Ya'll really need to stop running metrics on the number of women who respond to you vs the number of women you swipe right or message on. Any woman on a dating site who has the slightest idea how to take pictures of herself is inundated with dick pics and lame come ons, in that order, from dudes who she at first glance judged to not be pervy or wack. Don't take getting curved by 99% of the chicks you match with personally, just try to become more interesting and less personally attached. These are fellow strangers taking shots in the dark. Be weird, but not creepy. Like I think Atra was onto something with the duck bit, despite my suspicions that it's something he found on 4chan or whatever; it's super corny, but it's cute and harmlessly weird