Jesus christ, get over it. The sooner you realize not everyone is going to like you at every facet of social interaction (romantically, socially, professionally), the sooner you can grow as an individual.
Hmm, I don't actually give a shit if people I don't care about like me or not. That's not really what I'm talking about. Hell as a kid I realized not everyone is going to like you and you're not going to like everyone. This is hardly my problem.
I also don't expect women espically to have any interests me because of my looks, personality, interests, and whatnot. I just use these things to confirm that. So much for being yourself right?
A girl rejects you? Boo fucking hoo, it's her choice and if you feel confident about yourself, ultimately it's her loss. You can feel disappointed and a bummed out, sure, but you should never ever take it personally because there are so. many. fucking. people out in the world.
So many people out there. Wow I'm so happy to hear the most obvious statement ever uttered. How is anyone supposed to feel confident in this area when pretty much every female interaction ends in rejection. I guess the answer is simply keep lowering your standards and just settle for the bottom of the barrel right? Man confidence sure should be growing! Kind of hard to gain confidence when you keep getting rejected and being put in the supposed "friendzone" something I think is stupid. Man who are you supposed to be compatible with? I guess no one? This multiplies by the 100s when you add the shallow area of online dating where it's just your looks being judged. I guess I should just fine confidence when it seems like you can't get any matches with any person you'd like to.
Go out. Take up some hobbies. Talk about hobbies with like minded people. Stick up for yourself. Show some backbone. Don't betray or fake your personality to try and attract girls or friends. If you're natural, it'll be easy.
So be yourself? Wow it's almost like I've been doing that for decades. Guess what? it hasn't worked, but I love the advice of just be yourself and something will happen. I guess I gotta keep being myself for another decade to see if something will happen. And then another and another and another and then I guess just die because being yourself sure wasn't enough. I'm really tired of the advice of "oh it will happen when you least expect it". I guess I just wasn't lucky enough like almost every other human being for it to happen in my 20s. Maybe my 30s will be so much better as I play catch up to every single other person. Sounds really confidence building.
If you're selfish and focused on yourself at all times, you will socially portray yourself as inaccessible, rude, and a dick. It's not attractive. Man up and stop feeling sorry for yourself.
This is probably it right now to be honest.
Because I have enough self esteem to see how some other people are good or even great and clearly better than me in some aspects but I know I would not pursue a relationship with them. Not everything that logical or black and white
Well I wish I had enough self-esteem to not take rejections as slights against me and just an understanding that there or other better people out there for me. Unfourtantly I don't and those people have never appeared in my life.