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[Huff]

I’m catholics

Let’s party

[I'm a Puppy!]

I’m catholics

Let’s party

That depends. How many catholics are you?

[VomKriege]

Seriously Atra :
- You're reasonably proficient at getting matches on dating apps, certainly more so than I am, despite being stuck in bumfuck, USA.
- You've been getting dates.
- You've had sex in various forms with several different women.

You're fine. Stop overthinking (especially all that social media stuff and "signs") and second guessing yourself, 90% of any angst you share here seem to come from that, especially now that your dry spell ended. Unless you want to be a "player" or are struggling to navigate longer term relationships (or looking for suitable mate for that stronger bond), you're doing pretty okay. Enjoy the ride more and explore what you like all while having good times out with the ladies.

[Atramental]

Emily had to peace out tonight but she’s down to see me whenever she’s free.

edit: for a moment there my life was playing out like a movie 

[Atramental]

I’ve had a couple of drinks and I kinda want to text possum girl something...

[BlueTsunami]

I’ve had a couple of drinks and I kinda want to text possum girl something...

[Rahxephon91]

You know if you don’t come off as cool and collected and instead clingy it probably won’t work for you.

You probably got as far as you have because you have come off as cool and collected.

The girl says she dosent want a relationship and that’s true, but that’s not forever. But the worst way to scare someone like that away or lose interests in you is by coming off as the person that really wants a relationship and is instead just not a cool person they can vibe with no responsibility right now.

[Atramental]

It’s all good. She did in fact come to the same bar that I was deciding to bring my date to. 

[Mupepe]

Pull out your hard dick at the bar!

[Huff]

Black out drunk then text her

It’s the only way

[Atramental]

It seems like we’re still on good terms.

Totally platonic tho. Which is for the best tbh.

[I'm a Puppy!]

Which is for the best tbh.

[Bebpo]

Any tips for how to keep conversations going when you're too tired to function? Especially early on where if you don't respond for a day the other person leaves the conversation. Some days I can barely keep my eyes open let alone have an on-going text conversation and I feel like just saying I'm tired af and gonna pass out, let's talk tomorrow is probably a turn off.

[Atramental]

I just stop talking and then pick up the conversation the next day after work.

I used to say goodnight but it breaks the flow & gives the girl an out.

[Atramental]

uh oh...

well... I'm not sure if I just got the run around but before I left the bar to head home she was telling me about an event this Friday that she was going to and that she said she was going to invite me to.

I'm looking everywhere for it and I'm not seeing it. 

Maybe it's a secret event but I doubt it.

God, I hope I didn't just scare her away for good.

I was even chatting with a guy (he's gay  ) I met a while back that's a mutual friend of ours and I walked with him to greet her.

*sigh*

It seemed like everything was fine. But who knows. 

[Atramental]

Nope. It was never brought up.

We both just played things off like it never happened.

[Atramental]

uh oh...

well... I'm not sure if I just got the run around but before I left the bar to head home she was telling me about an event this Friday that she was going to and that she said she was going to invite me to.

I'm looking everywhere for it and I'm not seeing it. 

Maybe it's a secret event but I doubt it.

God, I hope I didn't just scare her away for good.

I was even chatting with a guy (he's gay  ) I met a while back that's a mutual friend of ours and I walked with him to greet her.

*sigh*

It seemed like everything was fine. But who knows. 

Oh, I found the event.

It's on a Wednesday. Huh.

Okay, maybe I don't need to panic.

Granted, when she's high and drinks a bit specifics aren't her forte.

[Atramental]

It's just my anxiety getting the best of me.

[Atramental]

Oh... that’s another thing.

I haven’t really been having erections lately.

Which is a bit concerning. 

[Atramental]

I have.

Like, I have zero desire to fap or anything.

[Atramental]

Oh, she said “weird flex but ok” to a joke I told the group of people we were hanging out with. 

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[skullstorm]

Thanks! That's also really helpful.

I'm seeing how things pan out with the person I got going with on Monday (hopefully date this weekend), but if it doesn't work out I'm using your guys advice and switching up my photos.

On that last photo, a gal told me once that sweat is unattractive for photos. Not sure how valid that is.

I guess it depends on the situation causing the sweat and the amount and placement of said sweat. A dude just being sweaty for no obvious reason, a sweaty looking face in an otherwise normal selfie, or visible sweat marks in the underarm or underboob area when wearing a dress shirt, that sort of thing, yeah better not post that. But a hot guy obviously taking a break during a hike/run with a nice smile on his face and tousled hair, come on, that's gotta be different. It gives one some ideas 

But hey, maybe you don't have to worry about dating profile pics if things go well! Good luck man 

[Rahxephon91]

Working out ups the testosterone.

I was far more hornier when I was working out.

Maybe try it.

I should get back to it.

[I'm a Puppy!]

Oh, she said “weird flex but ok” to a joke I told the group of people we were hanging out with. 

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This girl sounds like a cunt.

(no offense)

(see, i said no offense, so calling someone a cunt is totally ok)

[BlueTsunami]

Nope. It was never brought up.

We both just played things off like it never happened.

This does not mean totally platonic at all, JFC. You could totally bang her again, just by what you've told us/me.

However, this quest may be above your current level.

Atra level gated. The pussy greyed out until he bangs more chum

[Atramental]

Nope. It was never brought up.

We both just played things off like it never happened.

This does not mean totally platonic at all, JFC. You could totally bang her again, just by what you've told us/me.

However, this quest may be above your current level.

Atra level gated. The pussy greyed out until he bangs more chum

I even showed her the girl I was supposed to meet there until she bailed at the last moment.

[BlueTsunami]

Nope. It was never brought up.

We both just played things off like it never happened.

This does not mean totally platonic at all, JFC. You could totally bang her again, just by what you've told us/me.

However, this quest may be above your current level.

Atra level gated. The pussy greyed out until he bangs more chum

I even showed her the girl I was supposed to meet there until she bailed at the last moment.

ooof thats why inciting jealousy is a tricky thing. And she seems like an experienced woman which means she may see through your bag o'tricks. Me, I'd be straightforward without being overbearing. Do you but dont flaunt it to catch her eye.

[Atramental]

Well, she asked me why I was there and I said I had a date there but she bailed. And I showed her my potential date like any friend would. 

She said she looked cute.

edit: Also, another girl at that bar was being flirty with me (she was kinda drunk tho).

[I'm a Puppy!]

Is there like only one bar in your town? If not 

[Atramental]

Hell, I can even show you all the texts between that girl and I that we were planning on going there well before possum girl decided to show up.

[I'm a Puppy!]

...but you still went.

[Atramental]

...but you still went.

Because I needed to let off some steam after a stressful day at work. 

[CatsCatsCats]

Back off, haterz

Atra’s out here doin as he pleases

[Atramental]

Well, I'm going on a date with someone else this Saturday.

And I told the other girl to hit me up whenever she's free.

edit: Also, I'm not going to text or seek out possum girl for a long time. I was low-key wanting to make sure we were both still on friendly terms. And it seems like we are.

edit2: It also helped that I knew that gay guy and I was talking to him a bunch.

[Mupepe]

Should have fucked that gay guy. Or let him fuck you

[hampster]

Oh... that’s another thing.

I haven’t really been having erections lately.

Which is a bit concerning. 

Get more sleep

Posting in this thread at 2am...

[Atramental]

The girl I was supposed to meet last night is meeting me tonight. 

[BlueTsunami]

Possum Girl Lv.3 Pussy Raid Requirements

• Desirability: Intercourse with another female within 2 weeks of intercourse with Possum Girl

(TIME SENSITIVE)

• Intelligence: Figure out why her opposum keeps fucking the loaf of 21 whole grain bread
• Self Sufficiency: Bring her 10 wolf pelts

[Atramental]

The girl I was supposed to meet last night is meeting me tonight. 

And she canceled again.

She’s a cook at a restaurant and people aren’t showing up for their shift.

[BlueTsunami]

Yikes. Was she apologetic?

[Atramental]

Yes.

[BlueTsunami]

Thats rough. Feel bad for her trying to get out there and connect only to have such a demanding job taking so much.

[Raist]

Go to her restaurant and tell her to cook you dinner. For free.

P.S bring roses.

[HardcoreRetro]

Also, ask about choking.

[Atramental]

Have a date with a girl named Kat later today.

She lifts weights and might be stronger than me. 

Wish me luck.

[mormapope]

If you two bang, you should be the bottom, and she'll raise your legs up and pump her pussy into your dong . Let the Amazon lady own your dangle.

[mormapope]

Muscular women fucking men like  cumslut whores 

[BlueTsunami]

If you two bang, you should be the bottom, and she'll raise your legs up and pump her pussy into your dong . Let the Amazon lady own your dangle.

Have a date with a girl named Kat later today.

She lifts weights and might be stronger than me. 

Wish me luck.

Ask if she deadlifts and if she does she gon break yo dick

[Olivia Wilde Homo]

This season has went from triumphs to weirdness.  I like it

[Atramental]

Kat is great.

We have a lot in common.

[CatsCatsCats]

Y’all talk a lot of shit about Atra but his stamina for just fuckin doin it and getting out there is amazing

[Atramental]

I’ve gotta say post-Molly I feel so much more in the moment and less concerned about people’s opinions about me.

I could tell Kat was fairly nervous at first because she was doing the thing that I do when I get nervous. Talking super fast and spouting off personal facts in lightning succession

But I wasn’t anxious at all though. I was super calm and collected the whole time.

Also, I know Myers-Briggs gets shit for being horoscopes 2.0 but she’s an ENTP and I’m an INTP. It was freaky how similar we were.

[Atramental]

Uh... she just unfriended me on Facebook 

[Mupepe]

 

[Atramental]

I think she had gone through some trauma but she didn’t really say what.

If I had to guess it had something to do with her childhood and her parents.

[BlueTsunami]

Women be trippin

[Tasty]

Y’all talk a lot of shit about Atra but his stamina for just fuckin doin it and getting out there is amazing

Atra's like 7 feet, of course he has stamina.

What about the rest of us hideous freaks??

[Tasty]

Edit- Drunk and mean, sorry.

[Tasty]

Edit- Drunk and mean, sorry.

[Tasty]

Sorry for being an asshole last night Spencer.