Also, I don't want to sound like a total dick but I've noticed her sometimes complain about her hair and in one of the recent pics she posted on GAF she looks like she's balding

Can't tell for sure tho. Anyway I dunno, maybe she did go on four dates and got stood up because the guys showed up, looked for her from a distance, noticed a bald spot and got the fuck out. The type of guys I could imagine Leeness trying to pull definitely wouldn't be able to handle something like that in a mature way.