It's okay to believe women, it's okay to even believe the accused, what's not okay is to talk mad shit about one or the other sans evidence as a bystander, especially if you're @ing them directly.
Of course; so call those people out as harassers. Labeling an entire forum murderers is just.. I dunno.. what's that word. Hypocritical?
Literally “not all Era members” mentality. Lol. Amazing and ironic.
of course that only works if you buy into the "not all" culture
A: "all men are trash and abusers
"
B: "well just logically it can't be ALL men, there are a ton of people in this world, and I mean I'm a man and haven't abused anyone and I know lots of other good people too"
A: "haha gottem
look at this fragile snowflake over here lmao
we're talking about a SYSTEMIC problem here sweetie, if you think 'all' men refers to you specifically then hey a hit dog hollers
we have male allies who stay silent or have enough self-loathing to agree with us so #sitdown and #listen"
if that's bullshit then notallera is too
but you can wield it if you think you have any hope to prove a point to someone deep in that mindset