Author Topic: Struggle Thread mk II - No one likes us, we don't care (Read 637515 times)

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #3720 on:** February 27, 2018, 08:00:03 PM »

Man contra that's rough. I'm sorry.

ToxicAdam · « **Reply #3721 on:** February 28, 2018, 08:46:38 AM »

Quote from: Shostakovich on February 23, 2018, 11:51:18 PM

Las Vegas is awful.

If it weren't for the shows I saw, it was my least favorite trip.

At least it was cheap.

Huff · « **Reply #3722 on:** February 28, 2018, 09:04:13 AM »

students/residents are usually able to help with work load/easy tasks for me

but man this month they are so garbage that they are taking up all my time and unable to help

of course it's the busiest month of the year, mid flu season.

Huff · « **Reply #3723 on:** February 28, 2018, 09:05:21 AM »

I'm not even mad when they show up late and make excuses to leave early.

Raist · « **Reply #3724 on:** March 01, 2018, 01:47:01 AM »

Lol students.

Tasty · « **Reply #3725 on:** March 01, 2018, 02:18:14 AM »

Quote from: Raist on March 01, 2018, 01:47:01 AM

students.

Fixed.

(College-aged, no-Amirox.)

Raist · « **Reply #3726 on:** March 01, 2018, 05:49:10 AM »

In my experience the vast majority of post-grad students these days are useless.

"Hi, I'm gonna do a PhD. But just do 9 to 5 and take every week-end off. And also not listen to anything and do whatevs I want."

Fucking millenials.

chronovore · « **Reply #3727 on:** March 07, 2018, 01:52:34 AM »

Quote from: Steve Contra on February 15, 2018, 12:33:55 PM

My brother in law shot and killed himself last week. Spent the week out in Utah for the funeral and to help out. Left behind three kids. Hold me brehs. :'(

Sorry for your loss. More sorry for his poor children.

Valkyrie · « **Reply #3728 on:** March 09, 2018, 01:08:35 PM »

Hair conditioner is much better than soap! Soap often makes your skin really dry, increases the chance of ingrown hair, red bumps and dry skin afterwards.
That's just my experience though, no idea what works the best for dudes since your hair is usually a lot more coarse. I only ever shave my legs with hot water and a thick hair conditioner.

Rufus · « **Reply #3729 on:** March 09, 2018, 01:23:39 PM »

Any kind of lubricant should work.

zomgee · « **Reply #3730 on:** March 09, 2018, 02:02:53 PM »

Quote from: Rufus on March 09, 2018, 01:23:39 PM

Any kind of lubricant should work.

newsfeed pls

Rufus · « **Reply #3731 on:** March 09, 2018, 08:25:49 PM »

No money is definitely lower than some money.

Valkyrie · « **Reply #3732 on:** March 11, 2018, 08:08:05 AM »

People can be so fucking vile.

Get backstabbed, brehs.

skullstorm · « **Reply #3733 on:** March 11, 2018, 09:22:27 AM »

Quote from: Valkyrie on March 11, 2018, 08:08:05 AM

People can be so fucking vile.

Get backstabbed, brehs.

Ouch.

I had some pretty shitty experiences with people who I thought were my close friends when I was younger, kinda made me keep everyone at an arm's length. And yes I have trust issues now.

VomKriege · « **Reply #3734 on:** March 11, 2018, 09:24:41 AM »

Quote from: Valkyrie on March 11, 2018, 08:08:05 AM

People can be so fucking vile.

Get backstabbed, brehs.

Doesn't sound pleasant whatever it is $:-\$

Mupepe · « **Reply #3735 on:** March 11, 2018, 06:49:10 PM »

Imagine how the Starks felt after the red wedding. Whew. That’s some next level fucking betrayal.

zomgee · « **Reply #3736 on:** March 11, 2018, 08:51:20 PM »

likes are virtual support high fives

Now I don't feel bad liking people's misfortunes when they post them.

zomgee · « **Reply #3737 on:** March 11, 2018, 09:46:47 PM »

likes from filler are virtual b-hole tongue tickles

Now I feel less guilty and also a little excited for a filler like.

team filler · « **Reply #3738 on:** March 11, 2018, 10:17:10 PM »

I'll put crystal meth shards up all of your assholes, then fuck you silly and you'll love me for it.

Tasty · « **Reply #3739 on:** March 11, 2018, 10:23:32 PM »

Quote from: filler on March 11, 2018, 10:17:10 PM

I'll put crystal meth shards up all of your assholes, then fuck you silly and you'll love me for it.

Doing meth that way is non-habit forming right?

team filler · « **Reply #3740 on:** March 11, 2018, 10:29:56 PM »

I don't recommend that anyone do drugs, but I also don't discourage anyone either. Play safe, kids!

Anything but the needle should be fine, people tend to go overboard when they try the needle and it's all bad. It really just depends on the individual. I know people who only smoke and lose control. I've enjoyed it from time to time, but I can also walk away from it no problem. Proceed with caution.

Maybe try a low dose of adderall first. Probably the safer route.

team filler · « **Reply #3741 on:** March 11, 2018, 10:38:06 PM »

zomgee · « **Reply #3742 on:** March 11, 2018, 11:18:49 PM »

These are not strugs

team filler · « **Reply #3743 on:** March 12, 2018, 12:59:59 AM »

just say no to strugs

chronovore · « **Reply #3744 on:** March 12, 2018, 08:07:32 PM »

Quote from: Shostakovich on March 09, 2018, 08:21:32 PM

Simultaneously relieved I got a jerb and infuriated I took a 50% pay cut to a miserable $7.30 an hour. Lowest point in my life but you have to do what you have to do.

Good on you for doing whatcha gotta do. You’re an insightful dude, and smart. You’ll see a better opportunity soon.

Huff · « **Reply #3745 on:** March 12, 2018, 08:43:18 PM »

So Despite my profession I’m not exactly anti drug

But ugh staying away from meth is almost always good advice

Raist · « **Reply #3746 on:** March 13, 2018, 06:15:50 AM »

... almost?

Huff · « **Reply #3747 on:** March 13, 2018, 08:10:31 AM »

You never know when you’re being attacked by a lion and being amped up on methamphetamines could be useful

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #3748 on:** March 13, 2018, 11:19:10 AM »

My Aunt died two weeks ago. My wife's uncle died last night.

Mupepe · « **Reply #3749 on:** March 13, 2018, 11:23:30 AM »

Sorry, Puppy

Valkyrie · « **Reply #3750 on:** March 13, 2018, 12:09:51 PM »

That’s awful, sorry to hear, Puppy.

agrajag · « **Reply #3751 on:** March 13, 2018, 12:13:16 PM »

Sorry to hear that

Cerveza mas fina · « **Reply #3752 on:** March 13, 2018, 02:43:14 PM »

Sorry man

Brehvolution · « **Reply #3753 on:** March 13, 2018, 02:43:17 PM »

Sorry for your loss, puppy.

zomgee · « **Reply #3754 on:** March 13, 2018, 02:43:19 PM »

Quote from: I'm a Puppy! on March 13, 2018, 11:19:10 AM

My Aunt died two weeks ago. My wife's uncle died last night.

I had a couple youngish cousins die in a relatively close time frame and there is a surreal disconnect that happens. You go through the stages of grief at different stages for each person at the same time. I would imagine it's like having multiple personalities or something. You feel guilt for not thinking about the other person when you're thinking about the first person.

I'm really sorry, just take some time for yourself and your wife as well.

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #3755 on:** March 14, 2018, 01:44:38 AM »

While not amazingly awful or something I wont get over, today I had a pretty bad experience with someone I considered a brother. And I just want to type it out so it's out there. And I find sharing my problems makes me feel better about them.

Today amongst a group of friends and acquaintances someone I consider pretty much my best friend called me a loser in a very malicious way. I'm not even quite sure what it was over. It was actually quite dumb. I'm embarrassed to even reval what began this argument honestly. It was about Player Unknown sucked because of it's performance on his computer to which I then replied that my computer ran it great. Then began his tantrum over how I bought it with my tax return and not money I earned which then transition how I'm a loser because I haven't finished school, haven't done this, don't have the responsibilities like he does, is able to live fancy free.

It really hurt because well I really respect this person. But this is how they seem to view me.

A little backstory about my friend. He had to join the Air Force because his parents forced him to. He dosen't like it. And honestly I feel I understand why he had this outburst. I think he dislikes his life honestly. He makes comments about how he dosen't have a social life. On the phone you hear nothing but his announces with his girl friend while he tries to play video games. This is'nt the first outrage and they usually happen when other people are around. He'd never admit it, but I think he's really insecure.

But if you know my history, a route cause of my depression was because of how behind in life I feel I am. This is something I've talked to with my friend many times about and usually the response from him was that everything is ok.

But then to have this rant thrown at me and then followed up with a an apology, but still saying "I still think everything I said is true". well....that really hurt and I kind of don't want to talk with this person for a long time.

I don't know I've been feeling better about life and trying to be more social and outgoing, but still sucks to have these things come up every so often.

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #3756 on:** March 14, 2018, 01:45:04 AM »

And every time I try to re-up my avatar it dosen't work.

team filler · « **Reply #3757 on:** March 14, 2018, 01:51:00 AM »

As of March 1, 2018, all avatars need to be hentai or hentai related. Those that are not have been grandfathered in, ignore them. Thank you.

Raist · « **Reply #3758 on:** March 14, 2018, 02:17:15 AM »

Quote from: Rahxephon91 on March 14, 2018, 01:44:38 AM

While not amazingly awful or something I wont get over, today I had a pretty bad experience with someone I considered a brother. And I just want to type it out so it's out there. And I find sharing my problems makes me feel better about them.

Today amongst a group of friends and acquaintances someone I consider pretty much my best friend called me a loser in a very malicious way. I'm not even quite sure what it was over. It was actually quite dumb. I'm embarrassed to even reval what began this argument honestly. It was about Player Unknown sucked because of it's performance on his computer to which I then replied that my computer ran it great. Then began his tantrum over how I bought it with my tax return and not money I earned which then transition how I'm a loser because I haven't finished school, haven't done this, don't have the responsibilities like he does, is able to live fancy free.

It really hurt because well I really respect this person. But this is how they seem to view me.

A little backstory about my friend. He had to join the Air Force because his parents forced him to. He dosen't like it. And honestly I feel I understand why he had this outburst. I think he dislikes his life honestly. He makes comments about how he dosen't have a social life. On the phone you hear nothing but his announces with his girl friend while he tries to play video games. This is'nt the first outrage and they usually happen when other people are around. He'd never admit it, but I think he's really insecure.

But if you know my history, a route cause of my depression was because of how behind in life I feel I am. This is something I've talked to with my friend many times about and usually the response from him was that everything is ok.

But then to have this rant thrown at me and then followed up with a an apology, but still saying "I still think everything I said is true". well....that really hurt and I kind of don't want to talk with this person for a long time.

I don't know I've been feeling better about life and trying to be more social and outgoing, but still sucks to have these things come up every so often.

It's a dumb argument over a dumb vidya. No reason to "don't want to talk with this person for a long time" you muppet.

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #3759 on:** March 14, 2018, 02:21:48 AM »

Quote from: Raist on March 14, 2018, 02:17:15 AM

Quote from: Rahxephon91 on March 14, 2018, 01:44:38 AM
While not amazingly awful or something I wont get over, today I had a pretty bad experience with someone I considered a brother. And I just want to type it out so it's out there. And I find sharing my problems makes me feel better about them.

Today amongst a group of friends and acquaintances someone I consider pretty much my best friend called me a loser in a very malicious way. I'm not even quite sure what it was over. It was actually quite dumb. I'm embarrassed to even reval what began this argument honestly. It was about Player Unknown sucked because of it's performance on his computer to which I then replied that my computer ran it great. Then began his tantrum over how I bought it with my tax return and not money I earned which then transition how I'm a loser because I haven't finished school, haven't done this, don't have the responsibilities like he does, is able to live fancy free.

It really hurt because well I really respect this person. But this is how they seem to view me.

A little backstory about my friend. He had to join the Air Force because his parents forced him to. He dosen't like it. And honestly I feel I understand why he had this outburst. I think he dislikes his life honestly. He makes comments about how he dosen't have a social life. On the phone you hear nothing but his announces with his girl friend while he tries to play video games. This is'nt the first outrage and they usually happen when other people are around. He'd never admit it, but I think he's really insecure.

But if you know my history, a route cause of my depression was because of how behind in life I feel I am. This is something I've talked to with my friend many times about and usually the response from him was that everything is ok.

But then to have this rant thrown at me and then followed up with a an apology, but still saying "I still think everything I said is true". well....that really hurt and I kind of don't want to talk with this person for a long time.

I don't know I've been feeling better about life and trying to be more social and outgoing, but still sucks to have these things come up every so often.

It's a dumb argument over a dumb vidya. No reason to "don't want to talk with this person for a long time" you muppet.

Well no....because it actually had nothing to do with the game. That was just the starting point. It wasn't even an argument. The person just snapped at me and then decided to dig into me.

Raist · « **Reply #3760 on:** March 14, 2018, 02:25:52 AM »

People say dumb shit, especially when they're having a shit time.

Recommended attitude :

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #3761 on:** March 14, 2018, 02:33:26 AM »

I guess, but I usually don't tell people I consider friends they are peices of shit and that they are losers in life randomly when there is no provocation. Even when I'm a little ticked off.

desert punk · « **Reply #3762 on:** March 14, 2018, 02:55:53 AM »

Quote from: Rahxephon91 on March 14, 2018, 02:33:26 AM

I guess, but I usually don't tell people I consider friends they are peices of shit and that they are losers in life randomly when there is no provocation. Even when I'm a little ticked off.

Yeah, while I wouldn't break up my friendship over something like this, I'd be seriously miffed for a time.

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #3763 on:** March 14, 2018, 03:05:41 AM »

Yeah.....that's not what this was.

StealthFan · « **Reply #3764 on:** March 14, 2018, 03:08:25 AM »

nah i'd ditch that nicca. he thinks you're slime and was in a bad enough mood to air that shit out. drop him.

TVC15 · « **Reply #3765 on:** March 14, 2018, 03:18:50 AM »

Quote from: Rahxephon91 on March 14, 2018, 02:21:48 AM

Quote from: Raist on March 14, 2018, 02:17:15 AM
Quote from: Rahxephon91 on March 14, 2018, 01:44:38 AM
While not amazingly awful or something I wont get over, today I had a pretty bad experience with someone I considered a brother. And I just want to type it out so it's out there. And I find sharing my problems makes me feel better about them.

Today amongst a group of friends and acquaintances someone I consider pretty much my best friend called me a loser in a very malicious way. I'm not even quite sure what it was over. It was actually quite dumb. I'm embarrassed to even reval what began this argument honestly. It was about Player Unknown sucked because of it's performance on his computer to which I then replied that my computer ran it great. Then began his tantrum over how I bought it with my tax return and not money I earned which then transition how I'm a loser because I haven't finished school, haven't done this, don't have the responsibilities like he does, is able to live fancy free.

It really hurt because well I really respect this person. But this is how they seem to view me.

A little backstory about my friend. He had to join the Air Force because his parents forced him to. He dosen't like it. And honestly I feel I understand why he had this outburst. I think he dislikes his life honestly. He makes comments about how he dosen't have a social life. On the phone you hear nothing but his announces with his girl friend while he tries to play video games. This is'nt the first outrage and they usually happen when other people are around. He'd never admit it, but I think he's really insecure.

But if you know my history, a route cause of my depression was because of how behind in life I feel I am. This is something I've talked to with my friend many times about and usually the response from him was that everything is ok.

But then to have this rant thrown at me and then followed up with a an apology, but still saying "I still think everything I said is true". well....that really hurt and I kind of don't want to talk with this person for a long time.

I don't know I've been feeling better about life and trying to be more social and outgoing, but still sucks to have these things come up every so often.

It's a dumb argument over a dumb vidya. No reason to "don't want to talk with this person for a long time" you muppet.
Well no....because it actually had nothing to do with the game. That was just the starting point. It wasn't even an argument. The person just snapped at me and then decided to dig into me.

I’d take a break for a bit then give him another chance. I’ve been trapped in “I hate my life” situations before and have snapped and done some stupid things, including shitting on friends. If he pulls this shit again, I’d probably drop him.

chronovore · « **Reply #3766 on:** March 14, 2018, 04:16:12 AM »

Sounds like he has issues. Give him some space. But I never give emotional access to someone who is careless with my feelings.

Surround yourself with people you respect. Your friends are a mirror of who you are.

Mupepe · « **Reply #3767 on:** March 14, 2018, 09:32:14 AM »

While what he said is definitely shitty, don't take it all to heart. When people try to hurt you they'll often take your own insecurities and throw them back at you. There's a good chance he said those specific things not because he believes them but because he knew they'd hurt you.

Tasty · « **Reply #3768 on:** March 14, 2018, 10:34:10 AM »

Sounds like your friend has a shitty life and doesn't hesitate to lash out when he feels others are doing even slightly better. This will keep happening until your friend either changes his outlook on life or actually improves his own. Until then I'd keep him at arms'-length, personally.

Imagine if you did something that actually mattered (vs having a slightly better PC to play vidya), like get a degree, or a good job, or a GF. There's no doubt in my mind this "friend" would privately be jealous and possibly even publicly shit all over it. You don't need that, man.

desert punk · « **Reply #3769 on:** March 14, 2018, 05:46:17 PM »

'cause you stayed at home watching crappy movies?

Valkyrie · « **Reply #3770 on:** March 14, 2018, 06:16:46 PM »

Quote from: Shostakovich on March 14, 2018, 05:43:33 PM

lost my job lol

Man, that sucks, so quick? Hope you find something soon you can stick and rock with!

desert punk · « **Reply #3771 on:** March 14, 2018, 06:33:36 PM »

Didn't want to sound callous. Hope you get back on your feet!

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #3772 on:** March 14, 2018, 06:39:59 PM »

Look at it this way, at 11 you have your whole life in front of you!

Valkyrie · « **Reply #3773 on:** March 14, 2018, 06:54:43 PM »

Quote from: Shostakovich on March 14, 2018, 06:42:18 PM

You don't understand, Puppy. Just last week I was 16. I'm coming close to the end of my rope.

Tasty · « **Reply #3774 on:** March 14, 2018, 11:59:37 PM »

Wait didn't you just get a job with half the pay of your last one? You lost that already?

Rufus · « **Reply #3775 on:** March 15, 2018, 11:07:09 AM »

Could be a blessing in disguise.

Joe Molotov · « **Reply #3776 on:** March 15, 2018, 03:58:49 PM »

Quote from: Rufus on March 15, 2018, 11:07:09 AM

Could be a blessing in disguise.

Yeah, that company really dodged a bullet.

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jk, sending employment vibes your way

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chronovore · « **Reply #3777 on:** March 15, 2018, 10:28:12 PM »

Quote from: Shostakovich on March 14, 2018, 06:03:34 PM

Nah, it's stupid. Anyway I'm undeterred. Life is full of challenges but just have faith it gets better if you do the right thing, you know?

TVC15 · « **Reply #3778 on:** March 17, 2018, 10:01:52 PM »

My brother has been dead for 15 years as of today and I just remembered

Valkyrie · « **Reply #3779 on:** March 18, 2018, 04:19:43 AM »

My grandma fell in her living room and broke her hand and her hip, so she was taken to the hospital for surgery. I haven’t been there since she’s not allowed visitors yet, but really hoping to go tomorrow or whenever they will let us.

I feel so bad for her because she was still recovering from a shoulder surgery, which was already making her unable to do a lot of things. She’s a skinny old lady, but I’m still surprised by how little it takes for old people to break their bones.

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Author Topic: Struggle Thread mk II - No one likes us, we don't care (Read 637515 times)