Pallando will return in "Never Say Never Again"

[brawndolicious]

Please tell us all the details Pal.

I'm hardly the only person to call some women ugly and to have a few preferences such as don't be 200 pounds.

I'll try be nice but you lack the confidence to talk to an attractive woman like it's no big deal. You don't do that because you do not see any value in yourself either in the form of being able to be charming or having good looks or whatever. Maybe the reason you say such toxic shit is to fish for compliments about your looks because you secretly know you can change your opinions more easily than the physical things but that's why the only advice to give to you is to try with girls who are as heavy as you can possibly lift (I'm gonna say at least 160 pounds?). So that you stop trying to judge things and can enjoy life long enough to get some perspective on how self-harming and shortsighted you are.

I know tons of not very dashing men who date girls that are model-level because they approach it knowing that they have what it takes. If you can't do it, then you've got your prescription.

[Phoenix Dark]

Let me get some snacks & a drink and I'll type it up ASAP.

It's cold as fuck outside and I'm contemplating heading out to get some snacks in anticipation of an upcoming classic post.


nah I'll make some oatmeal instead

side note brehs but oatmeal with peanut butter

[chronovore]

Or women are just bitches. That's an option as well

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[eleuin]

hope somebody shoots me before I ever approach rahx's level   

[Rahxephon91]

I don't think I'm going to shoot anyone. I'm not interested in hurting anyone.

I just find most women I meet to be either bitchy or just manipulative and I'm tired of being played by them and their bullshit.

And most of my matches on tinder are extremely ugly and/or annoying self righteous feminists who probably think they are far smarter then they actually  are. Which pretty much reflects poorly on me.

Edit: Lemme put it this way. Andy would want to fuck you silly. BUT with that shitty attitude you're displaying, why would he want to do that? Now, replace "Andy" with "the woman of your dreams" and kill yourself.</4chan filter:off>

I'm not gay and this creeps me out. I wish it would stop being mentioned.

[Atramental]

Sorry for the delay. I had to take care of some shit.

Here's how my date (and the events that led up to it) went last night with the 21 y/o hipster girl.


>So I had matched with this girl on Tinder way back in late November
>We chatted for about a week and then she totally disappeared
>Then Thanksgiving week came around and out of the blue she texts me back saying that she had gotten really busy with work and she was really sorry about not getting back to me sooner.
>So, we text each other some more on and on off. She seems really cool and friendly but her work schedule seemed to be putting a dampener on things.
>This week comes around and I try to arrange a date on Friday.
>She seemed eager for it.
>Then Friday comes around and then things become really iffy. (Shark Johnson can testify to this)
>Apparently she had to take over for another co-worker's shift or something. So she was going to working later than usual on Friday.
>So I thought. Fuck it. She lives in Boone (a 2 hour & 30 minute Drive from Greenville, SC). I'll go ahead and risk a drive to Asheville, NC (which is about an hour and 30 minute drive from Boone), chill out there and get some top quality food at this place called Farm Burger (Farm to Table type of place), and wait for her to confirm whether or not should could meet me that night.
>So I drive up to Asheville. Got a speeding ticket on my way up there for driving 85mph in 55mph zone. It was dark and I zoomed right past a cop car like a dumb ass. 
>Anyways, I get up to Asheville and have my food.
>I was having a text conversation with Shark in the meantime. Both of us were wondering if I should just ghost on her (by sending her a Patrick Swayze pic from the movie Ghost and blocking her number.  ) and move on because she wasn't giving me any surefire answers on whether or not I should come up.
>10pm rolls around as I'm finishing up my late dinner and I finally get a text from her saying that she would be done with work after 11:30pm because she had to close up.
>I basically gambled on that text being a sign that she would be able to meet me somewhere in Boone. So, I run to my car, hop in, and book it to Boone as fast as possible.
>Around 11pm I get another text from here saying that She knew it was a bit of a drive from Asheville to Boone and that I didn't need to get up there tonight if I didn't want to.
>I texted her back (pulled off to the side of the road. didn't want to get another ticket for texting and driving.  ) and told her that I was only 45 miles away, it wasn't that far from me, and that I was willing to see this through since I was that close. 
> It's already nearing midnight and I get another text from her: "Oh! Have you started the trip?"
Me: "Haha. Yep. I'm only 20 miles away now. I promise I'll keep my stay as brief as possible."
>She tells me how she's going to be a bit of a zombie from work and that I wouldn't be getting her at 100% but I told her no problem. My stoner friends say I'm very easy to talk to so take that as you will.
>I arrive at Boone and it's 12:30am. It's really fucking cold up there. There was even some snow on the ground.
>I go to the designated spot. The Boone Saloon since it was open late. 
>I'm there for about 30 minutes. Listening to this loud as fuck live band that was playing there and nursing a beer. They thankfully wrapped up after those 30 minutes.
>She comes in around 1:15am. I can't tell you how happy I was to see her. I was grinning ear to ear.
>We talk about all sorts of shit. Design, Anthropology, Marketing, World Travel, Ancient Civilizations, Latin America, Hieroglyphics, Linguistics, etc. Definitely the intellectual/academic type which I like.
>We both have a lot of fundamental things in common and it turns out she is not religious (I thought she was based off of how she texted me by not really swearing). She was though in the past just like me so we have that in common (she was even a youth group worship leader at some point).
>The bar closed around 2am but I got to talk to her for a good 45 to 50 minutes. We walked outside to our cars. She seemed eager to meet up again but she said was going to be fairly busy with work in December and possibly going to California for a bit to visit with some family.
>Told her thank you for making it out that night.
>We bear hugged each other goodbye. Her warm little body against mine in the freezing cold felt so good. 
>And then I drove back home. Got back around 5am.


I haven't texted her back anything yet but I plan to text/chat with her some more later tomorrow.

Hopefully I can keep the fire burning with her because I could really see myself getting into a long term relationship with this girl.

[chronovore]

Thank you for specifying "bear hug" instead of "Christian side hug."

[CatsCatsCats]

seems pretty good

[Atramental]

Talking to the other 21 y/o right now.

Might try to see Rouge One with her and a group of friends.

Oh yeah, this girl said she'll have to check with her friend first who invited her to see if she/he would be cool with me tagging along.

Plus, this girl was kinda skittish about meeting me one-on-one so perhaps me meeting her with a group of her friend/acquaintances would put her more at ease.

[Atramental]

So is the girl. 

[Syph]

Pallando I wish you the best but that is a long fucking trip
set that tinder radius smaller breh

[Atramental]

Pallando I wish you the best but that is a long fucking trip
set that tinder radius smaller breh

The girls that are closer to me seem to get swiped up very fast by other guys.

There are A LOT of well-to-do, very handsome, eligible bachelors in my city.

But I have hardly any competition when I'm matching with girls who live in tiny towns in North Carolina. Plus, most of these girls are still in college and it's probably impressive to them (on a certain level) that I'm working full time at a design/marketing firm instead of at McDonalds or Starbucks (broad examples) like their male counterparts are currently working at.

edit: Also, there seems to be large swaths of religious single moms in my area. And I'm not really looking to be a substitute dad who is willing to go to church every Sunday.

[Atramental]

This pic basically sums up my whole Tinder experience:


North Carolina women. 

South Carolina women.

edit: And the last woman I dated from SC was a fucking heroin addict. So yeah. 

[Atramental]

Probably not. 

Also, I saw a new pic of her on FB a couple of days ago. She's looking a bit rough. 

edit: FB recommends former tinder matches/dates as friends. I can't help but look. Also, she shares one mutual friend with me.

[Boogie]

I don't think I'm going to shoot anyone.

You "don't think"?  But.....you're not sure? 

[Samson Manhug]

Rax, what's your address? I have a leather bound book with secrets to getting hot women I want to send you. It changed my life.

[Himu]

Is it the holy bible or the Quran

[Himu]

Rahx scares me.

[I'm a Puppy!]

Don't worry, you're safe. He apparently has a problem getting in the vicinity of hot women.

[Himu]

I'll be honest Rah.

With this attitude I wouldn't even consider you. I'm not sure how you present yourself to women but I do know that men who harbor feelings like yours act in ways that make them unappealing to a woman in the day to day interactions. With such embittered animosity it would be clear to most women by how you handle yourself that you lack confidence. I smell it through my phone screen. I can only imagine what it's like interacting with you on the daily irl. That feeling that you're owed a woman can be read with quickness in ways that you cannot see. I personally have felt and experienced this multiple times and I can tell you right now that if you don't work on it, you'll be without a partner for good.

Tell me what you usually say when you get a girls number or when you want to talk to a woman period? How do you initiate contact? Give me a play by play and I'll analyze it top to bottom for you.

The ultimate problem here for you is that I SMELL WEAKNESS. I should never sense that. Now, what is weakness? Is it alpha male cadence? No. It's basic self respect. I do no sense weakness from Pallando or Tiesto. If I can sense weakness from you without having never met you, on the Internet, on my phone, please know that women in your vicinity who might potentially consider you, are smelling it too.

[Phoenix Dark]

I wouldn't have met anyone that late but it sounds like it went well so grats Pallando. Did she smell nice when you hugged?

[Atramental]

If she did I couldn't tell. It's hard to smell anything when it's that cold outside. 

Anyways, hopefully me making an effort to come up there left a good impression on her. Her actually meeting me when she could've easily said, "Nah, not tonight. I'm going to bed. Have a safe trip home." definitely left a good impression on me. I even thanked her for coming out and told her that I really appreciated it.

Also, I felt like I came off as very confident when I was talking with her. It was like I was talking to a good friend. My words, for the most part, flowed naturally. Plus, she seemed genuinely interested by what I had to say and smiled & laughed at my jokes and goofy comments.

And if we do have a second date hopefully the circumstances will be much more ideal.

[I'm a Puppy!]

Atra learning some skills

[Himu]

pallando

[toku]

proud of u

[tiesto]

Pallando, your problem isn't so much in your profile as much as it's in how you approach girls. You meander on till they lose interest.

Rahx, your problem is that you don't even approach girls and take it as a personal insult to have yourself besmirched by their company.

There, now y'all can shut the fuck up. I wanna hear more about tiesto manwhoring it up in Buffalo.

I sucked when I was in college in Buffalo

Had a girlfriend for a half a year but she was a goodie 2 shoes Catholic girl so I didn't even get past 2nd base.

Almost lost my virginity to a 6'1" thicc girl but that was before I realized that was what I was into. I was very shy and awkward in college.

In more Match news, a 30 year old petite blonde who likes EDM messaged me the other day. And a really cute 37 year old. And a Jewish girl with curly brown hair and some nice curves. Things are moving...

[Bebpo]

I'm late to Rahx's posts, only became aware when I saw the other thread, which like Syph said I thought was gonna be a joke sarcastic thread. 

I agree 1000000000000% with the post on this page that says you need to make some female friends before you consider dating women.  Like, put your dick on hold for some months, stick with porn or whatever gets you off, and go out to social group stuff and try to have a good time and talk to the men & women around you.  If you keep with it you'll probably make some friends in both sexes, and as you hang out and spend time around women, you'll realize they're people good & bad like men, you'll get comfortable interacting with women and spending time with friends that are more equal with male/female ratio you'll grow as a person and become more attractive to the people you're interested.

As someone who used to run social groups, just do not come off as needy and creepy straight off the bat.  First impressions go a long way and I can't tell you the number of awkward guys who would show up for the first time and be hitting on women, being creepy or straight out saying they're looking for a gf.  Just ignore dating/sex for a while and go hang out with people like you're asexual.  If it helps, just consider all the women at any group you're going to "off-limits" and if you just act normal people will like you because unlike so many people you're not coming off as a creep.  You'll make friends and it'll help, I promise.  Just don't do the opposite thing either where you ignore women because you overthink and don't want to come off as creepy/hitting on them.  Just go and say hi to everyone at a social thing or party, male & female.  Say hi, introduce yourself, ask them a little about themselves and unless you're clicking just move on to the next person and do the same.  If you talk to everyone, you'll be the life of the party and people will like you because that takes courage, and by doing it you'll get more comfortable talking to people and it'll give you more confidence.

tldr; put your dick away, join some meetups and make friends and try to have a good time for now. 

[Samson Manhug]

Do not take advice from Bebpo under any circumstances.

[Rahxephon91]

What will I do without the respect of bore members.

[Rahxephon91]

I'd do that with the respect of Bore members so no difference.

[Boogie]

I'd do that with the respect of Bore members so no difference.

you sure about that?

[Rahxephon91]

If a bunch of losers on a videogame forum can't respect you I'm not sure a woman will.

women don't even give me a chance so I'm not sure why I should care what they think?

[benjipwns]

men/women/TheBore posters/losers are not monoliths

dating is about losing more than you win, inherently, that's kinda the point

especially as the information is asymmetrical for both parties

wait, why am i posing in this thread, when have i ever had a healthy or normal relationship??? never done any internet stuff either

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i guess my main recurring one has mostly been stable for years, so that's something...

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[zomgee]

Fake nudes for fake news am I right

[chronovore]

If a bunch of losers on a videogame forum can't respect you I'm not sure a woman will.

women don't even give me a chance so I'm not sure why I should care what they think?

That's the trouble: you do care what they think. You've got something in your head telling you they're being unfair or mean. If you can actually manage not care about what women think of you, and treat yourself with respect, the whole problem you're experiencing will pivot on its axis.

I figured half of this out in college. My roomie always seemed to have women trying to get his attention, but he didn't acknowledge their efforts. It made most of them double-down. Just pretending that I didn't care was enough to intrigue them, but I was still insecure and sometimes a dick, so it didn't ever go more than a week or two. That's why the self-respect is still critical.

[Himu]

I think you need more girl friends. Not a girlfriend but girl friends.

I will be your friend if you'll have me. 😇

[Rahxephon91]

I'd do that with the respect of Bore members so no difference.

you sure about that?

Guess I never had the respect of bore members, but it also never affected me getting laid or not so.... I guess it means nothing.

I don't know where this idea that I don't respect myself comes from. I don't even know how you don't respect myself. I think I'm a pretty solid guy, but apparently not good enough for most women. I'll have to be happy with 1s and 2s.

And I already have a few female friends. You can check my facebook if you don't believe me. I'm not sure what they're supposed to help with.

Women just don't want anything to do with me, even before I became bitter and annoyed by their presence. At this point I just need another outlet. I pay a black bbw to blow me every once in awhile. I find her disgusting, but at least its something to relive the tension.

[Himu]

I'd do that with the respect of Bore members so no difference.

you sure about that?

Guess I never had the respect of bore members, but it also never affected me getting laid or not so.... I guess it means nothing.

I don't know where this idea that I don't respect myself comes from. I don't even know how you don't respect myself. I think I'm a pretty solid guy, but apparently not good enough for most women. I'll have to be happy with 1s and 2s.

And I already have a few female friends. You can check my facebook if you don't believe me. I'm not sure what they're supposed to help with.

Women just don't want anything to do with me, even before I became bitter and annoyed by their presence. At this point I just need another outlet. I pay a black bbw to blow me every once in awhile. I find her disgusting, but at least its something to relive the tension.

I just don't believe a man that has confidence in himself says these things. The problem is that you now see women as just objects you throw your rage at because you're unsuccessful with.

But the question is why? Looking at your posts it's not shocking to see why and like I said on the last page, any woman will be able to pick up on this eventually.

[etiolate]

Rahx do you know what you want in a girl

[FreeNudeLyleLanley]

I'm fairly new here but I can't tell if Rahx is serious. I'm no doctor but his views on women seem less than healthy.

[I'm a Puppy!]

Maybe try a guy? 

[Olivia Wilde Homo]

Maybe try a guy? 

There is something to this.  There was a guy who lived with my friend in the dorms who complained constantly about not being able to get women or get laid.  After Christmas break he decided to date a guy and has been dating guys ever since.  He was a really neurotic, morose fucker and after he embraced the cock, he was a much happier, even pleasant person to be around.

Just a thought. 

[I'm a Puppy!]

I wasn't entirely joking. I've had several female friends that were just angry against guys all the time (think female version of Rax) and then a few years later I come back and they're dating a woman and they're just so much happier.

[Himu]

The thought did cross my mind that RahX is gay and just doesn't know it yet.

[demi]

How much does she cost?

[tiesto]

If a bunch of losers on a videogame forum can't respect you I'm not sure a woman will.

women don't even give me a chance so I'm not sure why I should care what they think?

Sounds like you don't give a lot of women a chance either...

[Rahxephon91]

As much as it would make things easier, I'm not gay.

[Joe Molotov]

As much as it would make things easier, I'm not gay.

How hard have you tried?

[Himu]

As much as it would make things easier, I'm not gay.

hahahaha dating as lgbtq is a unique bag of chips. You have a smaller dating pool, in less ways to find people who will want to date you.

getting laid is easier as lgbtq, but dating? Depends on what you want I guess.

[toku]

Time to make that pof account rahx

[Olivia Wilde Homo]

Time to make that grindr account rahx

[toku]

Just remember, head is head, and it's not gay if the balls don't touch. Bless up.

[Phoenix Dark]

Time to make that okcupid account rahx

[Himu]

i met my bf on okc

[Rahxephon91]

Yeah that real really solve confidence issues. Can't make it with the gender you actually like, go gay!

[CatsCatsCats]

Do you like women tho? Doesn't sound like it

[Himu]

No, just that a lot of gay men/gay women have resentment towards women/men if they are not comfortable with their sexuality. It can come from a place where they're continuously turned down, they build up resentment towards the opposite sex because they feel they should be with the opposite sex, but the opposite sex isn't biting because they read them as gay, which breeds more resentment towards the opposite sex. You do not turn gay. Just saying that your posts sometimes remind me of frustrated gay men I've seen trying to get with women, but women don't want them and they don't know why, so they lash out.

Resentment towards the opposite sex among people who are gay is very real.

[Phoenix Dark]

Resentment towards the opposite sex among people who are gay is very real.

No wonder gay dudes like Madonna.
 

[Tasty]

Resentment towards the opposite sex among people who are gay is very real.

Gurl what

[Madrun Badrun]

Everyone point and laugh, Tasty likes girls as people, nanannana