Oh btw, she's texting me on her own now.
That’s good news. I was wondering a bit about the one sided contact initiation. That can introduce a lot of doubt in the beginning stages of dating. Idk, sometimes you start wondering if they even think about you throughout the day and such. I’m glad things are becoming more balanced for you.
As for me, I’m leaving a week from tomorrow to make the cross country move to live with my gf. I have been getting all my shit sorted out (not that much tbh) and saying my goodbyes. I’m starting to have some deep regret about not staying as close to friends as I should have and not spending enough time with my family... I’m sure in this regard I would be beating myself up to some degree even if I had spent more time with them, it’s never enough I guess.
I’m still like “holy fucking shit I can’t believe this is actually happening” levels of excited about the whole thing. I’m just i bit melancholy right now about everything I’m leaving behind.
Sounds like a lot of doubt about the move, just basically try to make your peace with it, as you're moving for a better life, it's no ones fault really just how it goes leaving the nest.
Hopefully you're not too far away so can have trips and see them all on holidays etc if you want to, with video calling etc now it's not as bad as it used to be anyway so you'll be fine.
Just think of all the action you're gonna get once you move.
I've been engaged a week, it's been pretty cool lots of cards and gifts etc, although mostly aimed at my partner the flowers etc, but hell I guess that's kinda how this stuff works right?
Although a mad amount of people have been asking for a date already, I'm kinda like, well gotta move first then we'll sort it out. People are weird I guess.