleLanley]

Change my shitty attitude? Why women only keep proving it correct.

Can we go back to hearing about that other guy having sex with a side piece instead of more of this garbage?

Please, I love having my ponint proven that many of you simply have success by simply existing and not putting that much effort into it.


"Oh look I just use tinder and bam".

I thought it was pretty clear that I wanted less of this. I'm trying to get hard here.

[Rahxephon91]

NVM

[CatsCatsCats]

I totally skate by because women want to sleep with me for who I am, the person I made myself.

[Madrun Badrun]

If you made yourself why do you have a bellybutton?

[CatsCatsCats]

Aesthetics

[CatsCatsCats]

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[toku]

learn to laugh at yourself, your life will also get a lot easier *100 emoji*

[bluemax]

See 99% match on OKC.

Last line of her profile "if you live on the West Side forget about it."

I live on the West Side

Stealth brag about you finding your Maria ?

Lulz no. She didn't respond.

[Rahxephon91]

NVM

[Bebpo]

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[recursivelyenumerable]

UPDATE

my gf continues to be amazing omgomgomgomgomg 

[Rahxephon91]

Man tinder is so great and easy.

Matched with two girls today, sent them messages, and was quickly unmatched by them.

Yeah women are so great. Tinder is such a great thing to use. Really coincidence building.

But hey maybe EVENTUALLY something good will happen.

[CatsCatsCats]

https://m.

[Atramental]

Man tinder is so great and easy.

Matched with two girls today, sent them messages, and was quickly unmatched by them.

Yeah women are so great. Tinder is such a great thing to use. Really coincidence building.

But hey maybe EVENTUALLY something good will happen.

What did you say?

[Atramental]

Also, against my better judgment... I'm messaging back my fling sometime today. Pray for me, brehs...

And if anyone has a secret crush on me speak now before I'm totally off the market. 

[Raist]

Season 2 brehs

 

[Atramental]

Season 2 brehs

 

She messaged me back super fast. Fuck. 

[Rahxephon91]

Man tinder is so great and easy.

Matched with two girls today, sent them messages, and was quickly unmatched by them.

Yeah women are so great. Tinder is such a great thing to use. Really coincidence building.

But hey maybe EVENTUALLY something good will happen.

What did you say?

I don't know since they deemed it so offensive they had to go further in their ignoring and un-match me. Either way it was something to do with their profiles, but like most women they were uninterested.

Rahx is the Ziggy Sobotka of Season 2.

I understood that reference.

[Raist]

Season 2 brehs

 

She messaged me back super fast. Fuck. 

Transcripts please.

[Atramental]

Had a little bit of an exchange and just asked her if she was free this weekend. No response yet. 

If she doesn't get back to me it's probably for the best.

[CatsCatsCats]

SMASH IT FROM SPACEEEEEEEEE

But seriously set limits and don't wifey this chick

[Atramental]

I'm no where near as horned up as I was back in December. 

edit: I really shouldn't be wasting my time with girls tbh. It's a distraction from what I should be doing: leaving my job for a better one and becoming a better designer/illustrator.

[Atramental]

Had a little bit of an exchange and just asked her if she was free this weekend. No response yet. 

If she doesn't get back to me it's probably for the best.

Need to figure out how to work around the whole "my sister is living with me" thing tho.   

edit: Just called my mom. Sister is moving in Sunday. We good. 

[brawndolicious]

Rahx, I'm sorry but everybody gets ghosted. Most people on tinder just want to see if other cute people think they're cute. No more, no less.

But if you want to evaluate your self worth by rejections that's cool. My advice is to be awesome enough that you want to date yourself. Practice jokes in your head until you make yourself laugh.

I'm no where near as horned up as I was back in December. 

edit: I really shouldn't be wasting my time with girls tbh. It's a distraction from what I should be doing: leaving my job for a better one and becoming a better designer/illustrator.

Mmhmm, that's wrong. Dating or just being social enough for a fling isn't going to distract you. If anything, it should make you more productive by not getting lonely and depressed.

[Rufus]

But if you want to evaluate your self worth by rejections that's cool. My advice is to be awesome enough that you want to date yourself. Practice jokes in your head until you make yourself laugh.

Don't ever do this in public, though.

[Rufus]

I don't even know who you're mixing me up with.

[Mupepe]

Mixing you up with Dufus

[CatsCatsCats]

And yeah, I also got a ton of ghosting matches when I first started tinder. Numbers game.

[Atramental]

Basically, 1 out of 75 to 100 right swipes I'll get a match. And 1 out of 10 matches I'll get a response. And maybe (if I'm lucky) 1 out of 10 girls that respond back to me will try to line up a date.

[Samson Manhug]

Rahx, don't take things so personally. You're too hard on yourself. And don't date. With your current mindset it can only make things worse.

[Rufus]

Mixing you up with Dufus

Of course.  Pff.

For the record, Jack, I will shitpost one-liners wherever I damn well please.
Can't shame the shameless.

[Raist]

edit: Just called my mom. Sister is moving in Sunday. We good. 

Just in time for your Facebook status update, how cool is that!

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[Rahxephon91]

Rahx, don't take things so personally. You're too hard on yourself. And don't date. With your current mindset it can only make things worse.

Well then I guess it's another decade and then some of waiting for the EVENTUAL. I sure hope the single 40 year old women are happy with someone who is super un-experienced.

[CatsCatsCats]

bro, if it takes you til you're 40 to get hung together -- a) that's fine b) you don't gotta date in your age range

Lots of fine ladies in the world who want an older guy. And women statistically get hotter every fresh batch 

[tiesto]

Got back from my date, kinda hard to gauge how it went, I felt like maybe at the end I got too comfortable and started talking about pointless shit again as I have a habit of doing. At the end of the date when walking to my car she thought I was following her and asked if I was following her... that was kinda weird?

Oh well, guess I'll text her tomorrow and see if she responds. Also gonna try to email these 2 other people from Match and see if they're interested in going out.

[Bebpo]

Got back from my date, kinda hard to gauge how it went, I felt like maybe at the end I got too comfortable and started talking about pointless shit again as I have a habit of doing. At the end of the date when walking to my car she thought I was following her and asked if I was following her... that was kinda weird?

Oh well, guess I'll text her tomorrow and see if she responds. Also gonna try to email these 2 other people from Match and see if they're interested in going out.

Yeah, that's kinda weird. And not on you, but her. Like is it so weird that people at the same place may have parked in the same general area and be walking back in the same direction? Seems pretty normal unless you both parked down some alleyway or something.

[Valkyrie]

How embarrassing (for her).

[CatsCatsCats]

This is why you gotta do the whole "I'm that way" thing

[Rahxephon91]

And yeah, I also got a ton of ghosting matches when I first started tinder. Numbers game.

Yeah and then not long into your tinder use you found an attractive girl you easily had sex with.

I swipe right on every girl so thats 100 swipes a day and maybe get 1 every week that I find attractive and I sure haven't had sex from any tinder use. I've been using it for about a year.

But yes it's fine that I will continue to have a dry spell and be emotionally unsatisfied until I'm in my 40s. There's no way that won't fuck me up. I also won't feel at all bitter about wasting my prime years.

[Beezy]

Rahx, you're already fucked up. You have such a shitty attitude towards women. You want a relationship with one so bad, yet you never have anything positive to say about them.

[CatsCatsCats]

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[TakingBackSunday]

Rahx I really think you should keep away from dating and see a therapist.  It will truly help.

[Rahxephon91]

Rahx, you're already fucked up. You have such a shitty attitude towards women. You want a relationship with one so bad, yet you never have anything positive to say about them.

Why would I have anything positive to say? I've been rejected, ignored, and played by them my whole life. 

I did see a therapist and it was such a waste of time.