Author Topic: Struggle Thread mk II - No one likes us, we don't care (Read 534907 times)

fistfulofmetal · « **Reply #600 on:** August 16, 2015, 10:36:47 AM »

Their website is vary sparse. I can find very little information out there on them. Any reviews I find are minimal and usually close together in date. Their listed from Stroudsburg, PA and the address on the contract seems to go to a fucking house based on google maps. BBB shows them but an office in Florida (with a disconnected number listed). A website called ripoffreport shows a report of that office being accused of scamming people and shows them having multiple names.

I should have done more research. I was super anxiety driven because I couldn't find a place to move me in time. Now it's Sunday and no companies are open and I'm freaking out. I have little over a week to make a move happen and I don't know waht to do.

brawndolicious · « **Reply #601 on:** August 16, 2015, 10:44:50 AM »

Hakuna matata, it's just stuff. Can you find a new one? If not, is everything insured?

Kara · « **Reply #602 on:** August 16, 2015, 10:47:04 AM »

Rent a storage unit and take your essentials in your car while you have more time to move the rest of it with an above board operation.

fistfulofmetal · « **Reply #603 on:** August 16, 2015, 10:52:17 AM »

they claim to offer a basic insurance

i dunno. i left the rep i'm working with a voicemail and an email out expressing my concerns. maybe a bad idea. dunno. i'm pretty worried right now.

Samson Manhug · « **Reply #604 on:** August 16, 2015, 10:57:40 AM »

I think he is referring to renters insurance which will cover the theft of your belongings.

fistfulofmetal · « **Reply #605 on:** August 16, 2015, 11:00:47 AM »

I dunno :\

Samson Manhug · « **Reply #606 on:** August 16, 2015, 11:22:57 AM »

https://www.google.com/search?client=safari&rls=en&q=renters+insurance

It's a pretty good idea. I have it through the same company I have car insurance through and it typically costs less than $10 a month.

brawndolicious · « **Reply #607 on:** August 16, 2015, 12:42:41 PM »

Yeah assuming you have a car, you could transport your bare essentials (clothes/computers/irreplaceable belongings) and the furniture and other big stuff can go in the hands of the company if you have renters insurance.

The insurance should be effective immediately so you can get it today, it's good to have just for peace of mind so you don't get yourself (too) stressed out about theft.

fistfulofmetal · « **Reply #608 on:** August 16, 2015, 01:02:21 PM »

Thanks guys. I've talked to some family/friends and I may be just doing it all myself. renting truck, paying some people I know to move me.

Kara · « **Reply #609 on:** August 16, 2015, 02:23:36 PM »

It might be good for you, give you an impetus to throw away some stuff you should have thrown away but didn't because you didn't have to. Downgrading to the Commune meant I had to get rid of a lot of stuff I frankly wasn't using anymore (e.g. my console collection).

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #610 on:** August 16, 2015, 02:32:40 PM »

Quote from: Vularai on August 16, 2015, 02:23:36 PM

It might be good for you, give you an impetus to throw away some stuff you should have thrown away but didn't because you didn't have to. Downgrading to the Commune meant I had to get rid of a lot of stuff I frankly wasn't using anymore (e.g. my console collection).

you've got upper management written all over you, kid.

Kara · « **Reply #611 on:** August 16, 2015, 02:35:08 PM »

Quote from: The Walrus on August 16, 2015, 02:28:09 PM

Quote from: Vularai on August 16, 2015, 02:23:36 PM
It might be good for you, give you an impetus to throw away some stuff you should have thrown away but didn't because you didn't have to. Downgrading to the Commune meant I had to get rid of a lot of stuff I frankly wasn't using anymore (e.g. my console collection).

You could probably downsize your bed to a cot, no?

I'd rather drop down to a shiki tbh.

Crash Dummy · « **Reply #612 on:** August 16, 2015, 04:15:40 PM »

Quote from: Vularai on August 16, 2015, 12:40:04 AM

I bought $30 of Evian and $2 of Skittles. #karakand

this reminds me i have half a bag of haribo left over from friday on my desk

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that was my lunch with some coffee and cigarettes

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Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #613 on:** August 16, 2015, 04:47:46 PM »

Put ghost peppers in my chilli. Fuck my face is sweating and I had to drench it in sour cream.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #614 on:** August 16, 2015, 05:08:50 PM »

O fuck, I had seconds.

Kara · « **Reply #615 on:** August 16, 2015, 05:53:23 PM »

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on August 16, 2015, 02:32:40 PM

you've got upper management written all over you, kid.

I know that I try to let insults roll off me (and even sometimes agree with them), but that doesn't mean I don't have feelings.

@Arvie: You're on your own with binge eating today.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #616 on:** August 16, 2015, 05:57:35 PM »

It's OK, I'm always on my own. Probably cause I'm fat and have fire chilli breath.

milchs evil twin · « **Reply #617 on:** August 16, 2015, 06:19:05 PM »

Struggling with Shaka's policing of my struggles.

Kara · « **Reply #618 on:** August 16, 2015, 07:16:51 PM »

Quote from: TheInfelicitousDandy on August 16, 2015, 05:57:35 PM

It's OK, I'm always on my own. Probably cause I'm fat and have fire chilli breath.

Christ you're a sad sack. There, I ate a 30 calorie popsicle.

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #619 on:** August 16, 2015, 09:44:56 PM »

I'm pretty sure it's safe to say that this project has reached a level of being the most toxic I've been engaged in (which, trust me, is really saying something). People have given up any semblance of professional courtesy and are just yelling at each other in the halls. Everyone's on all the time 7 days a week already and there's still 8 weeks left of this.

king of the internet · « **Reply #620 on:** August 16, 2015, 09:54:02 PM »

Can't post my struggles in the struggles thread because the positivity thread has me feeling self conscious about it.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #621 on:** August 16, 2015, 09:56:16 PM »

Ya I feel like we need a Shaka safe place now. I don't post my problem in order to be judged.

nachobro · « **Reply #622 on:** August 16, 2015, 10:13:57 PM »

I ate a really big reuben and now I'm too full.

Probably because i also had some cheesecake

Shaka Khan · « **Reply #623 on:** August 16, 2015, 11:42:11 PM »

Quote from: king of the internet on August 16, 2015, 09:54:02 PM

Can't post my struggles in the struggles thread because the positivity thread has me feeling self conscious about it.

Purrp Skirrp · « **Reply #624 on:** August 16, 2015, 11:58:56 PM »

NO MORE STRUGGLES

I found a potent remedy for my troubles: Wellbutrin, Klonopin, Adderall, Weed, Caffeine, Alcohol.

Take your pick bruhs.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #625 on:** August 17, 2015, 11:10:03 AM »

Ran into one of my mom's friends yesterday. Both her and my mom have been trying to set me up with her daughter for years. She confronted me at a store while I was talking with a female friend of mine.

"Phoenix, Phoenixxxx! How are you!"
"Oh I'm good how about yourself?"
"I'm good. [insert daughter's name] was asking about you recently!"
"Oh...cool. Well tell her I said hi"
"Your mom said you need a girlfriend *laughs*"

"She said she didn't like your ex gf. You know who she does like tho"

"well...it was nice talking to you...."
"You too Phoenix. See you soon!"

I've met her daughter a few times but we've literally never had a conversation. She's beautiful and very smart but I'm not looking for a gf regardless. If we tried and failed I'd never hear the end of it. No thanks.

Purrp Skirrp · « **Reply #626 on:** August 17, 2015, 11:27:24 AM »

Playing Burnout 3 without a memory card

Game glitches as I take 1st and freezes on me

CatsCatsCats · « **Reply #627 on:** August 17, 2015, 12:43:53 PM »

Quote from: Swishercrat on August 16, 2015, 11:58:56 PM

NO MORE STRUGGLES

I found a potent remedy for my troubles: Wellbutrin, Klonopin, Adderall, Weed, Caffeine, Alcohol.

Take your pick bruhs.

I was on Wellbutrin for awhile, definitely found it amplified the effects of the weed.

My fav combo for life is definitely weed, black coffee, and red wine.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #628 on:** August 17, 2015, 02:00:38 PM »

Is Phoenixxxx your street name? Cause, personally, I'd drop an x.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #629 on:** August 17, 2015, 02:23:21 PM »

Nami just lost a tooth. She is only 5. Fuck I feel like a terrible parent with her.

Brehvolution · « **Reply #630 on:** August 17, 2015, 02:29:50 PM »

It's been a month since Eel o'Brian last posted. :'(

Come back, breh.

Purrp Skirrp · « **Reply #631 on:** August 17, 2015, 02:47:48 PM »

Quote from: CatsCatsCats on August 17, 2015, 12:43:53 PM

Quote from: Swishercrat on August 16, 2015, 11:58:56 PM
NO MORE STRUGGLES

I found a potent remedy for my troubles: Wellbutrin, Klonopin, Adderall, Weed, Caffeine, Alcohol.

Take your pick bruhs.

I was on Wellbutrin for awhile, definitely found it amplified the effects of the weed.

My fav combo for life is definitely weed, black coffee, and red wine.

Coffee > Mio, but Mio is still good to me.

For me, Wellbutrin evens out the lows of adderall use and makes everything more consistent.

Plus it's good for energy. I hate substances that make you drowsy unless it's some nice indica and even then, that's more of a mellow feeling than being tired af.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #632 on:** August 17, 2015, 04:36:47 PM »

I don't think the tooth was Nami's at least I can't see were it came from.

king of the internet · « **Reply #633 on:** August 17, 2015, 04:40:51 PM »

Quote from: TheInfelicitousDandy on August 17, 2015, 04:36:47 PM

I don't think the tooth was Nami's at least I can't see were it came from.

Maybe it's yours

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #634 on:** August 17, 2015, 04:43:05 PM »

Well I did lose one while trying to do a magic trick when I was 12.

Kara · « **Reply #635 on:** August 17, 2015, 06:28:57 PM »

Didn't really like Wellbutrin, but I pay money to take a pill that downgrades me from treatment-resistant clinical to pseudo-bipolar.

Joe Molotov · « **Reply #636 on:** August 17, 2015, 07:36:55 PM »

Quote from: TheInfelicitousDandy on August 17, 2015, 04:43:05 PM

Well I did lose one while trying to do a magic trick when I was 12.

*tada* And now it's back! Great trick.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #637 on:** August 20, 2015, 09:32:10 AM »

Dreampt about the girl I liked in highschool. Dream was so depressing that in the dream I realized it was a dream and that I should stop it before I get more depressed. Woke up and remembered she's been with the same guy for half a decade and I'm going no where in life.

Rufus · « **Reply #638 on:** August 20, 2015, 09:37:30 AM »

A PhD (still getting one?) isn't exactly nowhere.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #639 on:** August 20, 2015, 09:55:18 AM »

No but in terms of personal relationships.

Also I broke eye contact which a very hot chick on the street that was wearing a chocker and black hair with twisted bangs. She smiled and I looked away.

This is Lday for me.

Purrp Skirrp · « **Reply #640 on:** August 20, 2015, 10:24:48 AM »

Quote from: TheInfelicitousDandy on August 20, 2015, 09:32:10 AM

Dreampt about the girl I liked in highschool. Dream was so depressing that in the dream I realized it was a dream and that I should stop it before I get more depressed. Woke up and remembered she's been with the same guy for half a decade and I'm going no where in life.

I swear I'm over her, but I still get dreams about my old HS GF. It's been 7 years or so yet some deep seated part of my brain is excessively bitch made :'(

The dreams that haunt me most are about the ones where you know things could have worked out, but they didn't for whatever reason.

That jewish chick from freshmen year

About having no direction, aren't you working on your masters? You're set dude. You're bettering yourself.

Kara · « **Reply #641 on:** August 20, 2015, 10:35:45 AM »

Fumble around on online dating, Arv. You can be super funny online and don't have to worry about being instantly rejected because you give off mega-noob body language.

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That's what the first date is for.

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Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #642 on:** August 20, 2015, 12:04:25 PM »

My shrink just kept on talking today and I hardly said anything. Keeps using up all the time to go though CBT worksheets.

At least it is raining today.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #643 on:** August 20, 2015, 01:35:32 PM »

Just realized I was sitting on a potato chip. Went to the restroom and yes there is now a grease stain on the back of my pants. I had a few chips on lunch but I have no idea how one got on my chair.

between this, the belt fiasco a few weeks ago, and my mom running into me during a recent lunch break and telling me she bought me some shirts (as my coworkers held in smirks)...I'm pretty sure my coworkers must think I'm eight years old.

studyguy · « **Reply #644 on:** August 20, 2015, 02:23:29 PM »

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on August 20, 2015, 01:35:32 PM

Just realized I was sitting on a potato chip. Went to the restroom and yes there is now a grease stain on the back of my pants. I had a few chips on lunch but I have no idea how one got on my chair.

between this, the belt fiasco a few weeks ago, and my mom running into me during a recent lunch break and telling me she bought me some shirts (as my coworkers held in smirks)...I'm pretty sure my coworkers must think I'm eight years old.

I miss my mother ironing my shirts and shit.
I can never get them looking nearly as cleanly pressed as she could.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #645 on:** August 20, 2015, 02:25:48 PM »

Buy a good iron. 30$ pieces of crap are frustrating. They don't even work to get information out of Russian mobsters.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #646 on:** August 20, 2015, 02:46:13 PM »

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on August 20, 2015, 01:35:32 PM

Just realized I was sitting on a potato chip. Went to the restroom and yes there is now a grease stain on the back of my pants. I had a few chips on lunch but I have no idea how one got on my chair.

between this, the belt fiasco a few weeks ago, and my mom running into me during a recent lunch break and telling me she bought me some shirts (as my coworkers held in smirks)...I'm pretty sure my coworkers must think I'm eight years old.

Once when I was working with people with mental disabilities I wore a shit with the buttons done one off all day. One of my co workers finally mentioned it at the end of the day. All the people with mental disabilities could do their buttons correctly. However sitting on a potato chip is far worse and i'm embarrassed for you.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #647 on:** August 20, 2015, 02:48:00 PM »

Quote from: Vularai on August 20, 2015, 10:35:45 AM

Fumble around on online dating, Arv. You can be super funny online and don't have to worry about being instantly rejected because you give off mega-noob body language.

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That's what the first date is for.
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That girl I dreampt about once said, and I'm paraphrasing 'You are so nice and funny online but in person you are really different'

She totally gutted me on that one.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #648 on:** August 20, 2015, 02:48:51 PM »

At least I didn't eat the chip.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #649 on:** August 20, 2015, 02:50:49 PM »

Also while thinking about that girl and sitting on food, on the grade 7 field trip I sat on a smore right before the bus ride back. Thankfully I sat on both chocolate and marshmellow, since had it just been the former it could have been mistaken for me shitting myself. She tried to make fun of me for it but the marshmellow was my defense.

I also didn't try to eat the smore goop on my ass PD

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #650 on:** August 20, 2015, 02:55:09 PM »

#solidarity

Kara · « **Reply #651 on:** August 20, 2015, 03:47:03 PM »

Quote from: TheInfelicitousDandy on August 20, 2015, 02:48:00 PM

Quote from: Vularai on August 20, 2015, 10:35:45 AM
Fumble around on online dating, Arv. You can be super funny online and don't have to worry about being instantly rejected because you give off mega-noob body language.

spoiler (click to show/hide)
That's what the first date is for.
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That girl I dreampt about once said, and I'm paraphrasing 'You are so nice and funny online but in person you are really different' She totally gutted me on that one.

Why do you think that is?

Rufus · « **Reply #652 on:** August 20, 2015, 03:53:11 PM »

Quote from: Vularai on August 20, 2015, 03:47:03 PM

Quote from: TheInfelicitousDandy on August 20, 2015, 02:48:00 PM
Quote from: Vularai on August 20, 2015, 10:35:45 AM
Fumble around on online dating, Arv. You can be super funny online and don't have to worry about being instantly rejected because you give off mega-noob body language.

spoiler (click to show/hide)
That's what the first date is for.
[close]

That girl I dreampt about once said, and I'm paraphrasing 'You are so nice and funny online but in person you are really different' She totally gutted me on that one.

Why do you think that is?

king of the internet · « **Reply #653 on:** August 20, 2015, 03:57:08 PM »

Just puked for the first time in at least a year. It was a good streak.

Kara · « **Reply #654 on:** August 20, 2015, 03:58:00 PM »

Knickerbocker can be a TA, he can hold a convo. I barely survived impersonating a university professor and I only did that one time.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #655 on:** August 20, 2015, 05:34:00 PM »

Saw a big black dude in white pants, black velvet blazer and a straw hat. I might be gay.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #656 on:** August 20, 2015, 05:36:28 PM »

Still thinking about that girl that smiled at me. I wish I had said hello.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #657 on:** August 20, 2015, 05:37:15 PM »

Quote from: TheInfelicitousDandy on August 20, 2015, 05:36:28 PM

Still thinking about that girl that smiled at me. I wish I had said hello.

missed connections segment of cragislist.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #658 on:** August 20, 2015, 11:14:41 PM »

Hello I was wearing a green tshirt and you were beautiful. You DTF?

Purrp Skirrp · « **Reply #659 on:** August 21, 2015, 09:37:39 AM »

Wellbutrin is doing its job smoothing out the highs and lows of addy use.

I woke up today early and can get out of bed, have a nice coffee, and not feel like total shit until I take my adderall.

Mental health issues are awful and I feel bad for the people who don't have access to the right meds and CBT, or don't have a support group and other resources.

I am very fortunate and will keep making strides getting my shit together. The pace isn't always what I want it to be, but these small changes will build up over time.

Anyone really struggling, keep being persistent and educate yourself on your treatment. Advocate for yourself when speaking to your doctor.

I've been at it for years and I know it's frustrating as fuck, but the next med(s) you try may be just what you needed.

Same goes for therapists and doctors. If it's not working, find someone else. Someone you're comfortable with that is best suited for you.

For me, that's a sexy older woman who nurtures the soul with CBT worksheets and engaging conversation

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Author Topic: Struggle Thread mk II - No one likes us, we don't care (Read 534907 times)