Why doesn't Nepenthe just move? Is that an insensitive question? If I spent every waking moment of my life hating the demographic of the nation I'm in, I'd just move? I mean I moved out of my country and came to the US just so I could make more money - that's way less of an imperative than needing to move because my race was in endless existential subjugation by the people inhabiting the same living space as me.
Take control of your life, Nepenthe! You can do it!