We need a new hashtag for clout chasing grudge bearers, sour about failed past relationships, and thinking because you remember things differently you were 'gaslit', because you got shouted at you were 'emotionally abused', because you didn't get shouted at they were 'emotionally distant', because they made the first move they are 'predatory', because they didn't like some or all of your friends they were 'controlling' and because you had consensual sex they 'sexually assaulted' you.
Just so we know who to ignore completely.
Maybe something like #lookatme