You disagree that a man should be dominant and assertive.
We disagree on basic, clear terms. Women like kind, passionate, dominant men. This statement in itself angers you.
I never said that I aspire to just play video games. Everything I'm saying is filtered through your own processes rather than examining what I'm actually saying: men need less to be comfortable than women. Women, for obvious reasons, have a higher standard for what they define as "comfortable" or "safe". Your constant "I know what you're REALLY saying!" reminds me of a woman. I do not argue with women.
My grandmother is traditional and knows a man's duty. My cousin works and his wife stays at home taking care of their baby. She has her own business on the side.
Photography killed my social anxiety. Have you taken a picture of people, went up to them and had the courage to say,"you know, you looked really wonderful in this light. It was a nice moment. I took a photo. How do you like? Want a copy" or "you two look absolutely wonderful. I'm a photographer, here's some samples of my work. Would you like a picture? Free of charge." Do that every day, in New York City, for a few years. You'll pick up a lot of things about human behavior and non-verbal cues. I'm especially attuned to non-verbal and body behavior. Because of this, I've gotten good at looking people in the eyes and communication. I've also worked jobs at bars and restaurants where I'm interacting with lots and lots of people. In NYC, I'd make it my goal to interact with as many people as possible, which is far more likely than other places due to the amount of foot traffic. I have practiced for years, and I have now fine tuned it. I'm pretty good at getting good at art, whether it's drawing or photography. I've been applying the same thing to social skills.
The only person who can test what I've done is Beezy. The others, besides maybe Tiesto, don't know how fierce and competitive dating in New York is like. Beezy, when you go out, look every single person in the eyes. Don't scrunch your brow. Give them kind, gentle eyes and a smile. If it's a man in the office, look him in eyes, don't turn your eyes away first, give him a firm (not crushing) handshake. With women, look them in the eyes make sure they're soft eyes, really look in to the color of them and admire them. Women are tougher than men at this because they practice it daily with other women. When you see two women talk they always look each other in the eyes. So they have better practice. But you're a man, and they know you're supposed to be stronger than them. Some will be tough and keep eye contact at a long period. Don't be the first to look away. Give her a slight smile. When she looks away, you've won. When she looks away, you look away, when she looks back look back at her, give her a smirk. After that you can stop looking her in the eyes because it'll be seen as aggressive. She might have her interest piqued and ask your name, which is the clear you need to make something happen. You can say a lot without saying anything at all. Look every single person in the eyes, young or old, and see what happens to them in terms of behavior. In order to alter human behavior you need a tool to alter it with. It's like having a camera. When you shoot street people are guarded if they know you're taking photos of them. You'll take a photo of someone and if they catch you they'll be like,"are you taking a photo of me?" but if you act like you're taking photos beyond them, like a building or across the street, they let their walls down. "Oh, he's just taking a photo of across the street." Then snap it. Looking someone in the eyes is similar. It gives you a massive advantage over every other man because the majority of men are insecure and aren't doing this with women.
Obviously don't do this on the subway. I don't want you to die. Go to Washington Square Park on a weekend. Have an excuse to meet other people like a camera or something. You do rock climbing, try to get others to climb rocks and do everything above. Watch how far you get.
I really feel sorry for the women in your life, Cauli. To think they have a man in their family that thinks women shouldn't be cared for. I'm sorry but it's not commendable in any way.
A few days away and I realized I'm really different here than I am in real life. I don't like the feelings I project here at all. It's all ego and it's spiritually negative. I'm not a big fan. It resulted in me calling people things like fegs and I know some pretty cool gay people. I'm sorry for that. In this discussion I'll admit I'll say I'm wrong. Arguing for the sake of arguing is pointless and a sign of ego. Another part of me that needs fixing. *takes out list*
I have been gone for years, what the fuck happened to himu
I mean Jesus christ
I moved across the country and became a man.
"Shut the fuck up"
You act like a woman and then you get mad when you're called a feg.
It's okay for women to act like women. They're women. But a man must aspire to higher character.
Literally women are lesser than men. Jesus you’re the worst.
Not lesser. But men are capable of much more damage. Sexually, physically. Therefore, there's higher standards placed upon us in terms of behavior. A man must have higher emotional control than a woman because he's capable of violence, for example. Never trust a perma offended man. It shows he's lacking something and is not to be trusted.
