Doxxing Files |OT| Do not use a pandemic to make a platform wars thread

[TVC15]

Boy, what’s with all the PIG-HOLE SUPER-SOFT MORPH SILICONE FUCKPLUG ads I’m seeing lately?

[Lonewulfeus]

I'd be paint on the wall of whichever room in Buckingham palace is used the most for all their secret talks. Plus it would be cozy.

How about you?

 

[benjipwns]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/essay-by-howard-bryant-trumps-election-was-personal-its-white-americas-vicious-backlash-to-black-success.171606/post-29346895

God, the black people that use Era are the most white liberal people in the world.  Smug, entitled, semi-educated, righteous loners who know how to solve everyone's problems as long as they agree with them.

Oh finally someone read my complaints and...

Which is why we should have let Sherman finish the job and hang every Confederate they could find, but instead we allowed Lincoln's assassination to be the end of progress to assuage the losing side, and put an end to any thoughts of a level playing field in both the North and South

responded completely ahistorically.

Lincoln wanted to "let em up easy" and held the position that they never left the Union therefore they were citizens. Sherman was not a murderer and heavily punished his soldiers that did wanton damage and pillaging.  The South he rode through was pretty much only rural, poor AND black; which was one reason he had it so easy. The military occupation of the South came years after Lincoln's death under the Grant Administration. Not to mention that... actually, no, I'm not even grading this. Just redo it, no deadline.

[ldcommando (notthegafone)]

Ultimate boys club thread:

https://www.resetera.com/threads/did-anyone-else-thing-penis-pump-blows-into-penis.172379/

[benjipwns]

How is it a boys club thread?

[Mr. Gundam]

They locked the photo thread under the guise of anti-racism. Makes sense. :-/

[HaughtyFrank]

They locked the photo thread under the guise of anti-racism. Makes sense. :-/

Racism- in this specific case anti-black racism- is culturally omnipresent in western society. This is not only to appease our black members from recent events; it's to recognize that there is no shortage of statistical evidence out there demonstrating this fact in nearly all matters of life, all the way down to subconscious beliefs, and as staff we should act accordingly. To suggest then that incidents of conflict between individuals of different racial statuses is totally free of racial bias just because there is no uncharacteristically overt proof, to hand-wave the reality of life of our black members as mere "feelings" that warrant no consideration, especially in cases like these where white people weaponize American police against black people for minor incidents of conflict, now counts dismissive of concerns of racism, and is no longer acceptable on this forum. The bans on this front will not be appealed.

This does not mean that both subjects of this story were not wrong in other ways, and the relative minimal amount of staff actions should communicate that we simultaneously believe the issues regarding photographer rights and etiquette, and Hillary Duff's contentious history with paparazzi harassing her and her family, were valid issues to discuss. However, the thread has now devolved into flaming, and will be closed and reviewed.

I love the final veiled threat of "reviewing" the thread.

Also their reasoning for the bans completely ignore when black members disagree that there was racism involved.

[Coitus]

There we go. In any conflict between a black and white person, the white person is being racist because of statistics.  Glad to have anti-gay transphobe B-Dumbs confirm it.   

[benjipwns]

They should discuss this serious topic instead:

White Gay Men Are Destroying Queer Black Lives With “Party ‘n’ Play” Sex And Meth Addiction

[Hermit]

I'm glad I never tried to appeal my perma ban. What a wasteland.

[HaughtyFrank]

There we go. In any conflict between a black and white person, the white person is being racist because of statistics.  Glad to have anti-gay transphobe B-Dumbs confirm it.

Also great that they acknowledge that the rules changed without informing anyone else on the forum.

, now counts dismissive of concerns of racism, and is no longer acceptable on this forum

[Lonewulfeus]

Ultimate boys club thread:

https://www.resetera.com/threads/did-anyone-else-thing-penis-pump-blows-into-penis.172379/

You forgot about all the feminine penii and the very real issue of erectile dysfunction women everywhere are facing.

[Averon]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/the-mental-health-of-this-community-read-staff-post-before-posting.172243/page-11#post-29458586

But when you have people with 10,000 posts and you know this is their primary source of connection, then you couple that with constant negativity, this will only continue.

No it wasn’t a shot lol. Sorry if it came off as such. I was at that number, or close to it, at the old place. My point was that when you have that many posts on a forum, again, speaking from experience, it’s clearly your primary source of social interaction

Looks like Greg touched a nerve with some. 

[BisMarckie]

the relative minimal amount of staff actions

There were 15 bans in that thread

[benjipwns]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/the-mental-health-of-this-community-read-staff-post-before-posting.172243/post-29454784

Another thing we take into account as staff- and I think would help members as well before even jumping into threads- is understanding the reality of ERA's existence in relation to the Internet at large.

1.) We didn't just break off from the old place. We took a bunch of folks with us, the same folks people here complain also made the old place insufferable.

2) We are actively watched and hounded by alt-right groups.

3.) The alt-right thrives on the burden of innocence- that without proof of bigotry, it ceases to exist- for the sake of gaslighting and trolling.

The members here who are most vulnerable are going to interpret posts differently from others in these contexts, and it's not necessarily an indictment of the person posting either. It's a reflex to protect one's self.

The person you quoted was not even referring to anyone here as Nazis, rather the old place post-separation. But on the other side of the coin, you would be hard-pressed to say this place doesn't shut out minorities when staff have been trying to make inroads to various minority groups for them feeling, well, shut out. Whether or not it's intentional isn't really the point- the point is it's understandable why someone would interpret further dismissal of their experiences to be a result of further fracturing the forum.

Again, ERA is going to be the place we collectively make it. If you want to work towards the goal of it being a positive, progressive haven, then not getting upset at a minority for posting from their point of view would be a start.

[ShutUp]

Since you know he reads this thread...

Hey Nepenthe, YOU are the source of a lot of misery on that site. Get the fuck out of that mental health thread you piece of shit.

[clothedmacuser]

The bans on this front will not be appealed.

This does not mean that both subjects of this story were not wrong in other ways, and the relative minimal amount of staff actions should communicate that we simultaneously believe the issues regarding photographer rights and etiquette, and Hillary Duff's contentious history with paparazzi harassing her and her family, were valid issues to discuss. However, the thread has now devolved into flaming, and will be closed and reviewed.

Both sides were equally at fault here however one side was more equally at fault.  The "encouragement vacations" given to those who were equally, but more, at fault will not be removed.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/the-mental-health-of-this-community-read-staff-post-before-posting.172243/post-29454784

Another thing we take into account as staff- and I think would help members as well before even jumping into threads- is understanding the reality of ERA's existence in relation to the Internet at large.

1.) We didn't just break off from the old place. We took a bunch of folks with us, the same folks people here complain also made the old place insufferable.

2) We are actively watched and hounded by alt-right groups.

3.) The alt-right thrives on the burden of innocence- that without proof of bigotry, it ceases to exist- for the sake of gaslighting and trolling.

The members here who are most vulnerable are going to interpret posts differently from others in these contexts, and it's not necessarily an indictment of the person posting either. It's a reflex to protect one's self.

The person you quoted was not even referring to anyone here as Nazis, rather the old place post-separation. But on the other side of the coin, you would be hard-pressed to say this place doesn't shut out minorities when staff have been trying to make inroads to various minority groups for them feeling, well, shut out. Whether or not it's intentional isn't really the point- the point is it's understandable why someone would interpret further dismissal of their experiences to be a result of further fracturing the forum.

Again, ERA is going to be the place we collectively make it. If you want to work towards the goal of it being a positive, progressive haven, then not getting upset at a minority for posting from their point of view would be a start.

If you are told you are wrong it must be because you are wrong.  Wrong people aren't called wrong unless they are wrong.

[BrokenEchelon]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/the-mental-health-of-this-community-read-staff-post-before-posting.172243/

Maybe all you miserable fucks are suicidal because you spend your entire lives in an echochamber that theorycrafts the latest ways you can victimize yourselves. Go fuck a (real) woman, or actually play a video game without combing it over for "problematic" and "toxic" themes you mentally fragile shitheels. You might experience joy for once.

Just kidding, I know the only joy you'll derive from your worthless lives is finding new ways of bathing in your illusory woes.

[benjipwns]

https://twitter.com/PaulNichols2042/status/1233153118218727428

[railGUN]

They locked the photo thread under the guise of anti-racism. Makes sense. :-/

Racism- in this specific case anti-black racism- is culturally omnipresent in western society. This is not only to appease our black members from recent events; it's to recognize that there is no shortage of statistical evidence out there demonstrating this fact in nearly all matters of life, all the way down to subconscious beliefs, and as staff we should act accordingly. To suggest then that incidents of conflict between individuals of different racial statuses is totally free of racial bias just because there is no uncharacteristically overt proof, to hand-wave the reality of life of our black members as mere "feelings" that warrant no consideration, especially in cases like these where white people weaponize American police against black people for minor incidents of conflict, now counts dismissive of concerns of racism, and is no longer acceptable on this forum. The bans on this front will not be appealed.

This does not mean that both subjects of this story were not wrong in other ways, and the relative minimal amount of staff actions should communicate that we simultaneously believe the issues regarding photographer rights and etiquette, and Hillary Duff's contentious history with paparazzi harassing her and her family, were valid issues to discuss. However, the thread has now devolved into flaming, and will be closed and reviewed.

I love the final veiled threat of "reviewing" the thread.

Also their reasoning for the bans completely ignore when black members disagree that there was racism involved.

They are legitimately fucking crazy. How you can type that with a straight face is beyond me. If two random people, one white, one black, have any sort of conflict, and one of our black members thinks it's racist, then it's racist and anything short of complete agreement = ban. Batshit. Fucking. Insane.

[clothedmacuser]

we simultaneously believe the issues regarding photographer rights and etiquette, and Hillary Duff's contentious history with paparazzi harassing

Photographer rights is how they frame it.  Like he was a war correspondent in Salvador.






I laugh, I cry, and then I realize these people I somehow met are made fun of by everyone and I laugh again.

[Cauliflower Of Love]

We're going to keep this thread open for now, so long as it doesn't turn into a second primary OT. The point of this thread is to discuss the article itself, not the finer points of various candidates or who you support and why. If you guys can't do that, then we'll lock the thread again. For good this time.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/ny-times-democratic-leaders-willing-to-risk-party-damage-to-stop-bernie-sanders.172385/post-29460912


Electric blanket annihilated

https://www.resetera.com/threads/nyt-democratic-leaders-willing-to-risk-party-damage-to-stop-bernie-sanders.172271/

[DJ Bedroom]

They locked the photo thread under the guise of anti-racism. Makes sense. :-/

Racism- in this specific case anti-black racism- is culturally omnipresent in western society. This is not only to appease our black members from recent events; it's to recognize that there is no shortage of statistical evidence out there demonstrating this fact in nearly all matters of life, all the way down to subconscious beliefs, and as staff we should act accordingly. To suggest then that incidents of conflict between individuals of different racial statuses is totally free of racial bias just because there is no uncharacteristically overt proof, to hand-wave the reality of life of our black members as mere "feelings" that warrant no consideration, especially in cases like these where white people weaponize American police against black people for minor incidents of conflict, now counts dismissive of concerns of racism, and is no longer acceptable on this forum. The bans on this front will not be appealed.

This does not mean that both subjects of this story were not wrong in other ways, and the relative minimal amount of staff actions should communicate that we simultaneously believe the issues regarding photographer rights and etiquette, and Hillary Duff's contentious history with paparazzi harassing her and her family, were valid issues to discuss. However, the thread has now devolved into flaming, and will be closed and reviewed.

I love the final veiled threat of "reviewing" the thread.

Also their reasoning for the bans completely ignore when black members disagree that there was racism involved.

They are legitimately fucking crazy. How you can type that with a straight face is beyond me. If two random people, one white, one black, have any sort of conflict, and one of our black members thinks it's racist, then it's racist and anything short of complete agreement = ban. Batshit. Fucking. Insane.

I mean, at least they're openly admitting to it now

[benjipwns]

you want to take another shot at this one mods?



there ya go

[benjipwns]

I've seen threads where people directly cite the the "state of the world", "climate change", "fascism" as a direct cause of their hopelessness and driving force to why they feel suicidal. The entire OT is a pool of hopelessness and nihilistic feedback loops. I'm not claiming ERA is causing people to become suicidal, I'm saying that it's a factor that can drive people deeper into depression or the feeling of hopelessness due to how they view the media they consume on ERA to be "informed".

TBH I don't see the difference if you're claiming it can lead to depression and we know depression leads to suicidal ideation. And like, yeah, there's a lot of people who feel hopeless for good reason. Minorities are in a really bad way right now being constantly bullied and targeted, there's so much division, the least we can do is give struggling people an outlet.

[Mr. Gundam]

Struggling people should go talk to someone who’s trained and won’t lead them astray or accidentally set them off with a well meaning mistake. Era is not a healthy place for people who are struggling with their emotions and worldview.

Shit, I’m happy with life and I see a therapist every three weeks.

[benjipwns]

Just noticed that he also said "we know depression leads to suicidal ideation" except we don't. This isn't considered correct anymore, they're considered two separate problems that just often go together.

IIRC the reason for the change was it was found that most people with depression never even seriously consider it, that's one reason why you get those warnings of "having suicidal thoughts" with medicine because it signifies a too serious of change in your brain chemistry. Plus lots of suicides are "spur of the moment" type events. (It helps if you think of it like this, depression "getting worse" often shuts down a person, not lead them to decide to make what would be a drastic change. It's often worried about more when a person is recovering.)

Suicide threats or whatever are a different thing even.

As always, I am not a licensed doctor so everything I say can be trusted as it's not tainted by the medical community's monopoly.

[BrokenEchelon]

Go fuck a (real) woman

luv 2 c random transphobes stop by

I was talking about waifu body pillows but way to assume my phobia, now I'm triggered. 

[benjipwns]

The GoP do a much better job at shutting down outliers within their ranks than the Dems ever will.

Hell, the GoP have proven they are willing to sell their souls to push a candidate, however undesirable, to the front, because they know he'll win and they'll maintain power.

[HaughtyFrank]

Go fuck a (real) woman

luv 2 c random transphobes stop by

I was talking about waifu body pillows but way to assume my phobia, now I'm triggered. 

This reminds me that someone at wired got very upset at the virtual cam girl and her fans



https://www.wired.com/story/projekt-melody-anime-porn-stars/

[Boredfrom]

It always weird me out when Poli RE desperately wants the Democrats to become like GOP.

[benjipwns]

It always weird me out when Poli RE desperately wants the Democrats to become like GOP.

Only when they win.

[Boredfrom]

Go fuck a (real) woman

luv 2 c random transphobes stop by

I was talking about waifu body pillows but way to assume my phobia, now I'm triggered. 

This reminds me that someone at wired got very upset at the virtual cam girl and her fans

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https://www.wired.com/story/projekt-melody-anime-porn-stars/

Expect backlash, too. Melody is a literal product of the male gaze—a person who is probably a man pantomiming femininity for an audience of paying men. Some of those men seem to harbor such ill-will toward women that they’d rather masturbate to a glitchy cartoon than try to talk to one. Then again, for human women’s sake, it’s probably best to leave them to it.

I detect some mixing signals at this.

[clothedmacuser]

I'd be paint on the wall of whichever room in Buckingham palace is used the most for all their secret talks. Plus it would be cozy.

How about you?

 

I'd pay 2k to do a paint job in Hobbes face.

https://vimeo.com/150067914

skip to 22:44

That's $500 more than Mistress Amelie charges for the same thing.

[Boredfrom]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/i-wanted-to-order-a-medium-pizza-from-dominos-and-they-told-me-that-they-ran-out-of-medium-ones.172398/

Why is this a thread with three pages? Who fucking cares that they didn’t have medium pizzas? But I can’t gain more knowledge from the deaf community? Where do I go for my deaf community summit?

You could just said it was a FernandoRocker thread...

How are you constantly baffled by the most mundane things.

Because he is an idiot that craves for attention.

[Potato]

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I mean is it really the trans experience without the crippling depression and social isolation

...and don't forget the nasty streak. Can't be trans without being a nasty cunt (well that's what my experience interacting with the trans community on Resetera taught me anyway).

[bdoughty]

top page better underwear video

[Potato]

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Automated response to people considering suicide. Problem Solved!

I love seeing the rush of posters trying to be the first one to post the hotline. It makes the first ten replies look like they’re sarcastically repeating the same obvious information to a dullard.

Particularly when the person is not even from the US and they are too busy yelling "Look at me, I'm helping!" to bother to pay even the slightest attention to the person who is making the cry for help.




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[clothedmacuser]

underwear repost

 

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I wonder if I offered 5k she would save up all her undies over the course of a year and send them to me.  Unwashed, of course.

[Uncle]

Literally says they're closing it to appease black members lol.

how does it feel to need to be appeased, to need to be placated and coddled and talked down to

"now listen naughty members of reset era, we've talked about this.  you all know that DiZ has some very special feelings that are different from yours, don't you?  he can't handle the rough treatment you've exposed him to.  we know that you can't provide genuine apologies of your own, so we're going to have to apologize on your behalf by banning some of you.  is that alright with you, DiZ?  does that make you feel better?  good.  now run along and play with your other friends in the super special thread we set aside for you."

[Potato]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/the-mental-health-of-this-community-read-staff-post-before-posting.172243/post-29454784

1.) We didn't just break off from the old place. We took a bunch of folks with us, the same folks people here complain also made the old place insufferable.

It was you, you cunt! You make the whole place insufferable, just like you made GAF insufferable too.

[bdoughty]

2) We are actively watched and hounded by alt-right groups.

[Hamarr]

It’s really weird to see my posts in the mental health OT.  Best thing for me was getting out around healthier people.  Peer support can work, but you have to be around people motivated to get better.  It’s also difficult to learn to be okay with yourself when constantly worrying about walking on eggshells around everyone.

Most of the people there need to see real counselors.  No one in there is equipped to provide what they need.

[clothedmacuser]

It always weird me out when Poli RE desperately wants the Democrats to become like GOP.

Only when they win.

Well, when you win it means you were good.   Unless you are wrong and win.  Then you are bad.  Read all about it in Nepenthe's and Redmercury's new book, It happened so it's for the best. : My year of having no principles and deciding who is bad or good on a whim.

[Momo]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/the-mental-health-of-this-community-read-staff-post-before-posting.172243/page-11#post-29455053

This specific discussion regarding suicide and self harm threads has merit, but we cannot control the information people decide the share and I do not think it is our place to try to make OT a less mentally taxing place to be in by trying to control this as an overall idea.

If you feel you can post some positive threads to do that, you have that power.

[Boredfrom]

Nephente: BE POSITIVE YOU DUMB FUCKS!

[SmokyDave]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/ok-era-where-do-you-fall-on-the-rights-of-photographers-hillary-duff-calls-photographer-creep-for-shooting-childs-soccer-game.171997/page-20#post-29459741

This post will get me banned, but I'm going to make it anyway. I don't like what happened to Dude Abides and a few other posters, who were banned for saying what's indisputable: there is no evidence that this incident was racially motivated. The case that it was rests entirely on certain individuals' intuition. Now that intuition may very well be correct, but that's not the point. The point is that a number of posters here made a baseless claim, failed to support it with anything more substantial than "Trust me, I just know," and when some posters didn't accept this magical insight and demanded evidence, they were banned for it. That's not acceptable.

User Banned (permanent): dismissing racism, account in junior phase.

Seems perfectly reasonable.

[stufte]

This is what happens with identity politics, skin color and feelings are what determines truth, facts and evidence are racist dog whistles and your opinion can be dismissed out of hand because you aren't the right color. Fucking lol.

[Ghoul]

Mods we need to do better at helping suicidal people,
anyone suicidal must PM your address and a phone number to contact you on!

[TVC15]

He returned!

[OnlyRegret]

I kinda have fun reading this place
https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/

They make men so bitter too, it is funny

https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/e7kl6e/according_to_femaledatingstrategy_women_have/
https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/f0veu4/wsj_openly_defends_rfemaledatingstrategy_clowns/
https://www.reddit.com/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen/comments/dbm96r/hamsters_working_overtime_in_rfemaledatingstrategy/
https://www.reddit.com/r/starterpacks/comments/f5wp81/rfemaledatingstrategy_starterpack/

 

[Raist]

I have mild prepper tendencies. Nothing crazy, but I do a or of outdoor hiking and camping anyway, so that mixed with a bit of “be prepared for anything” mentality has always been my MO.

From camping I have solar panels and back up batteries, water filters, propane.etc you name the gear, I have it. I also tend to be handy, so I have at least 2 dozen masks.

Food wise I have at least 2 months of food stored. 100lbs of rice and 50lbs of beans. Canned goods, nuts etc. I take a lot of this camping with me so I just rotate it out.

I have mild prepper tendencies. Nothing crazy

[...]

100lbs of rice and 50lbs of beans. Canned goods, nuts etc.

 

[Transhuman]

Add "taking unsolicited pictures of stranger's children while black" to the list

[VomKriege]

Well they lost soldiers and the Nato is not doing anything. Nato should have stepped in 9 years ago.
Now with the corona virus and this.

 

https://www.resetera.com/threads/turkey-will-no-longer-stop-the-3-5million-syrian-refugees-its-hosting-from-traveling-to-europe.172348/post-29453886

[VomKriege]

I feel like Bannon is involved in this somehow.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/turkey-will-no-longer-stop-the-3-5million-syrian-refugees-its-hosting-from-traveling-to-europe.172348/post-29454279

I'm so fucking tired.

Take a nap ?

https://www.resetera.com/threads/turkey-will-no-longer-stop-the-3-5million-syrian-refugees-its-hosting-from-traveling-to-europe.172348/post-29454327

Erdrogan unfortunately isn't invading in order to stabilize the region and stem the flow of refugees

It's not the good kind of armed intervention that the USA has perfected.
 

https://www.resetera.com/threads/turkey-will-no-longer-stop-the-3-5million-syrian-refugees-its-hosting-from-traveling-to-europe.172348/post-29454383

[VomKriege]

Maybe this is a topic for another thread, but as far as I see, the EU is heading towards a unified federal state and this would end toxic nationalism

 

https://www.resetera.com/threads/turkey-will-no-longer-stop-the-3-5million-syrian-refugees-its-hosting-from-traveling-to-europe.172348/post-29465038

[Potato]

Maybe this is a topic for another thread, but as far as I see, the EU is heading towards a unified federal state and this would end toxic nationalism

 

https://www.resetera.com/threads/turkey-will-no-longer-stop-the-3-5million-syrian-refugees-its-hosting-from-traveling-to-europe.172348/post-29465038

Hitler was right! 

[Snoopycat_]

Maybe Ree would be less tired and suicidal if they stopped looking for racists under every rock and read stories about adorable doggies -


https://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/lifestyle-buzz/dog-strolls-into-police-station-to-report-himself-missing/ar-BB10g1gH?ocid=spartanntp

[Raist]

ACAB

[bdoughty]

https://www.resetera.com/threads/do-you-enjoy-silly-stupid-theads.172437/

I feel like sometimes threads get closed because they're not "productive" but what does that even mean? This forum is a random entertainment waste of time, just let people be entertained.

Entertainment? Time Waster? This will not end well.

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