She was going to report it to my manager but I told her not to because I didn't want to make it a big deal and I felt like the confrontation was my fault anyway.
Maybe this is related, maybe this isn't, but it's so obvious how differently (certain) white people here treat me compared to other minorities. Black people: very nice, or neutral. Latinos: very nice, or neutral. Asians: very nice, or neutral. White people: just as nice or neutral, but the difference is that at their worst they will be impatient, condescending, and sometimes viciously hostile. It can be intensely alienating. I am not paranoid. There is an appreciable difference. This is the minority experience in this country.