Author Topic: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011 (Read 1934493 times)

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #4560 on:** April 21, 2018, 10:54:56 PM »

Just look at a pretty stranger from across the room with an expression like something awkward just happened. Bowl cut optional.

tehjaybo · « **Reply #4561 on:** April 21, 2018, 11:13:59 PM »

I kinda feel like getting some Chinese food.

tiesto · « **Reply #4562 on:** April 22, 2018, 08:33:37 PM »

Quote from: tehjaybo on April 21, 2018, 11:13:59 PM

I kinda feel like getting some Chinese food.

Yesterday, I had cumin lamb from this new Szechuan place that opened in town and it was incredible...

Atramental · « **Reply #4563 on:** April 24, 2018, 07:05:34 PM »

Now that I've deleted tinder again for the 100th time I'm going to frequent some different bars in my area each weekend and get the "lay of the land" so to speak.

Huff · « **Reply #4564 on:** April 24, 2018, 09:38:22 PM »

No brewery in the area? That’s the new hot thing

Olivia Wilde Homo · « **Reply #4565 on:** April 24, 2018, 09:44:56 PM »

Quote from: Huff on April 24, 2018, 09:38:22 PM

No brewery in the area? That’s the new hot thing

Also local wineries

Huff · « **Reply #4566 on:** April 24, 2018, 10:44:29 PM »

I used to ride solo to breweries all the time and spend hours out

Dunno if wineries have the same feel

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #4567 on:** April 24, 2018, 10:50:12 PM »

But you know what they have at breweries? Beer.

Atramental · « **Reply #4568 on:** April 24, 2018, 10:52:14 PM »

Yeah, due to my gluten allergy/sensitivity I can't really drink much beer anymore.

And gluten free beer isn't that common and the ones I've tried are kinda meh.

CatsCatsCats · « **Reply #4569 on:** April 24, 2018, 10:53:25 PM »

Cider tho 🤷‍♀️

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #4570 on:** April 26, 2018, 09:12:55 PM »

Don't give up, everyone. You'll find the one in time

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BlueTsunami · « **Reply #4571 on:** April 26, 2018, 09:59:58 PM »

Never Scat but theres a sweet and sour titillation to cakefarts. Like seeing a homeless dude slice up a beautiful work of art. I guess I still have a moral bottom to work towards to reach scat.

Bebpo · « **Reply #4572 on:** April 27, 2018, 12:53:23 AM »

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team filler · « **Reply #4573 on:** April 27, 2018, 02:37:56 AM »

I saw before you edited

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #4574 on:** April 27, 2018, 09:33:56 AM »

Did I miss Beb's dick pic?

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #4575 on:** April 27, 2018, 10:58:22 AM »

It looked like a very muscular gundam

Atramental · « **Reply #4576 on:** April 27, 2018, 12:15:01 PM »

fuck. wrong thread.

seagrams hotsauce · « **Reply #4577 on:** April 27, 2018, 12:52:20 PM »

i too posted in the wrong thread

VomKriege · « **Reply #4578 on:** April 29, 2018, 03:14:23 AM »

At last, mutual match

She did hit the button in the middle of the night so she was probably pissed

With an intense sounding expat. Guess we'll see how things flow.

VomKriege · « **Reply #4579 on:** April 29, 2018, 01:13:07 PM »

She's reading forty non fiction books a year too. Will be on the lookout for a Chairman Meow avatar

Edit : she unmatched.

Assimilate · « **Reply #4580 on:** April 30, 2018, 12:16:58 AM »

bizarre shit but i'm dating a girl i can't figure out if i'm the one that actually doesn't like her, if she's the one that doesn't like me or if we don't actually like each other. something is off.

However, we're still dating

Mupepe · « **Reply #4581 on:** April 30, 2018, 08:35:54 AM »

you'll probably end up married to her.

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #4582 on:** April 30, 2018, 10:17:52 AM »

Yeah. Be careful with that shit. Comfort <> Love.

Assimilate · « **Reply #4583 on:** April 30, 2018, 12:27:54 PM »

I've gone through the whole convenience and comfort thing before. It definitely has that aspect, it's beneficial for me right now in some ways and for her as well. So yeah it's tricky.

There's a big IF hanging over my life right now. I may actually get a job 100% remote where i can stay wherever i want and that is hanging over my head.... i can easily stay by the beach and my god the amount of women that would be rolling through.... do i really need someone bitching at me all the time? do i have to live up to some other persons expectations? Or can i continuously just live like a 20something year old bachelor for the rest of my life?

Is marriage for fools that need the convenience? these are questions and doubts i am having. I don't see a single male that is married say "man my life is wonderful" $:-\$

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #4584 on:** April 30, 2018, 12:32:44 PM »

Man, my married life is wonderful.**

** = Note: I am one of maybe 5 guys I know that can say that out of the dozens I know that are married.

Mupepe · « **Reply #4585 on:** April 30, 2018, 12:41:19 PM »

My life is wonderful and we'll be 9 years married in September.

Assimilate · « **Reply #4586 on:** April 30, 2018, 12:59:58 PM »

do they feel the same?

last time i had a friend tell me he was happy and content in his marriage she left him shortly after

VomKriege · « **Reply #4587 on:** May 02, 2018, 03:57:02 AM »

I'm already jaded about online dating. Nothing too original I guess. Makes you hyper aware that you're not unique and neither are any profile you're reading (grinding through thousands of samey bios has been a non ending existential crisis). Like everyone I thought it would ease the first steps but it's just a giant market and a cut throat one. My photos are pretty shit so maybe it's on me but on the other hand it seems incredibly phoney to make more tailored to that purpose. I'll probably never fuck that occasional colleague I fancy but at least I can barrage her with terrible jokes, it's more enjoyable than hundreds of wipes.

I guess I just need to work at getting my life straight, do charity work (it's on the way), pick up a sport and find a hip bar nearby (though honestly I sort of dread becoming a drunk pillar creepily gazing at gals). I'll probably keep the OkCupid profile up for a couple of weeks just in case one of my messages connect.

toku · « **Reply #4588 on:** May 02, 2018, 12:51:55 PM »

Time spent enjoying yourself is never time wasted, bless up.

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #4589 on:** May 02, 2018, 01:46:08 PM »

Quote from: Assimilate on April 30, 2018, 12:59:58 PM

do they feel the same?

last time i had a friend tell me he was happy and content in his marriage she left him shortly after

Obviously I can't speak for my wife's feelings. Of course, I'd expect her to say yes, but that's really not up to me to say. And I'm sure there's plenty of people that feel they have a great relationship while their partner doesn't feel the same way. That being said, you do sorta get the "spidey sense" for these people that are one sided.

TakingBackSunday · « **Reply #4590 on:** May 02, 2018, 02:10:46 PM »

I have a ring lined up

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #4591 on:** May 02, 2018, 02:33:57 PM »

Quote from: JayDubya on May 02, 2018, 01:07:23 PM

Meh. Comfort is better than nothing.

Cold comfort is better than nothing.

I disagree. Cold comfort doesn't come for free. There's a huge opportunity cost. You're essentially giving up possible opportunities to find a true comfort. My bro is in this trap. He's like "It's bad, but better than being alone" I don't agree. You're trapped in a non-optimal position and giving up possible better situations to do so. I get the fear that there wont be a better situation, and that's true in some cases, but you can't say for sure.

Mupepe · « **Reply #4592 on:** May 02, 2018, 02:53:53 PM »

I guess that's true if you consider not completely satisfied better than being single. I think I'd rather be single than always wishing I had something else. If I was single at least I could be fucking fat chicks on an island off the coast of Costa Rica. Truly spectacular. I'd spare no expense.

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #4593 on:** May 02, 2018, 03:11:38 PM »

Yeah, I guess that it comes down to personality. I'd rather have nothing and work towards what I want than to settle with something that I was complacent with, even if that means I never get there. I'd rather try and fail and know I at least tried than to be caught in a "What if I had acted?" scenario.

Everyone is in different places and have different factors in their decisions. I'm just in the camp of better to have tried and failed camp.

Note: I wasn't always like this. I was in that complacent space and really tried to hold on to it. But now I'm definitely on the other side. The loneliness/slog of being where you're just "comfortable" is too high a price for me.

Atramental · « **Reply #4594 on:** May 02, 2018, 03:16:06 PM »

I'm gonna hold out for the hyper realistic sex bots or a VR body suit, at this point.

VomKriege · « **Reply #4595 on:** May 03, 2018, 04:52:48 AM »

More online dating french buzzwords : "attachiante" who contracts "attachante" et "chiante" and that I would approximate to "adornagle" or "cu(n)te".

I have learned that women love to laugh, party, eat, listen, travel, read and go to the cinema.

Rufus · « **Reply #4596 on:** May 03, 2018, 06:11:13 AM »

Quote from: VomKriege on May 03, 2018, 04:52:48 AM

I have learned that women loves to laugh, party, eat, listen, travel, read and go to the cinema.

What is man? A miserable little pile of clichés picked at random.

thisismyusername · « **Reply #4597 on:** May 03, 2018, 11:24:02 AM »

Quote from: Mupepe on May 02, 2018, 02:53:53 PM

I'd spare no expense.

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If I was single at least I could be fucking fat chicks on an island off the coast of Costa Rica.

Your scientists were so preoccupied with whether or not they could, they didn’t stop to think if they should.

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #4598 on:** May 04, 2018, 11:54:41 PM »

Is it wrong to be attracted to women who look/seem like they want to eviscerate you? And yet I am not a masocist. No boners from that.

VomKriege · « **Reply #4599 on:** May 05, 2018, 08:32:08 AM »

Progress. Who knows ? Maybe I'll have to thank agrajag for pointing me to Heart of a Dog, she loves that and it gives the impression I'm much more Russian savvy than I am (she's apparently from Russia, Asian features and a Buddhist which is not the most common type we'd see over here but not that unlikely either, maybe Mongol ancestry ? Being the Parisian snob I am, I like that.).

Will report if love blooms on the app battlefield and if she's inclined for a drink.

VomKriege · « **Reply #4600 on:** May 05, 2018, 08:47:01 AM »

So yes you're probably speaking to the next Croissant Khan the Merciless. Show deference today and I'll remember to reward it.

VomKriege · « **Reply #4601 on:** May 05, 2018, 09:12:35 AM »

I'LL HAVE YOUR HEAD FOR THIS AND WILL BOIL DOWN THE REST FOR MY ENJOYMENT.

Assimilate · « **Reply #4602 on:** May 05, 2018, 04:43:24 PM »

i can't believe how much weight this girl has gained since we began seeing each other like WTF. All of a sudden she doesn't care about the gym anymore.

A girl with a pot belly is the most unattractive thing ever and it seems like she's shooting for one.

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #4603 on:** May 06, 2018, 03:16:59 PM »

I mean I mostly like the suicide girl stuff because the tattooed up girls look tough and look like they could beat me up.

I'm attracted to more take charge women.

Which probably says a bit about me.

CatsCatsCats · « **Reply #4604 on:** May 06, 2018, 04:10:18 PM »

Who doesn’t love a challenge?

Bebpo · « **Reply #4605 on:** May 06, 2018, 04:10:54 PM »

Ok, the new OKC messaging system is crazy! I started messaging people for the first time in months and was having a couple of conversations back and forth that were going well. Then I went out for the day yesterday and went drinking after and got home and passed out. Figured I'd reply to those message chains this morning. I go on to the site and the message chains are gone, which apparently means the person got so upset I didn't respond back within X amount of hours that they unmatched me.

I guess that probably happened with some regularity in the past, but because the message chains wouldn't vanish, I'd never be aware of it. Feels like now there's more pressure to constantly reply every couple hours or the other person will walk. Kinda sucks when you have a life. I don't like to do dating stuff on my phone when I'm out doing active things with social pals. I find dating kinda a private thing. Heh.

mormapope · « **Reply #4606 on:** May 07, 2018, 10:55:48 AM »

Started a lovely friendship with a lady, text each other everyday, we're both depressed and very honest and straight up with each other. Was mouth fucked by her and one of her dildos within the first hour of meeting up. Breast fed her tits while watching TV last nite after eating dinner.

Life and living is good.

team filler · « **Reply #4607 on:** May 07, 2018, 12:13:58 PM »

Atramental · « **Reply #4608 on:** May 07, 2018, 12:17:08 PM »

mormapope · « **Reply #4609 on:** May 07, 2018, 01:23:43 PM »

Yes, she has a kink for penetrating people. I told her I might ease into anal but it isn't a biggy.

team filler · « **Reply #4610 on:** May 07, 2018, 01:25:20 PM »

team filler · « **Reply #4611 on:** May 07, 2018, 02:45:18 PM »

Atramental · « **Reply #4612 on:** May 08, 2018, 12:51:31 PM »

Totally random but gaffer Spinningdash is friends with my ex’s new bf. Small world.

brawndolicious · « **Reply #4613 on:** May 08, 2018, 01:06:32 PM »

How do you know that?

Atramental · « **Reply #4614 on:** May 08, 2018, 01:08:08 PM »

I never forget a face, he has mutual gaffer friends, and I saw him liking their relationship status.

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #4615 on:** May 08, 2018, 01:24:21 PM »

Dude. You need to let that ex go man.

I feel like every other post you make is about this ex you had for a few weeks.

seagrams hotsauce · « **Reply #4616 on:** May 08, 2018, 02:00:35 PM »

""""""ex""""""

Raist · « **Reply #4617 on:** May 08, 2018, 03:22:53 PM »

"""""weeks"""""

Atramental · « **Reply #4618 on:** May 08, 2018, 05:28:38 PM »

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #4619 on:** May 08, 2018, 06:05:48 PM »

((((jew)))

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