for any given entertainment product of any kind there is valid criticism to be found
12 Angry Men is probably my favorite film of all time, and I can find issues with it. the old man is not a very good actor. the choice to use diegetic rain noise makes it harder to hear in the latter half. if someone said its minor flaws added up to them hating the film overall I wouldn't dismiss them out of hand. criticism should always be welcome, because it's how we grow and improve
and if you say "well I'm not talking about the valid criticism, I'm talking about the extremely populous manbabies etc etc" I'm gonna need valid citation. I've tried listening to some of the podcasts and videos of the kind of people others call manbabies, like MauLer and Critical Drinker, and often found their points reasonable and at least well thought-out if nothing else
there's so much to see online that it's easier to assume that everyone who disagrees with you is being a disingenuous asshole with an agenda than actually taking the time to listen
it hurts to hear something you like being criticized, I know it, but it's ok
they can't hurt the thing and they can't hurt you, they're just ideas