The problem is that any man who complains can be painted as the problem himself. Yes, if he was different, more outgoing, more attractive, wealthier, etc, he wouldn't be so unlucky in that department. It's kind of like how puritans viewed wealth, as evidence of fortune, and its lack as evidence of godly disfavor. The reality is that sex hoarding happens, some men get multiple successive wives, one often younger than the other, some men simultaneously sleep with multiple women, shutting out other men in the process, and women's period of sexual attractiveness is limited to 15 years before a precipitous decline. In this system some men make out like crazy at the expense of others, but those men who lose out should never complain, oh no. Complaining is anathema and shameful. It's as if everyone has an incentive to keep this charade going: Women in general because it lets them successfully get away with the alpha fucks/beta bucks strategy, and betas because they have an ego investment in not realizing that they're the beta backup, and of course the alpha males because they get the best/most women. And the ones who would complain -- who should complain -- are shamed into silence.
