That is the eighth time you mentioned Bebpo makes over $100K per year.
Jelly much?
Also it's false, Bebpo can get a woman and I doubt he mentions how much he makes.
Yeah, I don't mention how much I make because I don't make as much as some here think
Edit: Bebpo you seem like a good guy but what do you really have with this girl? Good sexual chemistry from what I gather.
"we" don't have anything really. Yeah I guess good sexual chemistry, and we're both quirky people who have a ton of things in common in terms in terms of how we act/think. We're not into the same music, she hasn't seen most of the movies I'm into, she's into dance, which I know very little about, she is not into Japanese stuff at all (she mentioned last time that when she was like 10 she went through a j-rock/Japanophile phase, but then she outgrew it because it was lame; whoops). But when it comes down to like the core way we act, speak, think, it feels like she's very much like me, and it makes me feel really comfortable and happy around her.
Also this is less of a "she's broken, I want to fix her" that lennedsay is implying and more "I'm in a 1 sided relationship". Honestly I feel she is out of my league. She is smart, extremely witty and funny, in good shape and cute looking, has multiple artistic jobs that are really cool and is on a neat career path and even her hobbies are really awesome art projects that impress the shit out of me. Yeah it's true that when we hang out little of that is there, and it's just kind of normal hanging, talking with the girl. But who she is in life as a whole and all the creative projects she is involved just make her shine to me and inspire me to want to be more than I am of myself. Otoh while I feel I am good looking, friendly, sweet, and do some okish artsy stuff, I am not super quick/witty/funny. So I feel like she has more to offer and thus is of a higher league than I can realistically be in a relationship with, and I think that's part of why this feels pretty hopeless in getting any relationship out of the situation. Also I never put $$$ as a category in this because even though with some girls I'm sure, the fact that I tend to have money and tend to date people with no money, and tend to spend $$$ on girls I like is a plus, with the girls that I ACTUALLY like, meaning the ones who are good people, and thus I develop feelings for them, they don't even want me to pay for their share of dinner and care about personality and not money like a good person should.
Whenever I get messages back in online dating from girls that seem out of my league and who impress me, it never works out. I always develop feelings because they are awesome! And I get nervous whenever I talk to them, and they can sense the feelings and lack of confidence, and I get friendzoned (possibly with sex) and then blown off once they find another guy. Otoh, when I message people below my league who seem less attractive and have less things going for them, they are totally into me and I'm super confident but then I try to find something in them to make me develop feelings, something that makes them cool and me want to be with them, but so far it's never happened. Ideally I should find a middle ground of someone who is cool and attractive to me but isn't SUPER of either, so they seem approachable, but it hasn't happened.
I feel that I am about an 8.5-9/10 on the looks and visual style and about 7/10 on the personality/lifestyle. This girl imo is about 8/10 looks, and 9/10 personality/lifestyle. So I thought maybe this would could work, but I don't see it happening.
Also I understand that putting things in numbers and leagues is silly and things are quantified so simply, but after you read enough video game reviews the number system gets sort of ingrained.
