https://www.resetera.com/threads/comedy-movies-with-sex-jokes-that-do-not-have-transphobia.581402/
Exactly what the thread title says.
For some reason, when I get to pick a random movie that has some nudity and sex jokes, I get unlucky and pick one that has transphobic jokes. They are always the "greatest hits", the same shit over again that I will not bother specifying here. And it has a much higher chance of happening if the movie has a gentleman's club or motel scene that involves multiple sex workers.
Doesn't matter what year the movie was made, this shit tends to happen in any comedy movie with sex jokes.
I can't stand it and turns me away from getting into adult comedy movies at all. I just wish someone made a browser addon that marks them as lgbt-phobic so I can spend my time elsewhere.
any good recommendations?

All I can think of Mrs. Doubtfire (1993) but I have a feeling it didn't suit to your liking, imo.
Although it does have some dirty jokes, but not the sex one.

Doesn't Mrs. Doubtfire have a whole montage set to a transphobic Aerosmith song?

I'm assuming this is dude looks like a lady which is:
1) About an explicitly identified Dude (not trans)
2) who looks like a lady (but is not, and is not trans)
3) and supposedly modelled on a real life person, the lead singer of motley crue (who is also not trans)
also

at people trying in that thread to call Mrs Doubtfire 'transphobic'; he's not fucking trans! what the actual fuck?
Is this the Lonely Island movie? There's something arguably transphobic in the song Mona Lisa.

No there fucking isn't?
It's a diss track at how over rated the mona lisa is. The fucking Mona Lisa is also not trans!