Author Topic: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011 (Read 1413824 times)

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #8940 on:** November 24, 2018, 02:57:38 PM »

Trying to bend her will will just get her to say what you want to hear so she doesnt have to deal with the fallout. Right now its on you to read the tea leaves and leave well enough alone. Sorry, dude. You only get told whats up from a real G of a woman. Mainly Puerto Rican females.

shosta · « **Reply #8941 on:** November 24, 2018, 03:25:10 PM »

stay away from puertorriqueñas

Atramental · « **Reply #8942 on:** November 24, 2018, 03:57:16 PM »

She’s given me long stints of radio silence before.

This might not be any different.

I hope...

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #8943 on:** November 24, 2018, 04:02:53 PM »

This arc of the season sucks. We have so many other more promising arcs.

Atramental · « **Reply #8944 on:** November 24, 2018, 04:28:01 PM »

https://imgur.com/a/2ZX76v3

this was reblogged on her tumblr several hours ago but....

I think I get the infered message loud and clear.

mormapope · « **Reply #8945 on:** November 24, 2018, 04:28:52 PM »

When a woman wants to fuck you, get closer to you, they'll put actual effort on their end. If you see no effort, she's not worth any of yours.

First sign of actual effort, do they make time to see you or talk to you? Does she surprise you in a positive way with the effort she's putting in? If the answer is no, time to giddy up somewhere else. And just like men, many women simply suck at being a friend or someone you can comfortably rely on.

Time is way more important than anything. Don't chisel your life or who you are away just so you can get an opportunity. The opportunity should be exciting and fun mutually.

Mupepe · « **Reply #8946 on:** November 24, 2018, 04:30:17 PM »

Jesus. If she’s really posting passive aggressive shit to give you a hint then I’d say good riddance. I’d usually call you paranoid but she honestly sounds like a mess based on what you’ve told us here.

Atramental · « **Reply #8947 on:** November 24, 2018, 05:20:19 PM »

So, the short order cook, Emily.

I’m wondering if I should message her Sunday to see if she’s free Monday.

Aren’t Mondays typically slow days at restaurants?

brawndolicious · « **Reply #8948 on:** November 24, 2018, 05:59:33 PM »

Quote from: Atramental on November 24, 2018, 10:37:44 AM

Quote from: brawndolicious on November 24, 2018, 09:09:06 AM
It's common after an intimate moment for people to claim they accept just being friends but then continue to do confusing/flirty shit. After having your heart shit on a few times, people become more patient in establishing new friendships. Best to just be transparent, cool, and keep your wiener from trying to fuck everything up.
So... are you saying I should bone or not bone if she flings herself on me again?

The last sentence was literally telling you to disobey your penis. Basically, I don't feel it's worth taking her up on the offer even if she throws herself at you because she is not in the zone of looking for a stable romantic relationship. If she's cool with being friends, that will naturally progress the less you pay attention to it. Probably best to not worry if weeks go by without hearing from each other.

Now, it's possible that you two end up happily ever after a year or two from now. I'm only saying that to hedge my bets but you shouldn't plan that far ahead.

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #8949 on:** November 24, 2018, 06:08:47 PM »

I am sorry it turned out this way, Atra. Fuck her. On to the next one.

MMaRsu · « **Reply #8950 on:** November 24, 2018, 06:42:40 PM »

Quote from: BlueTsunami on November 24, 2018, 02:53:04 PM

My guess is youre experiencing the "Girl is not trying to hurt you by flat out eaying no" scenario, Atra. Abort, abort. Abort.

Atramental · « **Reply #8951 on:** November 24, 2018, 06:48:31 PM »

Quote from: Atramental on November 24, 2018, 05:20:19 PM

So, the short order cook, Emily.

I’m wondering if I should message her Sunday to see if she’s free Monday.

Aren’t Mondays typically slow days at restaurants?

So, for real. What do?

I think I'll just keep waiting since I did put the ball in her court to message me when she's free from work.

Atramental · « **Reply #8952 on:** November 24, 2018, 06:53:41 PM »

Alrighty.

I'll pop up again if I run into another pickle.

For now, I'm just going to focus on my own self improvement.

shosta · « **Reply #8953 on:** November 24, 2018, 06:56:00 PM »

you said that three days ago

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #8954 on:** November 24, 2018, 06:56:55 PM »

Quote from: Atramental on November 24, 2018, 06:53:41 PM

Alrighty.

I'll pop up again if I run into another pickle.

For now, I'm just going to focus on my own self improvement.

Not to toot my own dick but what I've been going through has been transformative for me. I place it squarely on becoming physically well. Loving myself, so I can freely express myself. I'm sure you'll find it won't just help your love life but touch every aspect of you. Start as soon as possible.

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #8955 on:** November 24, 2018, 07:02:20 PM »

Quote from: Glen on November 24, 2018, 06:59:57 PM

Quote from: Atramental on November 24, 2018, 04:28:01 PM
https://imgur.com/a/2ZX76v3

this was reblogged on her tumblr several hours ago but....

I think I get the infered message loud and clear.

It’s highly unlikely that she’s trying to send you messages through Tumblr posts, dude.

Quote from: BlueTsunami on November 24, 2018, 06:56:55 PM
Not to toot my own dick but what I've been going through has been transformative for me. I place it squarely on becoming physically well. Loving myself, so I can freely express myself. I'm sure you'll find it won't just help your love life but touch every aspect of you. Start as soon as possible.

The 4aco can’t hurt either.

Tripping on that wonderful substance right now

Atramental · « **Reply #8956 on:** November 24, 2018, 07:04:20 PM »

Quote from: BlueTsunami on November 24, 2018, 06:56:55 PM

Quote from: Atramental on November 24, 2018, 06:53:41 PM
Alrighty.

I'll pop up again if I run into another pickle.

For now, I'm just going to focus on my own self improvement.

Not to toot my own dick but what I've been going through has been transformative for me. I place it squarely on becoming physically well. Loving myself, so I can freely express myself. I'm sure you'll find it won't just help your love life but touch every aspect of you. Start as soon as possible.

So... feel free to PM this but... I kinda want to get some of these substances you're getting your hands on but I have no idea where to start.

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #8957 on:** November 24, 2018, 07:14:56 PM »

Quote from: Atramental on November 24, 2018, 07:04:20 PM

Quote from: BlueTsunami on November 24, 2018, 06:56:55 PM
Quote from: Atramental on November 24, 2018, 06:53:41 PM
Alrighty.

I'll pop up again if I run into another pickle.

For now, I'm just going to focus on my own self improvement.

Not to toot my own dick but what I've been going through has been transformative for me. I place it squarely on becoming physically well. Loving myself, so I can freely express myself. I'm sure you'll find it won't just help your love life but touch every aspect of you. Start as soon as possible.
So... feel free to PM this but... I kinda want to get some of these substances you're getting your hands on but I have no idea where to start.

I'll send you the deets but please know it can turn into a well designed, heat seaking missle. Searching out your self hate. And if you think you know self loathing? Get back to me after the fifth hour of a trip where every negative facet of yourself is illuminated with a million lumen light.

Atramental · « **Reply #8958 on:** November 24, 2018, 07:17:23 PM »

Errrr... damn. Maybe I’m not quite ready for that yet.

Is there like a “training wheels” version of this stuff?

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #8959 on:** November 24, 2018, 07:37:09 PM »

Quote from: Atramental on November 24, 2018, 07:17:23 PM

Errrr... damn. Maybe I’m not quite ready for that yet.

Is there like a “training wheels” version of this stuff?

The only way I can envision you taking well to this is getting a head start on hitting that gym. The moment you can look in the mirror and begin to see the person youre turning into, happy with, youre ready.

I took this shit at my lowest. At my heaviest. I wanted to walk emotionless into the kitchen, grab a knife and jab it into my neck. Just end my pitiful excuse of a life. This is where it can take you.

Atramental · « **Reply #8960 on:** November 24, 2018, 07:42:16 PM »

Quote from: BlueTsunami on November 24, 2018, 07:37:09 PM

Quote from: Atramental on November 24, 2018, 07:17:23 PM
Errrr... damn. Maybe I’m not quite ready for that yet.

Is there like a “training wheels” version of this stuff?

The only way I can invision you taking well to this is getting a head start on hitting that gym. The moment you can look in the mirror and begin to see the person youre turning into, happy with, youre ready.

I took this shit at my lowest. At my heaviest. I wanted to walk emotionless into the kitchen, grab a knife and jab it into my neck. Just end my pitiful excuse of a life. This is where it can take you.

Fuuuuuck dude.

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #8961 on:** November 24, 2018, 07:55:42 PM »

Quote from: Atramental on November 24, 2018, 07:42:16 PM

Quote from: BlueTsunami on November 24, 2018, 07:37:09 PM
Quote from: Atramental on November 24, 2018, 07:17:23 PM
Errrr... damn. Maybe I’m not quite ready for that yet.

Is there like a “training wheels” version of this stuff?

The only way I can invision you taking well to this is getting a head start on hitting that gym. The moment you can look in the mirror and begin to see the person youre turning into, happy with, youre ready.

I took this shit at my lowest. At my heaviest. I wanted to walk emotionless into the kitchen, grab a knife and jab it into my neck. Just end my pitiful excuse of a life. This is where it can take you.
Fuuuuuck dude.

Once you're there, throw me that PM. We'll work out that round trip ticket to see the face of God.

Atramental · « **Reply #8962 on:** November 24, 2018, 07:57:13 PM »

I guess I'll go to the gym tomorrow morning and get started with some basic strength training.

Atramental · « **Reply #8963 on:** November 24, 2018, 08:01:36 PM »

Also, I'm starting to research that list of psychologists my company's chief of staff sent me.

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #8964 on:** November 24, 2018, 08:24:13 PM »

Quote from: Atramental on November 24, 2018, 07:57:13 PM

I guess I'll go to the gym tomorrow morning and get started with some basic strength training.

Quote from: Atramental on November 24, 2018, 08:01:36 PM

Also, I'm starting to research that list of psychologists my company's chief of staff sent me.

The path towards the new you begins on this day. I can't wait to meet him.

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #8965 on:** November 24, 2018, 11:14:22 PM »

And when they grab hold on them for dear life when you're taking them to the bone zone

MMaRsu · « **Reply #8966 on:** November 25, 2018, 04:22:39 AM »

Quote from: Exodust on November 24, 2018, 06:47:46 PM

Is it now, MMaRsu?

I have some experience in this area, trust me

Also my arms are skinny af

HardcoreRetro · « **Reply #8967 on:** November 25, 2018, 05:04:33 AM »

Strong enough to hold roses.

And choke a bitch.

MMaRsu · « **Reply #8968 on:** November 25, 2018, 05:05:13 AM »

I lol'd hard

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #8969 on:** November 25, 2018, 10:53:59 PM »

Quote from: Atramental on November 24, 2018, 04:28:01 PM

https://imgur.com/a/2ZX76v3

this was reblogged on her tumblr several hours ago but....

I think I get the infered message loud and clear.

Real talk:

Atra, are you so thirsty that THIS is what you find desireable/even acceptable behavior? It feels like she's a girl that's just playing around. I wouldn't take it, you shouldn't either. You're better than this.

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #8970 on:** November 25, 2018, 10:54:25 PM »

Quote from: HardcoreRetro on November 25, 2018, 05:04:33 AM

Strong enough to hold roses.

And choke a bitch.

How is this not in the newsfeed? It needs to be in the newsfeed.

Atramental · « **Reply #8971 on:** November 26, 2018, 12:21:19 AM »

Yeeeeaaah.

I’m starting to think it’s a good thing she dropped me. She’s starting to post some more unnerving shit on her social media.

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #8972 on:** November 26, 2018, 01:09:56 AM »

Quote from: Glen on November 26, 2018, 12:35:20 AM

Quote from: I'm a Puppy! on November 25, 2018, 10:53:59 PM
Quote from: Atramental on November 24, 2018, 04:28:01 PM
https://imgur.com/a/2ZX76v3

this was reblogged on her tumblr several hours ago but....

I think I get the infered message loud and clear.
Real talk:

Atra, are you so thirsty that THIS is what you find desireable/even acceptable behavior? It feels like she's a girl that's just playing around. I wouldn't take it, you shouldn't either. You're better than this.

That’s assuming the post had anything at all to do with Atra, which I’m highly skeptical it did.

Even if it wasn't. As reset would say, it's not a good look. Yikes!

Kara · « **Reply #8973 on:** November 26, 2018, 01:38:29 AM »

Now that our moderation team has at last abandoned lolbertarian "principles" can we get a moratorium on Possum Girl posts / fork the discussion into a designated toxic waste dump thread? It's not terribly adjacent from Creepy Stalker X Kagari now.

Raist · « **Reply #8974 on:** November 26, 2018, 02:56:05 AM »

Atra, my dude.

As much as you may find this girl attractive, she sounds like a gigantic fucking wreck. Maybe because of her recent breakup. Maybe not.

But for the love of the flying spaghetti monster just fucking move along. You don't need this. You can't handle this.
She's not going to do you any good. Guaranteed.

Atramental · « **Reply #8975 on:** November 26, 2018, 03:14:28 AM »

I’ve unfollowed her so I can’t see her posts anymore.

Here’s to better and more mentally healthy relationships.

Transhuman · « **Reply #8976 on:** November 26, 2018, 05:11:43 AM »

Quote from: Atramental on November 26, 2018, 03:14:28 AM

I’ve unfollowed her so I can’t see her posts anymore.

Here’s to better and more mentally healthy relationships.

Thug life

hampster · « **Reply #8977 on:** November 26, 2018, 12:47:58 PM »

Catching up on the thanksgiving break news and poor Atra is swinging from cat cafes one day to unfollowing the next

Time for a strong 2018 finish!

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #8978 on:** November 26, 2018, 01:17:14 PM »

Even money she has one of these in her timeline somewhere

Kara · « **Reply #8979 on:** November 26, 2018, 03:06:37 PM »

Yeah, if only she did things anathema to teenage drama like pretending to be the opposite gender on dating apps, reposting dating profiles on a public website, being an unreliable narrator for purposes other than comedy, and sending sad selfies when dates cancel.

Y'all knickerbockers acting like this isn't the consummate like attracts like situation.

benjipwns · « **Reply #8980 on:** November 26, 2018, 03:26:54 PM »

Is this thread now about going to cat cafes?

(Asking for a friend.)

CatsCatsCats · « **Reply #8981 on:** November 26, 2018, 03:27:13 PM »

(she’s vegan)

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #8982 on:** November 26, 2018, 03:29:08 PM »

Glen dude, My wife and I were the same way. Knew each other in high school, had all that background with her when we finallly started our romantic relationship. It's really amazing how much that solid foundation changes things. My wife's family always wanted us to get together, so when I resurfaced in her life they were like "Don't screw it up this time!" to her. It might be the same for you. All the best man, it's so cool to see success here every once in a while. Bless up, indeed!

MMaRsu · « **Reply #8983 on:** November 26, 2018, 03:30:13 PM »

Quote from: I'm a Puppy! on November 26, 2018, 01:17:14 PM

Even money she has one of these in her timeline somewhere

(Image removed from quote.)

Yeah fuck that shit

ToxicAdam · « **Reply #8984 on:** November 26, 2018, 03:38:43 PM »

I know quite a few successful relationships that started that way. Person moves back to their home town after college/divorce and hooks up with a sibling's friend (or a friend's sibling). It's a great way to have familiarity with someone, but there is still a lot to learn because you don't really "know" them.

Joe Molotov · « **Reply #8985 on:** November 26, 2018, 05:58:06 PM »

Quote from: Kara on November 26, 2018, 01:38:29 AM

Now that our moderation team has at last abandoned lolbertarian "principles" can we get a moratorium on Possum Girl posts / fork the discussion into a designated toxic waste dump thread? It's not terribly adjacent from Creepy Stalker X Kagari now.

Nag nag nag. This really is the relationship thread.

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #8986 on:** November 29, 2018, 11:13:10 AM »

I'm SO glad I don't have to deal with online dating. One of my friends was showing me her dating profile and I was like "Who's that?" when she showed me her pictures. They were so filtered/shopped it barely looked like her at all. She told me all her friends did that. When I brought up that I got "facebook angles" and all that but this was making her look like Kim Kardashian on a good day when she looks more like a lunch lady in real life, it's a whole other level, and that might be why she wasn't getting second dates. She then proceeded to show me the dating profiles of our common friends and out of the five she showed me I was only able to recognize one of them.

Mobile App dating was a mistake.

Olivia Wilde Homo · « **Reply #8987 on:** November 29, 2018, 06:42:44 PM »

I know a guy who did a really shitty photoshop of six pack abs on his picture on Tinder and did gangbusters with it. He assumed that by the time the girl showed up, she wasn't going to leave if he didn't have washboard abs. Seems like he was on to something.

Quote from: I'm a Puppy! on November 29, 2018, 11:13:10 AM

(Image removed from quote.)

I'm SO glad I don't have to deal with online dating. One of my friends was showing me her dating profile and I was like "Who's that?" when she showed me her pictures. They were so filtered/shopped it barely looked like her at all. She told me all her friends did that. When I brought up that I got "facebook angles" and all that but this was making her look like Kim Kardashian on a good day when she looks more like a lunch lady in real life, it's a whole other level, and that might be why she wasn't getting second dates. She then proceeded to show me the dating profiles of our common friends and out of the five she showed me I was only able to recognize one of them.

Mobile App dating was a mistake.

Reminds me of this:

Atramental · « **Reply #8988 on:** November 29, 2018, 11:10:04 PM »

Update: I'm seeing a stunning black 22 y/o this Saturday who seems to want the same thing I want. A monogamous relationship.

Wish me luck, brehs.

CatsCatsCats · « **Reply #8989 on:** November 29, 2018, 11:42:18 PM »

Yessssssssssssss

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #8990 on:** November 29, 2018, 11:45:51 PM »

For you Atra.

Please follow this to a tee and post results.

benjipwns · « **Reply #8991 on:** November 29, 2018, 11:47:31 PM »

okay, main key, use a calm British accent, got it

COME HERE LADIES

Kara · « **Reply #8992 on:** November 30, 2018, 02:49:07 AM »

I'll have the narrator of that video know that our subcomandante (and the only person I've continually lived with here) once said I was the easiest person to live with.

Sure that's akin to being the most humane bourgeois but let's not bother ourselves with details.

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #8993 on:** November 30, 2018, 04:53:30 AM »

Quote from: Atramental on November 29, 2018, 11:10:04 PM

Update: I'm seeing a stunning black 22 y/o this Saturday who seems to want the same thing I want. A monogamous relationship.

Wish me luck, brehs.

Black women saving America, once again 😌

CatsCatsCats · « **Reply #8994 on:** November 30, 2018, 12:49:09 PM »

Hey, Puppy, how are things?

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #8995 on:** November 30, 2018, 12:51:09 PM »

Quote from: CatsCatsCats on November 30, 2018, 12:49:09 PM

Hey, Puppy, how are things?

Everythings great. Sorry. No drama.

CatsCatsCats · « **Reply #8996 on:** November 30, 2018, 01:19:03 PM »

No need to apologize, either way I get to be smug

team filler · « **Reply #8997 on:** November 30, 2018, 02:25:04 PM »

Quote from: Atramental on November 29, 2018, 11:10:04 PM

Update: I'm seeing a stunning black 22 y/o this Saturday who seems to want the same thing I want. A monogamous relationship.

Wish me luck, brehs.

MMaRsu · « **Reply #8998 on:** November 30, 2018, 05:18:01 PM »

Wtf I had found this nice asian chick on Tinder.. we had been talking for a few days, she would write something id write back and so forth. This morning she asked me if I had a long day today for work, and if I was still watching my show on Netflix, that she was amped for her exams, so I just normally responded. I also said hey we should grab some drinks next week sometime in the city.

I look at Tinder app 5 hours later and I have been unmatched

So why the fuck would she talk to me, then get asked out, then unmatch.

Why even spend the time talking in that case?

Shit is bizarre

Atramental · « **Reply #8999 on:** November 30, 2018, 05:19:18 PM »

News:

Author Topic: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011 (Read 1413824 times)