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Crash Dummy · « **Reply #10980 on:** September 09, 2019, 03:33:34 PM »

https://twitter.com/redditships/status/1171130979886481408

VomKriege · « **Reply #10981 on:** September 09, 2019, 03:57:41 PM »

Quote from: Crash Dummy on September 09, 2019, 03:33:34 PM

https://twitter.com/redditships/status/1171130979886481408

Oblivion · « **Reply #10982 on:** September 09, 2019, 10:57:59 PM »

so met up with an all poly group for the first time (nothing happened, btw)

is it a good idea to get involved?

brawndolicious · « **Reply #10983 on:** September 10, 2019, 12:09:48 AM »

If you're poly, it's probably a pretty cool club but if you're trying to see if they can sell you on joining their tribe, I feel like you would waste their time or hurt some feelings.

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #10984 on:** September 11, 2019, 07:24:29 PM »

Nah I’m ok.

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #10985 on:** September 12, 2019, 11:52:04 PM »

Well I don't want to go into detail because thebore will make fun of me and I'm already aware of my problems. Seek help yeah, I know. But officially my relationship is over. There's feelings of hurt and relief which is weird, but I'm not sure where I GO from now. I liked having a partner it was fun, even when it transitioned to being lOng distance. Having someone to talk to and know that there's someone out there who supposedly loves and cares for you. Going to miss that feeling. And it really sucks because I feel pretty lonley now even though it's only been a few days. You know, I'm nearing that 30 number. Friend's are getting married, no time, moved away. I feel older and am not into the bar scene anymore. And yeah I'm good on online dating. So my friend circle is kind of well depleted. I got a new job to so it's not like I'm beyond being simply friendly with the people there. Also it's not really a job where you're going to meet and make friends. I'm on my own there mostly. I feel like a pretty dark time is coming up for me.

team filler · « **Reply #10986 on:** September 13, 2019, 12:09:11 AM »

Quote from: Rahxephon91 on September 12, 2019, 11:52:04 PM

Well I don't want to go into detail because thebore will make fun of me and I'm already aware of my problems. Seek help yeah, I know. But officially my relationship is over. There's feelings of hurt and relief which is weird, but I'm not sure where I from now. I liked having a partner it was fun, even when it transitioned to being ling distance. Having someone to talk to and know that there's someone out there who supposedly loves and cares for you. Going to miss that feeling. And it really sucks because I feel pretty lonley now even though it's only been a few days. You know, I'm nearing that 30 number. Friend's are getting married, no time, moved away. I feel older and am not into the bar scene anymore. And yeah I'm good on online dating. So my friend circle is kind of well depleted. I got a new job to so it's not like I'm beyond being simply friendly with the people there. Also it's not really a job where you're going to meet and make friends. I'm on my own there mostly. I feel like a pretty dark time is coming up for me.

we here for you, rahx breh

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #10987 on:** September 13, 2019, 12:24:40 AM »

Liking "man my life sucks" posts are so weird lol.

I can't tell if it's coming from a "get fucked you annoying poster" angle or not.

Tasty · « **Reply #10988 on:** September 13, 2019, 12:27:04 AM »

This is why Facebook introduced those other reactions.

Though now apparently all social networking sites are waging a war on likes in general, or something.

In any case you can get through this, at the very least it seems like you're prepared for the upcoming shitty period. That mindset tends to help me get through shit like that.

team filler · « **Reply #10989 on:** September 13, 2019, 12:32:39 AM »

my likes are meant to show my love and support, breh

Bebpo · « **Reply #10990 on:** September 13, 2019, 04:23:41 AM »

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VomKriege · « **Reply #10991 on:** September 13, 2019, 10:25:12 AM »

Got a match, she says she'll come back to me when she has some more time, I respond her profile said as much and that was OK was looking forward to that.

A couple of days later "User no longer has an account."

The search continues.

BisMarckie · « **Reply #10992 on:** September 13, 2019, 10:32:25 AM »

Quote from: shosta on September 13, 2019, 04:57:05 AM

Definitely don't waste your time, try and talk to someone enough through messaging first to see if you can get that spark going way before you even meet up. Best of luck to you dude.

I‘d argue that prolonged messaging is more of a waste of time. Just use messaging to push for a meet up ASAP and not for random conversations. You‘ll never know if someone is compatible or even interested by messaging.

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #10993 on:** September 15, 2019, 11:21:42 PM »

A slight update.

I'd rather not go into detail about happen between my gf and me, because I don't want to be mocked and I'm sure the bore can assume it's my own usual insecuties problem.

Anyway, right now she said that she thinks we should take a break, so we can focus on ourselves. So I can get help. She said that during this break she wouldn't limit herself from seeing other people. But she also said she has no interest in looking for other people nor does she want to. She said she'd let me know though if something came up. But if she sees me getting better that we will resume. That we'd still stay in contact and play video games and whatnot. So I don't know what that really means. Good or bad.

I mean I have no intrests in other people, but I guess I'm just going to agree with this.

team filler · « **Reply #10994 on:** September 16, 2019, 12:33:48 AM »

Quote from: Rahxephon91 on September 15, 2019, 11:21:42 PM

A slight update.

I'd rather not go into detail about happen between my gf and me, because I don't want to be mocked and I'm sure the bore can assume it's my own usual insecuties problem.

Anyway, right now she said that she thinks we should take a break, so we can focus on ourselves. So I can get help. She said that during this break she wouldn't limit herself from seeing other people. But she also said she has no interest in looking for other people nor does she want to. She said she'd let me know though if something came up. But if she sees me getting better that we will resume. That we'd still stay in contact and play video games and whatnot. So I don't know what that really means. Good or bad.

I mean I have no intrests in other people, but I guess I'm just going to agree with this.

$:-\$

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #10995 on:** September 16, 2019, 01:47:52 AM »

So you guys think this is a bad thing?

I mean we played Borderlands tonight so I don't know and I know she cares about me.

team filler · « **Reply #10996 on:** September 16, 2019, 01:54:48 AM »

get yourself right and it won't matter, breh

VomKriege · « **Reply #10997 on:** September 16, 2019, 01:58:14 AM »

There's not much you have a choice to agree to here.

Quote from: Rahxephon91 on September 16, 2019, 01:47:52 AM

So you guys think this is a bad thing?

It's a softly worded breakup. I'd assume her leaving the door open for patching things together is genuine, but there's never any guarantees there, don't set it as an objective. I don't know what exactly are the issues she alludes to you would need help with but regardless of your relationship resuming it would probably be beneficial to work on them for you, her or any other partner.

VomKriege · « **Reply #10998 on:** September 16, 2019, 02:22:33 AM »

The other woman who matched with me (a month or so back) no longer has an account too

am I a curse ?

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #10999 on:** September 16, 2019, 02:40:03 AM »

Well I'd rather have a straight break-up that way I would'nt waste time with hope. She's the one that claimed it wasn't and also I should try it instead of making it a break up. Yet also said she woud'nt limit herself if something came up, but that it probably would'nt. While also noting that she wasn't looking for anything or wanted to be with anyone else, that it was soley me asking if dating other people was ok. So I don't know how I should look at this. I'm not going to jump on tinder, but I don't like being lonely and would rather know that I too should see this as actually over.

But yes I should seek help for my insercuties and she recommended me a doctor and whatnot.

samir · « **Reply #11000 on:** September 16, 2019, 02:42:25 AM »

Hit the gym and get ripped and you'll win her back in no time, champ

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #11001 on:** September 16, 2019, 02:59:22 PM »

Rahx, As filler said, focus on you and bettering yourself and everything will work out.

I guess an update from me is in order.
Things with the wife are great. We've learned a lot about each other and really are closer than we've been before. We did have a unicorn. She sorta blew up an demanded more time and turned on the passive agressiveness in threatening to blow up if we didn't make more time. Eventually she said we needed to make more time right away and I was like "With spooktober, halloween, thanksgiving and christmas/new years? You need to be more patient. We got kids and jobs and shit. Please be patient." (which she does too, but I guess we just have different priorities) and she essentially put out an ultimatum and I don't do those. So it was a good run, don't regret it, but obviously things for her weren't going great and she grabbed onto whatever she could. Makes me sad for her though, because well adjusted people won't put up with that shit and she doesn't see that.

As to the GF things are still going great. Things are settling. It's been almost a year now. Don't see things changing on this front.

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #11002 on:** September 16, 2019, 05:20:40 PM »

Yeah that’s what I need to do. But I need to do it for me and not for her, don’t make that mistake. But she also talked to my mom said it wasn’t over, she’s just been super stressed and whatnot. This isn’t the first time this has happen either, not to this extreme but similar.

But it’s just hard to not think about a relationship you like and care for while focusing on bettering yourself and hoping you can repair it. I also don’t want to react poorly and be disappointed if she decides she doesn’t want to get back together or has relations while “chilling”.

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #11003 on:** September 16, 2019, 08:28:23 PM »

Two things:
1) You need to be honest with yourself as to whether you're OK with things being as they are. If you're only going to be cool with things if you're hooking up then you're almost certainly not going to be a good friend and not going to get there by extension

2) Remember, while you're on a "break" you're on a "Break" Don't pull a Rachel.

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #11004 on:** September 16, 2019, 08:41:11 PM »

Well to be honest. No I’m not exactly cool. I’m fine with cooling off. Not having to be in constant communication and focusing on ourselves. But I wouldn’t be cool with her having any relations with anyone else. I’m not going to Perdue anyone else and if she did I’d be hurt and probably wouldn’t be able to reconcile that. It would be over forever for me. Maybe that’s bad I don’t know.

Which is why I kind of find this annoyingly vague. If she said she just wanted to be friends or it was a break up, I’d be able to just say fine and make a clean break. But saying we should go on break and that I can’t tell the future so I won’t limit myself, but hey I have no interests in dating anyone else, being with anyone else, so don’t worry kind of only makes me worry.

I haven’t seen Friends.

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #11005 on:** September 16, 2019, 09:43:45 PM »

I should probably explain what happen, but I know thebore will shit on me for it...

VomKriege · « **Reply #11006 on:** September 17, 2019, 12:56:11 AM »

Quote from: shosta on September 16, 2019, 11:54:37 PM

Quote from: VomKriege on September 16, 2019, 02:22:33 AM
The other woman who matched with me (a month or so back) no longer has an account too am I a curse ?

Yes. You should probably kill yourself.

Lead the way, I'll follow right behind you.

nachobro · « **Reply #11007 on:** September 17, 2019, 08:44:13 AM »

hey man any connection is a good start. it's tough to put yourself out there so at least you're getting something back but from the sounds of it, it's best to leave it as friends.

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #11008 on:** September 17, 2019, 10:23:21 AM »

Quote from: Dufus on September 17, 2019, 07:52:38 AM

i am loathe to reply here with all these rahx shitposts

Um excuse me? I’m not belittling your problem. Please do not be an asshole and belittle mine. Because if you want to be a pos, trust me I have no problem replying in kind.

Rufus · « **Reply #11009 on:** September 17, 2019, 11:27:42 AM »

And endless stamina, cotdamn. 👀

mormapope · « **Reply #11010 on:** September 17, 2019, 01:11:02 PM »

Got my STD test results back, no HIV!

Time for more rawdawg

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #11011 on:** September 17, 2019, 02:18:23 PM »

See? You say "No HIV!"I hear "There's other less worrisome stuff than HIV"

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #11012 on:** September 17, 2019, 03:26:07 PM »

Quote from: Dufus on September 17, 2019, 01:05:44 PM

Quote from: Rahxephon91 on September 17, 2019, 10:23:21 AM
Because if you want to be a pos, trust me I have no problem replying in kind.

no shit you've been an asshole for no reason plenty of times, maybe you were too drunk to remember or some shit

next time i'll just ignore your posts

Yeah you’re right I have. No one would argue that. But one of my constant points is your inclination to throw shade at me and sometimes over the years Attra while you act superior. I could search years over this thread to find posts where I or him have shared our problems, yes sometimes poorly(especially in my case) and you post a snobbish post(like today) all while claiming how awesome you are and how one day you’re gonna make progress. So no I don’t have a good feeling to you.

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #11013 on:** September 17, 2019, 08:09:40 PM »

So the girl I'm talking to in Buffalo, apparently her ex is, as she's described, a narcissist. She talked smack about him a bit. Mainly how the dude is extremely manipulative and she knows how he works. I then come to find some of her shit is still in his apartment. Ok. Then just a couple of days ago I found out she painted the bathroom in the new place he moved into and I'm over here like

imma die yall

EightBitNate · « **Reply #11014 on:** September 17, 2019, 09:09:26 PM »

I really despise people who only talk shit about the people they use to be close to. You either have bad judgement or you’re just as bad they are.

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #11015 on:** September 17, 2019, 09:09:52 PM »

Quote from: riotous on September 17, 2019, 08:50:08 PM

Somewhere in Buffalo there’s a chick showing her friend your poetry going

imma die yall

Murder suicide

But who will murder first? 🤔

VomKriege · « **Reply #11016 on:** September 18, 2019, 02:33:57 AM »

Quote from: shosta on September 17, 2019, 09:17:57 PM

Me: "Plans tonight?"
Her: "Not that I know of "
The text I deleted: "How about I come over and get you so wet your flood insurance kicks in"

The text I actually sent : "Yes. You should probably kill yourself."

team filler · « **Reply #11017 on:** September 18, 2019, 02:45:22 AM »

Atramental · « **Reply #11018 on:** September 19, 2019, 09:26:34 AM »

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Rufus · « **Reply #11019 on:** September 19, 2019, 09:37:39 AM »

Whew. Not the kind of opening I expected.

BIONIC · « **Reply #11020 on:** September 19, 2019, 10:42:29 AM »

Time for her to OD on your cock

Olivia Wilde Homo · « **Reply #11021 on:** September 19, 2019, 10:59:35 AM »

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WTF? Are you texting with a girl? I’m disappointed.

Have you at least sucked a dick?

VomKriege · « **Reply #11022 on:** September 19, 2019, 11:15:31 AM »

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Not to be a soccer mom but that's kind of fucked up.

Atramental · « **Reply #11023 on:** September 19, 2019, 11:24:34 AM »

everything is fucked up, dudebro

Raist · « **Reply #11024 on:** September 19, 2019, 11:25:45 AM »

Atra, bruv, not to be a party-pooper, but whenever you provide updates on that girl, all I can think of is:

Atramental · « **Reply #11025 on:** September 19, 2019, 11:37:45 AM »

Her gay best friend & I were talking and we both agree that she (after she breaks up with her bf) needs time to be single in order to heal & whatnot but...

I’m gonna fuck that pussy tho

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #11026 on:** September 19, 2019, 12:39:30 PM »

as everything with this girl, it all seems really healthy and on the up and up.

Atramental · « **Reply #11027 on:** September 19, 2019, 12:42:44 PM »

Her biggest flaw is that she thinks she can save/fix people like her current bf.

But like I was telling her gbf, a heroin addict is not a possum.

team filler · « **Reply #11028 on:** September 19, 2019, 12:46:14 PM »

become a heroin addict and you're totally in, dude!

BisMarckie · « **Reply #11029 on:** September 19, 2019, 01:04:07 PM »

Nobody likes a copycat.

team filler · « **Reply #11030 on:** September 19, 2019, 01:09:56 PM »

become the elizebeth warren of heroin addicts, you'll be unstoppable!

CatsCatsCats · « **Reply #11031 on:** September 19, 2019, 02:37:38 PM »

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #11032 on:** September 19, 2019, 03:28:49 PM »

I don’t know why I’m posting this here, but hey first therapy session went ok. I got a good vibe and actual feedback for once.

team filler · « **Reply #11033 on:** September 19, 2019, 03:30:31 PM »

EightBitNate · « **Reply #11034 on:** September 19, 2019, 03:59:04 PM »

I’m still waiting for Rahx to chill with me in Chicago

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #11035 on:** September 19, 2019, 04:59:28 PM »

Quote from: EightBitNate on September 19, 2019, 03:59:04 PM

I’m still waiting for Rahx to chill with me in Chicago

To be honest, I think people would be a little surprised if they met me in real life.

EightBitNate · « **Reply #11036 on:** September 19, 2019, 05:02:41 PM »

Quote from: Rahxephon91 on September 19, 2019, 04:59:28 PM

Quote from: EightBitNate on September 19, 2019, 03:59:04 PM
I’m still waiting for Rahx to chill with me in Chicago
To be honest, I think people would be a little surprised if they met me in real life.

Yeah I feel you. I get the feeling many people don’t like me/find me annoying on here but I’m actually pretty reserved in real life.

skullstorm · « **Reply #11037 on:** September 19, 2019, 05:16:13 PM »

Except around your sister

brawndolicious · « **Reply #11038 on:** September 20, 2019, 02:42:58 AM »

Quote from: Atramental on September 19, 2019, 12:42:44 PM

Her biggest flaw is that she thinks she can save/fix people like her current bf.

But like I was telling her gbf, a heroin addict is not a possum.

I don't care what everyone else says, I think you can totally save and fix her.

Oblivion · « **Reply #11039 on:** September 20, 2019, 04:15:09 AM »

question: there's some mingling party going on saturday. the problem is that not one, but two girls i've went out with (one of being herpes girl) are going to be there. should i go? there's going to be like 60 people there, so it won't be that small a potential dating pool.

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