So another quick update on myself.
The gym is going ok. I try to go at night because well one I don't like to be around tons of people and two,I'm still trying to find my jive and get over gym imitation. People are cool and well I don't know as I've grown up(this may be raciest, sorry) I find myself far more comfortable around other minorities. I just find blacks, asians, and Latinos to be far more chill and thats what makes up most of the gym I go to. No, overly bro type white dudes. I'm still a scrawny dude, but some muscle definition is taking hold, or rather I think it is when I flex really hard. It feels good. It feels nice to just work out for 2 or 3 hours listening to some music(The Persona 5 battle theme and Nier Ost get me pumped) or a podcast alone. It's relaxing and I guess I've opened myself up to something new. You guys were right. Who knows if I've found a new hobby, but so far I don't dislike it.
As for the girl thing. Well the girl from before...Well again I don't think anything will happen. We're just friends, but maybe if I keep playing it chill and cool something will develop. Yes, I know the key is to not plan on it.
Well anyway, I was at work and she sends me a snapchat of what she's drinking right now. I reply and we get into a conversation about mothers and families. She tells me she's at the bar with her mom and family. She asks what am I doing, which I say I'm at work and then later I remind her I'm getting off work. Which she then tells me I should come out. She'll teach me to dance and it will be fun. Well I'm like, you can't turn that down and I need to develop my social links. So of course I go. I meet some members of her family and I talk to her. At first she sits across from me but then moves to the seat right next to me as we continued talking. It was a solid night and honestly probably one of the few nights I've been the most in the zone chill and socially wise.
So I don't know. I'm just going to continue playing it cool, but I think this is all very positive.