Could use some relationship (maybe even sex?) advice. Not entirely sure if I'm overreacting or what.
Backstory: Been dating this girl for a month now. Everything has been great - we probably spend way too much time together (4-5 times a week). Anyway, as far as sex goes - she's really shy/inexperienced. Only been with one other guy (her ex-husband, she's 24). Furthermore, she's asked me to take things really slow with her. Doesn't want to have sex anytime soon. Despite us having fairly open conversations about our tastes and habits etc.
Flash forward to tonight. We make out in bed for awhile. She's wearing nothing but her bra and panties. Bra comes off - I'm rubbing her through her panties. Things of that nature. That's about as far as it goes, though. In the car ride home - I playfully asked her if she had fun. Truthfully, I was trying to gauge whether or not it pushed her away.
So here's the main issue I'm having. At some point, I specifically asked her if she felt like I was satisfying her. I mean, hell - I'm pretty inexperienced as well, so I was also genuinely curious. Anyhow, she replied "if you have to ask and can't read my body language, then we have a problem". Which really took me back. Mainly because she said it in a really crass/cold tone. Now, I realize that taken literally - that could likely be a compliment. However, when I asked her to clarify, she wouldn't, and proceeded to ultimately say goodnight and just head to sleep. Which I thought was kind of fucked up. Who knows, maybe she's embarrassed? Am I overreacting bore?