Quick skim through that squabble.
Depends on what you mean by trashing, I don't see making a bit of a mess as trashing, if you're in crappy circumstances can't exactly fault you for sprinkling tinkling. I'm imagining something like someone shitting in the sink or something.
In which case, don't give a fuck about your lifestory. You're just being as asshole by jerking around the poor sod cleaning the bathroom. Someone being paid probably not that much or maybe not even at all.
Then again, not surprised at the apathy towards the people doing the cleaning. They tend to be min-wage immigrants you barely know exist, bathrooms just clean themselves as far as most people are concerned.