Author Topic: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011 (Read 1411686 times)

Oblivion · « **Reply #11820 on:** October 22, 2019, 05:13:44 AM »

Yeah, you guys are right.

Next time we talk, I'm going to ask her out.

VomKriege · « **Reply #11821 on:** October 22, 2019, 08:41:19 AM »

Not to be a downer but this is probably gonna be a recurring issue, understandably a larger share of women seek a "serious life partner" and / or a prospective father as they get older. Maybe this is accentuated where you live.

Not much to do but keep looking.

VomKriege · « **Reply #11822 on:** October 22, 2019, 05:09:16 PM »

Well, it was only me really. And if it's not mutual there's no forcing it, just have to take it, accept that she'll just be a great friend and keep going forward.

nudemacusers · « **Reply #11823 on:** October 22, 2019, 07:18:58 PM »

Quote from: Dantizzinel on October 22, 2019, 08:46:32 AM

Yeah I know, it just fucking sucks.

I’ll be there in a few weeks, we’ll find u a desert honey

shosta · « **Reply #11824 on:** October 22, 2019, 09:58:02 PM »

she bought a bunch of new buttplugs

chronovore · « **Reply #11825 on:** October 22, 2019, 10:36:14 PM »

Quote from: shosta on October 22, 2019, 09:58:02 PM

she bought a bunch of new buttplugs

Hopefully you limber up beforehand.

team filler · « **Reply #11826 on:** October 22, 2019, 10:39:52 PM »

Oblivion · « **Reply #11827 on:** October 23, 2019, 03:31:10 AM »

UGH

we spoke again today, and like i said earlier, i was planning on asking her out. but i never got the chance because she was out with friends and wasn't really ideal to ask.

hopefully tomorrow will go better.

Ghoul · « **Reply #11828 on:** October 23, 2019, 05:17:27 AM »

Quote from: Oblivion on October 23, 2019, 03:31:10 AM

UGH

we spoke again today, and like i said earlier, i was planning on asking her out. but i never got the chance because she was out with friends and wasn't really ideal to ask.

hopefully tomorrow will go better.

Man, it doesn't matter if she's out with friends etc, just say "Hey I've loved our conversations so far and was wondering if you'd like to meet up"

It's a text dude, it's not like you're on the phone whilst she's out with friends, she can see the text and then get back to you once she's able to reply.

VOM what happened on your date bro?

VomKriege · « **Reply #11829 on:** October 23, 2019, 06:05:58 AM »

The short of it is that she doesn't feel like that about me. She thought it was indeed probably healthy to be genuine about it and that all cards were on the table to address any future discussion about boundaries if ever needed. I'm confident I made my peace out of it and there's no issue on carrying on our friendship (minus the intimacy we've kept on doing all the things we like, really).

Ghoul · « **Reply #11830 on:** October 23, 2019, 06:22:41 AM »

not the best outcome but at least she was good enough to be straight up with you and not lead you on at all, on to the next huh?

Oblivion · « **Reply #11831 on:** October 23, 2019, 07:17:14 AM »

Quote from: Ghoul on October 23, 2019, 05:17:27 AM

Quote from: Oblivion on October 23, 2019, 03:31:10 AM
UGH

we spoke again today, and like i said earlier, i was planning on asking her out. but i never got the chance because she was out with friends and wasn't really ideal to ask.

hopefully tomorrow will go better.

Man, it doesn't matter if she's out with friends etc, just say "Hey I've loved our conversations so far and was wondering if you'd like to meet up"

It's a text dude, it's not like you're on the phone whilst she's out with friends, she can see the text and then get back to you once she's able to reply.

yeah, but if feels weird asking her out when she's busy hanging out with her friends. i mean, what if i send her a text asking her out and she doesn't respond until after she's done, which could take all night?

Oblivion · « **Reply #11832 on:** October 23, 2019, 07:18:41 AM »

Quote from: Dantizzinel on October 22, 2019, 05:14:49 AM

All I'm asking is you tear that ass up, Oblivion.

i'm TRYING

Ghoul · « **Reply #11833 on:** October 23, 2019, 07:31:08 AM »

Quote from: Oblivion on October 23, 2019, 07:17:14 AM

Quote from: Ghoul on October 23, 2019, 05:17:27 AM
Quote from: Oblivion on October 23, 2019, 03:31:10 AM
UGH

we spoke again today, and like i said earlier, i was planning on asking her out. but i never got the chance because she was out with friends and wasn't really ideal to ask.

hopefully tomorrow will go better.

Man, it doesn't matter if she's out with friends etc, just say "Hey I've loved our conversations so far and was wondering if you'd like to meet up"

It's a text dude, it's not like you're on the phone whilst she's out with friends, she can see the text and then get back to you once she's able to reply.

yeah, but if feels weird asking her out when she's busy hanging out with her friends. i mean, what if i send her a text asking her out and she doesn't respond until after she's done, which could take all night?

Then you wait for the text dude, like shoot your shot, otherwise you'll be waiting a while and could fuck it up by waiting so long.

Like ask her, if she's out, if she is as interested as she looks to be she will deffo start arranging things with you.

Or just throw out a "Hey, want to meet on Saturday for dinner and drinks?"
just if you give a day make sure there's at least two between today and the day you say you want to go.

As then you're more likely to get an ok, or she'll say I'm busy that day and give you a counter offer.

EightBitNate · « **Reply #11834 on:** October 23, 2019, 07:18:00 PM »

Old high school crush is getting married

Why does this hurt so much

toku · « **Reply #11835 on:** October 23, 2019, 08:19:27 PM »

Unresolved emotional issues is an ongoing theme in adulthood

EightBitNate · « **Reply #11836 on:** October 23, 2019, 08:45:09 PM »

Oblivion · « **Reply #11837 on:** October 23, 2019, 09:33:10 PM »

Alright guys,i'm doing it. I'm doing it! /spongebob

Gonma ask her out and report back. I'm gonna be either ecstatic, or a complete fucking wreck

Stay tuned!

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #11838 on:** October 23, 2019, 10:05:54 PM »

Good luck.

Oblivion · « **Reply #11839 on:** October 23, 2019, 11:51:49 PM »

holy shit, did that take forever for her to respond (nearly three hours)

okay. but now that she's here, i can proceed to ask her out.

almost there, guys!

Oblivion · « **Reply #11840 on:** October 24, 2019, 12:23:47 AM »

okay, i sent it.

no going back now.

FUCK. i haven't been this nervous about a response for like nearly a decade (i wanted to ask out a co-worker who i later found out was a lesbian

)

Oblivion · « **Reply #11841 on:** October 24, 2019, 12:24:12 AM »

SHE RESPONDED!!

FUCK!!

Oblivion · « **Reply #11842 on:** October 24, 2019, 12:26:32 AM »

HOLY SHIT HOLY SHIT HOLY SHIT

SHE SAID YES!!

Raist · « **Reply #11843 on:** October 24, 2019, 04:16:42 AM »

I take 150% of the credit for this.

Now don't fuck it up son.

spoiler (click to show/hide)

Although ask her if she likes to be choked

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Ghoul · « **Reply #11844 on:** October 24, 2019, 05:52:59 AM »

toku · « **Reply #11845 on:** October 24, 2019, 11:15:35 AM »

face tat always works

TakingBackSunday · « **Reply #11846 on:** October 24, 2019, 10:30:32 PM »

Jinfash got engaged

bluemax · « **Reply #11847 on:** October 24, 2019, 10:41:34 PM »

Matched with a super cute lawyer off CMB last night. Before I could even come up with an opener, she messaged me. We ended up chatting on the app for a couple of hours before exchanging numbers and texting for a few more. Gonna meet up this weekend, and honestly I don't think I've been this excited for a date in a long time.

CatsCatsCats · « **Reply #11848 on:** October 24, 2019, 11:02:53 PM »

Whoa BN, you can’t just dox people like that

nudemacusers · « **Reply #11849 on:** October 25, 2019, 05:43:21 AM »

Quote from: TakingBackSunday on October 24, 2019, 10:30:32 PM

Jinfash got engaged

Not news I was hoping for, but I’m willing to settle for side piece.

spoiler (click to show/hide)

Congrats bae

[close]

bluemax · « **Reply #11850 on:** October 26, 2019, 04:01:11 PM »

Quote from: bluemax on October 24, 2019, 10:41:34 PM

Matched with a super cute lawyer off CMB last night. Before I could even come up with an opener, she messaged me. We ended up chatting on the app for a couple of hours before exchanging numbers and texting for a few more. Gonna meet up this weekend, and honestly I don't think I've been this excited for a date in a long time.

Happy to report this date went really well. Will definitely being seeing this girl again very soon.

Raist · « **Reply #11851 on:** October 26, 2019, 04:34:23 PM »

Did you ask her about choking?

Olivia Wilde Homo · « **Reply #11852 on:** October 26, 2019, 04:51:52 PM »

I fucked and came so hard inside of a girl this morning that I’ve had to nap for the rest of the day. I had some work I wanted to get done and now it’s late afternoon.

I also found out that I can’t sustain an erection with a condom anymore. I almost never use them so maybe I should get snipped so one doesn’t slip past the goalie. I get tested regularly and am still clean, thankfully.

I’m sure the real culprit is that I’m fatigued from working 80 hour weeks but eh, whatever.

Oblivion · « **Reply #11853 on:** October 26, 2019, 07:54:46 PM »

gots me a question

so things are going well with the potential ladyfriend so far, thankfully. we've been talking every single day since she gave me her number, and our conversations are great.

...HOWEVER

Every single time we've spoken so far, I've been the one to initiate the conversation. Now, we both have busy schedules, and she comes home late sometimes, so I can sort of understand if she gets caught up in other things. but there have been days where i waited as late as 10 pm for her to text me, and she hasn't. we're on day 7 now, and it still hasn't been any different.

now AGAIN, i want to stress that she DOES respond and once she does, she speaks quite a bit and is very engaged. so things are still more good than bad. but i dunno, should i feel weird about it?

shosta · « **Reply #11854 on:** October 26, 2019, 07:59:38 PM »

Quote from: shosta on October 22, 2019, 03:29:48 AM

Make plans to see her in person soon.

Last thing you want is a text/phone-only thing dragging on for weeks and weeks.

nudemacusers · « **Reply #11855 on:** October 26, 2019, 08:23:07 PM »

Quote from: Dantizzinel on October 26, 2019, 02:32:17 PM

Giving tinder another go

Not expecting anything, still. I pretty much haven't taken any new pics worth uploading nor has my station in life changed, but it's not like I have anything else to do.

Increase age range to 50

Oblivion · « **Reply #11856 on:** October 27, 2019, 03:55:41 AM »

Quote from: shosta on October 26, 2019, 07:59:38 PM

Quote from: shosta on October 22, 2019, 03:29:48 AM
Make plans to see her in person soon.

Last thing you want is a text/phone-only thing dragging on for weeks and weeks.

i probably forgot to mention it, but we are going to meet up next weekend for dinner.

Oblivion · « **Reply #11857 on:** October 27, 2019, 03:56:51 AM »

Quote from: Dantizzinel on October 26, 2019, 08:56:10 PM

Quote from: nudemacusers on October 26, 2019, 08:23:07 PM
Increase age range to 50

Not much around there but I've always had it up there

Yo Oblivion, I say don't really sweat it. Some girls think it's the dude who should initiate most times, and even then maybe it's just not her type of way of doing things. Either way don't think too hard till you go on dates. In my experience once you fuck the girl she's waaaay more likely to start hitting you up often.

yeah, i'm probably overthinking it. i just thought it was kind of weird. but then again, i've also had 6+ month long relationships where we literally never spoke on the phone even once, so..

Bebpo · « **Reply #11858 on:** October 27, 2019, 04:45:43 AM »

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Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #11859 on:** October 27, 2019, 05:20:13 AM »

It’s a image sharing and message sending app. The big thing about it is things don’t auto save and disappear after viewing them. So well your mind can figure out the pros of that. You can save stuff, but it will notify them. There’s also a Story aspect where people can upload things they take pictures and video of during thier day.

You should get it if you’re online dating. I find people my age and younger use it as a low risk texting thing. You don’t give someone your phone number, but this chatting on snap chat is just as good.

Atramental · « **Reply #11860 on:** October 27, 2019, 01:47:34 PM »

Possum girl is single and she wants to see me tonight.

But I can’t see her tonight tho because I promised my best friend we were gonna see a movie (the lighthouse) together. So she’ll have to sit tight.

team filler · « **Reply #11861 on:** October 27, 2019, 02:14:34 PM »

toku · « **Reply #11862 on:** October 27, 2019, 03:22:00 PM »

skipping on a girl to go watch a movie where two dudes masturbate and eat beans is THE bore move

Atramental · « **Reply #11863 on:** October 27, 2019, 03:40:51 PM »

It’s okay. Her & I will get together later this week.

bluemax · « **Reply #11864 on:** October 27, 2019, 03:51:06 PM »

Quote from: Bebpo on October 27, 2019, 04:45:43 AM

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Yeah like Rax said Snapchat is good for dating when dealing with certain segments of people. It's the only way I know that my roommate is still alive since he hasn't been home in like 4 months.

Girl I saw yesterday texted me a little bit ago asking if I want to get drinks Friday or Saturday. Considering we both have busy jobs and its Halloween week that seems pretty reasonable to me. Also this is the first time in awhile where the girl asked me for a second date before I asked her

bluemax · « **Reply #11865 on:** October 27, 2019, 04:10:25 PM »

And she picked a bar within walking distance of my apartment!

CatsCatsCats · « **Reply #11866 on:** October 27, 2019, 06:03:38 PM »

Last time a chick asked me if I had snap chat it was because she was a prostitute #tinder

team filler · « **Reply #11867 on:** October 27, 2019, 06:12:20 PM »

did you subscribe to her premium snapchat?

hope she pays tax!

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #11868 on:** October 27, 2019, 10:43:50 PM »

Quote from: Atramental on October 27, 2019, 01:47:34 PM

Possum girl is single and she wants to see me tonight.

But I can’t see her tonight tho because I promised my best friend we were gonna see a movie (the lighthouse) together. So she’ll have to sit tight.

shosta · « **Reply #11869 on:** October 28, 2019, 03:28:14 AM »

Quote from: Atramental on October 27, 2019, 03:40:51 PM

It’s okay. Her & I will get together later this week.

Honestly you should take this opportunity to exact some mild psychological revenge on her for all the pain she put you through. Nothing that would jeopardize your chances of slamming, but D.E.N.N.I.S. System her a bit.

VomKriege · « **Reply #11870 on:** October 28, 2019, 03:28:18 AM »

Well, I haven't been hit too hard by relapsing unilaterally to my ex, but I'm kinda frustrated by the lack of any feedback on dating apps. Guess most women don't agree with her that my photos are good. It's like pissing messages into the wind. I dissociate it fine from my self-worth but it is annoying to have a sub 1% response rate (and the few that did are not leading to any discussion anyway).

I'm sick at the moment so it's not like I can chase things down right now but I'm starting to get a bit thirsty.

tiesto · « **Reply #11871 on:** October 28, 2019, 12:21:04 PM »

Vom, you should come visit America, you'll clean up with your accent...

Oblivion · « **Reply #11872 on:** October 28, 2019, 05:44:53 PM »

update: we have now confirmed to meet up on saturday evening

now, just need to decide where to eat

BisMarckie · « **Reply #11873 on:** October 28, 2019, 05:45:25 PM »

Have you considered Olive Garden?

Bebpo · « **Reply #11874 on:** October 28, 2019, 10:50:28 PM »

At a show and kinda drunk. I think I wanna take a year from work and live out my midlife at 38 crisis and drive across America, stopping at bars, never knowing what adventures will bring and trying not to die.

It’s weird being single at 38
When it’s not intentional.

Oblivion · « **Reply #11875 on:** October 29, 2019, 01:43:56 AM »

Quote from: BisMarckie on October 28, 2019, 05:45:25 PM

Have you considered Olive Garden?

I know you're joking, but it occurred to me that I haven't.

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #11876 on:** October 29, 2019, 02:30:55 AM »

You’re not in high school. That would be super tacky to go there.

Oblivion · « **Reply #11877 on:** October 29, 2019, 02:55:25 AM »

man y'all really hate olive garden (and by extension: PD) don't ya

bluemax · « **Reply #11878 on:** October 29, 2019, 03:11:35 AM »

Quote from: Raist on October 26, 2019, 04:34:23 PM

Did you ask her about choking?

I did not. Also I uh... ended up seeing her again a lot sooner than I expected in a very, very good way.

VomKriege · « **Reply #11879 on:** October 29, 2019, 03:23:15 AM »

Quote from: tiesto on October 28, 2019, 12:21:04 PM

Vom, you should come visit America, you'll clean up with your accent...

A friend brought up the whole French accent thing and I was kinda skeptical to be honest. But sure I can put a Pépé Le Pew impression. Farts included.

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