Here's the thingy, hasn't this redacted lady consistently shown that she is fairly self centered and self important? Why is she worth the effort? Seems you could get with healthier, more mature, more stable women pretty easily.
Hah... I have yet to meet a young woman (or man) in my city who is not self centered...
The only ones that aren’t entirely self centered are single moms or dads because they are centered around their child.

Or there’s people who I’ve met who hate themselves/self deprecate all the time and that gets annoying as well. I’ll take someone with a high sense of self over a low one any day.
If anything [redacted]’s behavior has been changing more and more to mirror mine since we’ve been tripping a lot together as of late. My divine nature is rubbing off on her lol.

And there’s no effort involved now. I have never felt more in sync with her and all my other friends. They also tell me how they see me as their North Star when their lives are going to shit.
edit: Hell, even [redacted]’s bf likes me and comes to me for advice.