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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23101 on: January 21, 2014, 01:13:52 PM »
rofl that cheating thread.

How can anyone have worthwhile interpersonal relationships when they are so consumed with paranoia of disloyalty? Every time someone posts an anecdote of cheating there is this wail of dudes going "another story reinforcing and justifying my cynical worldview, oh heaven whatever shall I do in this ocean of conniving cunts!?"

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23102 on: January 21, 2014, 01:17:39 PM »
women only like assholes and are shallow and will cheat on you the second you turn your back or lose your job they only want money afterall did I mention they only like assholes with money and cars


why won't they date me  :'(
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23103 on: January 21, 2014, 01:21:36 PM »
My favorite is the "this is why I'm staying single!"

Oh really buddy?  :hitler
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23104 on: January 21, 2014, 01:30:23 PM »
http://m.neogaf.com/showthread.php?t=755447&page=1

If you want to see how little many GAFers know about frame rates, look no further.  Seriously, every NFL game on TV as well as all other live sports since like the 1950s and even earlier have been broadcast as 60 frames per second.  Yeah it's interlaced, but it's still effectively 60 FPS since the image is updated every time the lines alternate.  We have been watching live television events at 60 FPS as long as there have been live TV events.  It's great that the NFL app on the XBOne will match that frame rate and it's been done already too, just look at the free video clips on the 360's UFC app.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23105 on: January 21, 2014, 01:33:09 PM »
women only like assholes and are shallow and will cheat on you the second you turn your back or lose your job they only want money afterall did I mention they only like assholes with money and cars


why won't they date me  :'(

You forgot the part where they all have STD's or maybe AIDS.




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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23106 on: January 21, 2014, 01:36:00 PM »
I'm done with the IndieSpark thread, seems like bans are going through. At least I got my "fuck you" in before bailing.
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23107 on: January 21, 2014, 01:36:28 PM »
women only like assholes and are shallow and will cheat on you the second you turn your back or lose your job they only want money afterall did I mention they only like assholes with money and cars


why won't they date me  :'(

You forgot the part where they all have STD's or maybe AIDS.
that might apply to the dumb sluts you like, but the girls i am friends with but secretly burn endlessly for and hump pillows while thinking of aren't like other girls.
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23108 on: January 21, 2014, 01:43:40 PM »
I've humped pillows :tocry
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« Reply #23109 on: January 21, 2014, 01:44:26 PM »
you think i pulled that one from thin air?  :-\


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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23110 on: January 21, 2014, 01:45:39 PM »
rofl that cheating thread.

How can anyone have worthwhile interpersonal relationships when they are so consumed with paranoia of disloyalty? Every time someone posts an anecdote of cheating there is this wail of dudes going "another story reinforcing and justifying my cynical worldview, oh heaven whatever shall I do in this ocean of conniving cunts!?"

And yet when there's a thread about a dude seeing his sister-in-law naked the thread is flooded with comments like "give her the D before your wife comes home". Funny how that works.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23111 on: January 21, 2014, 01:54:53 PM »
rofl that cheating thread.

How can anyone have worthwhile interpersonal relationships when they are so consumed with paranoia of disloyalty? Every time someone posts an anecdote of cheating there is this wail of dudes going "another story reinforcing and justifying my cynical worldview, oh heaven whatever shall I do in this ocean of conniving cunts!?"

And yet when there's a thread about a dude seeing his sister-in-law naked the thread is flooded with comments like "give her the D before your wife comes home". Funny how that works.

BroCode! bros before hoes! Oh wait, he was friends with the wife? well, that only proves men and women can't be platonic. Basic neuropsychology/biology bro, I read about it on wikipedia.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23112 on: January 21, 2014, 02:31:02 PM »
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=97953242&postcount=27
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=97954607&postcount=55
 :what

dafuq is this dude talking about? maybe i'm just high but i don't understand wtf he's saying.

Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23113 on: January 21, 2014, 02:36:25 PM »
too much taubes or whatever that dude's name is
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23114 on: January 21, 2014, 03:03:57 PM »
diet coke is the demonic fluid that sustains white womens evil souls brehs
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23115 on: January 21, 2014, 03:05:43 PM »
white women  :lawd
i mean
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23116 on: January 21, 2014, 03:09:35 PM »
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=97953242&postcount=27
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=97954607&postcount=55
 :what

dafuq is this dude talking about? maybe i'm just high but i don't understand wtf he's saying.
He's getting very confused about a single study that was just released about diet soda.
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23117 on: January 21, 2014, 03:33:56 PM »
I'm done with the IndieSpark thread, seems like bans are going through. At least I got my "fuck you" in before bailing.

Fully expected to wake up banned after indirectly telling Jaffe to shut the fuck up and generally being incredibly aggressive with him. What a fuckass.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23118 on: January 21, 2014, 03:35:39 PM »
Jaffe :heh Fuck that nicca. I remember that Homeland game. I could use a game that is incendiary, but from him? So edgy.
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23119 on: January 21, 2014, 03:49:23 PM »
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=755621

Let's discuss females, fellow forum posters of NeoGAF.com
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23120 on: January 21, 2014, 04:07:02 PM »
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=755621

Let's discuss females, fellow forum posters of NeoGAF.com

Women are so alien and weird. Also Jaffe moved on to patronizing rape victims as well. What a sad sack of shit.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23121 on: January 21, 2014, 04:16:18 PM »
Too intelligent. I can't really appreciate someone that isn't on par with me intellectually. I never could though, probably why I never had very many friends. 
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23122 on: January 21, 2014, 05:13:29 PM »
In this moment, I am euphoric. Not because of any phony woman's vagina. But because I can kiss any vagina

Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23123 on: January 21, 2014, 05:17:47 PM »
What is wrong with the way that thread was self moderating itself... Yknow with discussion?

Think what you will of Jaffe and his comments I think the whole thread has reached stratospheric levels of dumb, and bannings like that don't really help. His hypothetical was an invitation to a ban, but only because gaf is an overly sensitive echo chamber shithole prone to bouts of hysteria. I can't say I'm surprised. Defamatory shit flinging and disingenuous reading comprehension is rife even among mods.

I see what you're saying about his emphasis on what the girl could have done devo, but I think that conversation can be had rather than kiboshed with ban hammers.
« Last Edit: January 21, 2014, 05:21:10 PM by radioheadrule83 »

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23124 on: January 21, 2014, 05:20:12 PM »
Of all the problematic threads you're going to take issue with the one where they shut down fucking socially distinguished mentally-challenged assholes?

Way to be transparent radiohead.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23125 on: January 21, 2014, 05:30:47 PM »
Like I said elsewhere, Jaffe is doing yeoman's work to insure the 12 people that still like David Jaffe don't anymore.
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23126 on: January 21, 2014, 05:32:12 PM »
Of all the problematic threads you're going to take issue with the one where they shut down fucking socially distinguished mentally-challenged assholes?

Way to be transparent radiohead.

Josh Mattingly behaved in a socially distinguished mentally-challenged manner and he deserves everything he gets. Banning an industry figure for daring to question the social dynamics of the conversation and how it might have turned out less ugly is stupid. There's no excuse for what the guy said, but I find the coddling protectorate portraying her as some violated little bambi sexist in itself. She's a grown woman. She shouldn't have to put up with assholish advances and she's entitled to make them public and see people punished, but if in the public conversation she appears to offer no deterrent and I'm fact continues to be friendly, you are always going to have someone play devils advocate and question that. A lack of "please stop" doesn't mean "proceed", I'm not saying that.. the guy should have known better, drunk or not. That thread is not a discussion, it's a lynch mob. And it's not even trying to lynch the right guy anymore. I disagree with the ban, I'm happy to be transparent about it.

It's not the only thread I think is shite either obviously.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23127 on: January 21, 2014, 05:32:30 PM »

Honestly, I'd have banned the guy for that first vulgar post he made to devo.  That was against TOS, clear as day.  He's gotten away with it so many times before, he probably figured he would this time, too.  Guess he didn't realize how far his star has fallen.

Yeah we had to wait until his forcefield dropped for us to ban him.

Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23128 on: January 21, 2014, 05:32:35 PM »
We need to protect the right to be abject social fuckwits on the internet

Without it, GAF truly has nothing.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23129 on: January 21, 2014, 05:33:10 PM »
Of all the problematic threads you're going to take issue with the one where they shut down fucking socially distinguished mentally-challenged assholes?

Way to be transparent radiohead.

Josh Mattingly behaved in a socially distinguished mentally-challenged manner and he deserves everything he gets. Banning an industry figure for daring to question the social dynamics of the conversation and how it might have turned out less ugly is stupid. There's no excuse for what the guy said, but I find the coddling protectorate portraying her as some violated little bambi sexist in itself. She's a grown woman. She shouldn't have to put up with assholish advances and she's entitled to make them public and see people punished, but if in the public conversation she appears to offer no deterrent and I'm fact continues to be friendly, you are always going to have someone play devils advocate and question that. A lack of "please stop" doesn't mean "proceed", I'm not saying that.. the guy should have known better, drunk or not. That thread is not a discussion, it's a lynch mob. And it's not even trying to lynch the right guy anymore. I disagree with the ban, I'm happy to be transparent about it.

It's not the only thread I think is shite either obviously.

Hey it's like I'm back in the thread.

I thought this was No spergfits allowed.

Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23130 on: January 21, 2014, 05:33:24 PM »

What is wrong with the way that thread was self moderating itself... Yknow with discussion?

Think what you will of Jaffe and his comments I think the whole thread has reached stratospheric levels of dumb, and bannings like that don't really help. His hypothetical was an invitation to a ban, but only because gaf is an overly sensitive echo chamber shithole prone to bouts of hysteria. I can't say I'm surprised. Defamatory shit flinging and disingenuous reading comprehension is rife even among mods.

I see what you're saying about his emphasis on what the girl could have done devo, but I think that conversation can be had rather than kiboshed with ban hammers.

Honestly, I'd have banned the guy for that first vulgar post he made to devo.  That was against TOS, clear as day.  He's gotten away with it so many times before, he probably figured he would this time, too.  Guess he didn't realize how far his star has fallen.

Okay.. I might have missed that... What did he say?

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23131 on: January 21, 2014, 05:33:51 PM »
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=97953242&postcount=27
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=97954607&postcount=55
 :what

dafuq is this dude talking about? maybe i'm just high but i don't understand wtf he's saying.

That's also the dude who believes Dubai is more liberal than the United States because he has seen women drink at parties. And when pressed about the country's ridiculous anti-women laws (husbands are legally able to beat their women, rape victims are charged with crimes, etc) he comes up with imaginative spin.

Be an Islamic apologist, brehs
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23132 on: January 21, 2014, 05:34:18 PM »

What is wrong with the way that thread was self moderating itself... Yknow with discussion?

Think what you will of Jaffe and his comments I think the whole thread has reached stratospheric levels of dumb, and bannings like that don't really help. His hypothetical was an invitation to a ban, but only because gaf is an overly sensitive echo chamber shithole prone to bouts of hysteria. I can't say I'm surprised. Defamatory shit flinging and disingenuous reading comprehension is rife even among mods.

I see what you're saying about his emphasis on what the girl could have done devo, but I think that conversation can be had rather than kiboshed with ban hammers.

Honestly, I'd have banned the guy for that first vulgar post he made to devo.  That was against TOS, clear as day.  He's gotten away with it so many times before, he probably figured he would this time, too.  Guess he didn't realize how far his star has fallen.

Okay.. I might have missed that... What did he say?

I didn't even read his posts, let me whine about his ban.

I cant lmao.

Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23133 on: January 21, 2014, 05:38:04 PM »

What is wrong with the way that thread was self moderating itself... Yknow with discussion?

Think what you will of Jaffe and his comments I think the whole thread has reached stratospheric levels of dumb, and bannings like that don't really help. His hypothetical was an invitation to a ban, but only because gaf is an overly sensitive echo chamber shithole prone to bouts of hysteria. I can't say I'm surprised. Defamatory shit flinging and disingenuous reading comprehension is rife even among mods.

I see what you're saying about his emphasis on what the girl could have done devo, but I think that conversation can be had rather than kiboshed with ban hammers.

Honestly, I'd have banned the guy for that first vulgar post he made to devo.  That was against TOS, clear as day.  He's gotten away with it so many times before, he probably figured he would this time, too.  Guess he didn't realize how far his star has fallen.

Okay.. I might have missed that... What did he say?

I didn't even read his posts, let me whine about his ban.

I cant lmao.

I've watched his video on the matter, seen some admittedly questionable tweets and read his penultimate posts and all the reaction around them.. if I've missed something he said to you, it's because I'm still catching up.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23134 on: January 21, 2014, 05:38:04 PM »

What is wrong with the way that thread was self moderating itself... Yknow with discussion?

Think what you will of Jaffe and his comments I think the whole thread has reached stratospheric levels of dumb, and bannings like that don't really help. His hypothetical was an invitation to a ban, but only because gaf is an overly sensitive echo chamber shithole prone to bouts of hysteria. I can't say I'm surprised. Defamatory shit flinging and disingenuous reading comprehension is rife even among mods.

I see what you're saying about his emphasis on what the girl could have done devo, but I think that conversation can be had rather than kiboshed with ban hammers.

Honestly, I'd have banned the guy for that first vulgar post he made to devo.  That was against TOS, clear as day.  He's gotten away with it so many times before, he probably figured he would this time, too.  Guess he didn't realize how far his star has fallen.

Okay.. I might have missed that... What did he say?

I didn't even read his posts, let me whine about his ban.

I cant lmao.
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23135 on: January 21, 2014, 05:38:25 PM »
rhr if you're doing the devil's advocate thing here then I'd say it's a bit past that point. The devil deserves to lose here.

If you honestly believe what you're saying, seek help.

Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23136 on: January 21, 2014, 05:45:19 PM »
Fuck off. I said you are always going to get someone playing devils advocate in this scenario and questioning how things could have played out differently - which is what Jaffe did, not me. My issue is the fact that a lot of people on GAF (and here) can't handle discussion without lazily falling over themselves to placate those having the loudest emotional reaction. If he was outright offensive to devo, in the TOS violating sense, that's fair enough. My initial reading made it look like he was banned for holding his own perspective (disagreeable though it may be to some) rather than how he was actually dealing with people.

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« Reply #23137 on: January 21, 2014, 05:55:04 PM »
Fuck off. I said you are always going to get someone playing devils advocate in this scenario and questioning how things could have played out differently - which is what Jaffe did, not me. My issue is the fact that a lot of people on GAF (and here) can't handle discussion without lazily falling over themselves to placate those having the loudest emotional reaction. If he was outright offensive to devo, in the TOS violating sense, that's fair enough. My initial reading made it look like he was banned for holding his own perspective (disagreeable though it may be to some) rather than how he was actually dealing with people.
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=97909685&postcount=1022

It took him 14 more pages to get a 2 week ban for something that many people would have been permed for.
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23138 on: January 21, 2014, 06:00:38 PM »
From this point forward devo has my kudos, full-stop, for getting Jaffe banned. What a glorious day. :rejoice

I ain't no simp though, keep that in mind Devo. :hitler

Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23139 on: January 21, 2014, 06:16:45 PM »
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=97909685&postcount=1022

It took him 14 more pages to get a 2 week ban for something that many people would have been permed for.

Eeesh... I've just read back to that point myself... Sorry, I should have gotten all the way back to his first involvement before commenting. So tempted to victim blame devo and her choice of pic for lulz, but I'll dodge the wrath I think!

I thought this exchange was pretty funny btw

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23140 on: January 21, 2014, 06:27:26 PM »
Fuck off. I said you are always going to get someone playing devils advocate in this scenario and questioning how things could have played out differently - which is what Jaffe did, not me. My issue is the fact that a lot of people on GAF (and here) can't handle discussion without lazily falling over themselves to placate those having the loudest emotional reaction. If he was outright offensive to devo, in the TOS violating sense, that's fair enough. My initial reading made it look like he was banned for holding his own perspective (disagreeable though it may be to some) rather than how he was actually dealing with people.

The world doesn't need people playing devil's advocate for everything bruh. There is no way to have a valid conversation when one party seriously thinks "Well she shouldn't have let him sexually harass her so much, then it wouldn't be such a big deal" is some realistic shit. Nobody should have to debate the finer points of not blaming victims for how they react to being victimized. It's stupid and asinine and deserves to be treated as stupid and asinine.

If people aren't contributing with topics germane to the conversation and are actively holding it back with their spergtastic inability to read any form of subtext, discern context, or suss out human emotion, absolutely keep that shit moving with a ban. More of that would keep GAF from having ten threads a day that are basically "Why do human beings do the things that human beings do?".

Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23141 on: January 21, 2014, 06:29:45 PM »
David Jaffe is as much of an "industry figure" as any of us at this point. He's about as effectual as that Space Giraffe lunatic.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23142 on: January 21, 2014, 06:35:19 PM »
The world doesn't need people playing devil's advocate for everything bruh. There is no way to have a valid conversation when one party seriously thinks "Well she shouldn't have let him sexually harass her so much, then it wouldn't be such a big deal" is some realistic shit. Nobody should have to debate the finer points of not blaming victims for how they react to being victimized. It's stupid and asinine and deserves to be treated as stupid and asinine.

If people aren't contributing with topics germane to the conversation and are actively holding it back with their spergtastic inability to read any form of subtext, discern context, or suss out human emotion, absolutely keep that shit moving with a ban. More of that would keep GAF from having ten threads a day that are basically "Why do human beings do the things that human beings do?".

 :rejoice Preach.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23143 on: January 21, 2014, 06:35:30 PM »
though it is kinda funny he's getting kid-gloved a little. joe shmoe junior wouldn't last a second.

Nope.

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I refuse to believe it was one of the NuMods that did him in, but whatever: Good moderation happened this day.

Edit: Oh already talked about. But the image just makes it worth it.

Edit2: Not gonna be back. Good, I think.
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23144 on: January 21, 2014, 06:57:21 PM »
The world doesn't need people playing devil's advocate for everything bruh. There is no way to have a valid conversation when one party seriously thinks "Well she shouldn't have let him sexually harass her so much, then it wouldn't be such a big deal" is some realistic shit. Nobody should have to debate the finer points of not blaming victims for how they react to being victimized. It's stupid and asinine and deserves to be treated as stupid and asinine.

I guess my view is that if you find a view objectionable or even abhorrent, you should always open yourself to confronting it where civil conversation is still a possibility. I don't think it's conducive to mutual understanding or affords you any hope of getting through to people if you just attack people and censor discussion completely. As society, I believe we are encouraged to understand causes and consequences of things like criminality and forms of social prejudice as a prerequisite to combatting them, we don't affect change purely through public shaming and punishment.

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If people aren't contributing with topics germane to the conversation and are actively holding it back with their spergtastic inability to read any form of subtext, discern context, or suss out human emotion, absolutely keep that shit moving with a ban.

...so Evilore should shut down the forum, I agree.

I personally think there would have been a way to talk civilly about the social dynamics in play during that discussion. We probably would have arrived at the exact same conclusion - that this guy was letting his dumb dick run his mouth and that there should be no levy of expectation on her part to do anything to dissuade him - but at least people would have talked that out and understood it. People are too quick to shut down conversation or dominate things with their own agenda in my view. I don't wanna hold hands and sing cumbaya, but it would be nice to let people be honest in their assessments and discussions, and self moderate sometimes.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23145 on: January 21, 2014, 07:03:08 PM »
I understand that you're finding value in hashing things all the way out, but we should all have figured out the right answer here already, no need to show the work

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23146 on: January 21, 2014, 07:19:05 PM »
I understand that you're finding value in hashing things all the way out, but we should all have figured out the right answer here already, no need to show the work

And even then Jaffe's showing of his work is scattershot and doesn't hold a point. His whole entire argument was based around "BUT SHE SAID SHE WAS DIVORCED, THAT MEANS SHE DIDN'T WANT IT TO BE TOTALLY PROFESSIONAL RIGHT!?"

Basically, a non-comic version of that Doug Raped Patti comic:

"But listen, she didn't say 'stop talking like that, you're making me uncomfortable' enough, so it's not really sexual harassment!"
"No, Jaffe. No. She was being professional."
"I don't disagree bu--"
"No. Jaffe, what you're doing is victim blaming. You are blaming her for not saying "no" forcefully enough."

HONK HONK.

(And all that)

Devolution gave Jaffe plenty of outs and even attempted to educate him and find out what his point is. But he continued with that line of logic of "she didn't say she was really uncomfortable enough!" Which is downright scuzzy.

There's having a discussion and there's being a complete jackass that isn't learning anything. Jaffe continued to be a jackass and got banned. Now he's catching hurt feelings for being caught being a dick and supporting someone that tries to be scuzzy to women.

I feel sorry for his kids (he has two daughters, IIRC he mentioned it in GAF I think) if that's truly how he feels in regards to stuff like this.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23147 on: January 21, 2014, 07:19:37 PM »
Thread has now been taken over by

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23148 on: January 21, 2014, 07:27:29 PM »
Radiohead: Once again, did you read his posts? Fully? To the end?

Because this is reason enough to ban his ass after he continued to go "I don't disagree it isn't scuzzy, but she could've said something a bit more forceful/let him know."

That is straight up victim blaming. No beating around the bush.

And this is after he "went to bed" to get some sleep before work.

If he doesn't come back to GAF over this, the IQ of the board only goes up slightly with one less brain-dead game developer being there spouting shit that shows there's an issue in the industry in regards to the sexes. There's no "devil's advocate" here, simply straight up stupidity.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23149 on: January 21, 2014, 07:35:14 PM »
He pretty much epitomized the problem while thinking he's good at making women feel welcome and safe.

He owns no mirrors.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23150 on: January 21, 2014, 07:40:16 PM »
Gurl, seriously though: The fact he's catching feelings despite "having no issue with GAF. I love the site. It's their rules. The ban is fine. But I'm not going back" is reason enough to call this a winning day for you.

Where's that Ash Caught Feelings .gif though, Esch has it I'm sure.

http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=97971152&postcount=1704
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=97978910&postcount=1731
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=97990001&postcount=1797

These are good posts.
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23151 on: January 21, 2014, 07:45:24 PM »
I guess my view is that if you find a view objectionable or even abhorrent, you should always open yourself to confronting it where civil conversation is still a possibility. I don't think it's conducive to mutual understanding or affords you any hope of getting through to people if you just attack people and censor discussion completely. As society, I believe we are encouraged to understand causes and consequences of things like criminality and forms of social prejudice as a prerequisite to combatting them, we don't affect change purely through public shaming and punishment.

...so Evilore should shut down the forum, I agree.

I personally think there would have been a way to talk civilly about the social dynamics in play during that discussion. We probably would have arrived at the exact same conclusion - that this guy was letting his dumb dick run his mouth and that there should be no levy of expectation on her part to do anything to dissuade him - but at least people would have talked that out and understood it. People are too quick to shut down conversation or dominate things with their own agenda in my view. I don't wanna hold hands and sing cumbaya, but it would be nice to let people be honest in their assessments and discussions, and self moderate sometimes.

You want to know the worst part of Political Science as an academic field? In every class, every single fucking class, there's at least one moment where someone--for God only knows what reason--will try and turn the lecture into a discussion on conspiracy theories.

"What is terrorism? Can terrorism be enacted by a state institution, or does it become an act of war, or something else entirely? If you'll refer to the sinking of the Rainbow Warrior in 19...yes?"

"9/11 was an inside job, I think that makes the American government terrorists!"

Conspiracy theory guy does not deserve a seat at the table. Conspiracy theory guy does not deserve a ticket into the venue. Conspiracy theory guy does not deserve to be taken seriously at all, ever, not once. And victim blaming guy is right next to him. If you enjoy debating the pros and cons of Euro-centrism on Stormfront, that's your deal. But you are only serving to legitimize the conversation surrounding those painfully stupid elements when you take them seriously. Jaffe had his shot at being taken seriously and he blew it by repeatedly failing to...well, he failed to even make sense for the most part. That's his own fault, and the internet at large shouldn't burden itself with stooping down to coddle him when he fails to step up with meaningful input.

The best part is, if this woman had confronted the guy, and that resulted in him blowing up at her, people like Jaffe would be doing the same shit. Instead of "She should have confronted him" it would have been "She should have just ignored him, it couldn't have hurt her to just let it pass by". There is ALWAYS something the victim could have done for people like this. Because the event that took place is something they have a fucked up desire to defend.

On the other end, you can have constructive and even enlightening debate about complex issues. Even on GAF! The Dr. V's Magical Putter thread shows that, despite the fact that it becomes the same arguments treading water for a few pages.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23152 on: January 21, 2014, 07:49:24 PM »
My post in the Superman Vs. Batman thread is being posted on Latino Review and other movie sites :what

I never asked for this.

http://latino-review.com/2014/01/superman-v-batman-release-date-change-triggers-massive-plot-rumors/
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23153 on: January 21, 2014, 07:59:17 PM »
Cosby's commanding cock is finally famous.

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23154 on: January 21, 2014, 08:15:13 PM »
you're James Woods? :rofl

that's my top 10 poster
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23155 on: January 21, 2014, 08:18:27 PM »
:mynicca
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23156 on: January 21, 2014, 08:36:00 PM »
:mynicca

was that post true or did it come straight from your ass  :lol

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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23157 on: January 21, 2014, 08:38:12 PM »
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was that post true or did it come straight from your ass  :lol

It's true. I was told these things by someone that was basically fired from the production.
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Re: Yet another GAF thread - I still haven't got over it :( (No spergfits allowed)
« Reply #23158 on: January 21, 2014, 08:49:49 PM »
I'd imagine Affleck is constantly on set thinking man, I could have directed this so much better.
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