I'm starting to think Rahx is just lazy. If he really wanted it he'd be out there finding a way instead of lamenting the injustices of e-dating. Blame yourself or God.
Lazy? Maybe. But if I was I don't think I would keep trying these things out. I don't know what I'm being lazy about though. I could probably find a way to take better pictures for my online profiles. I mean yes thats something I need to do and would maybe help. But at the end of the day I really don't like online dating. I feel it's pretty hard to vibe with and get to know someone. It's not a good way to get a feel and make a connection. At least not for someone with my personality. I like to slowly get comfortable with a person. Online dating throws them right at you and I feel you burn out of excitement with people much easier.
In real life there's currently no one who interests me, but I'm not really looking either so I guess I'm lazy. But upon reflection I know I've had some opportunties that I screwed up, but that dosen't mean eventually more wont show up. But I guess my problem is I'm just waiting, but I also don't know how you don't wait.
But it's hard to find a way out when you keep getting contradictory info, which was pretty much my point in this thread. Plenty of people are "oh height dosen't matter", but then quickly negate that by basically saying height is'nt an issue for them anyway because they are tall. It's why I find dating advice here beyond I guess "be a decent person" to be kind of useless. But even that advice can become messy.
I mean you have people like Assi giving advice here and most of it's pretty shitty, coated in some shitty women hating bro shit, but not 100% wrong.
But I don't think my lamenting of e-dating is wrong. Most of the posts here about height confirm that. Online dating is harder if you don't hit certain points. People are very checklist and specific about what they want. I don't think people are as discriminating about height as that okcupid graph would lead you to believe.
The hilarious thing is I'm obviously way shorter than you and I still fuck. Throw down the crutches and walk already.
Joking or not, you yourself said your ethnicity helped with your appeal giving you some advantage, just like those who are tall. So even you agree that physical aspects help with your appeal.