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« Reply #4680 on: December 06, 2019, 01:57:47 PM »

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Strong disagree. Autism is only hard because neurotypicals make it hard. It needs to be demedicalized and normalized, and people need to embrace the idea of neurodivergence.

Holy fucking shit. My friend's child was recently diagnosed with autism and it makes me mad reading this. It has been so much better for the kid and the family after the diagnosis and further therapy for the condition.

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« Reply #4681 on: December 06, 2019, 01:58:47 PM »
The one thing no one addresses in #BidenGate and Joe abusing his power and connections....

Joe: "I love you son, even if you smoke crack and date strippers"
Hunter: "Thanks dad! Say, could you get me a cushy job somewhere with your connections?"
Joe: "Son, I got you a job to get yourself sorted. You can be an executive at *checks notes* Burisma Gas company in Ukraine"
Hunter: "Gee dad, thanks for a job in the middle of a war zone, I suppose Ambassador to Somalia was already taken?"
Joe: "Well it's either this or chemical weapon inspector in Syria"
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« Reply #4682 on: December 06, 2019, 02:00:41 PM »
https://www.resetera.com/threads/bethesda-the-elder-scrolls-legends-will-be-at-e3-getting-new-developer-and-client.46025/#post-27122317

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I've put about 1000 hours into ESL since it came out and it sucks. I'm glad i never put a cent into the game though because i would pissed. I put my money into Eternal and then MTGA. It's hard to stay alive long in a world of 1000 digital card games.

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« Reply #4683 on: December 06, 2019, 02:06:00 PM »
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Checking in and subbing to the thread.

My son has ASD, diagnosed at 2.5 years old back in November 2018.

Since then it's been a absolute sprint to get him into everything available (ABA, Early Access Pre-K, and Private Speech Therapy).

It's been going well, but progress is agonizingly slow, as expected.

My wife and I are mostly keeping it together but the emotional toll is very high.

Not sure if I can help anyone else, but I'm willing to share or advise with anyone looking for it.
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First thing's first: ABA is child abuse. Get your kid out ASAP. It's commonly described as "dog training for people", but even dog trainers find it repulsive. Far more valuable is letting them be themself.

If you could describe what your kid is like, we could provide more specific advice. Every autistic kid is different. The main thing that makes raising an autistic kid hard is neurotypical parents trying to raise them like a neurotypical kid. Raise them to be themselves, allowing them to have their limitations and strengths unique to them, will make it so much easier and them so much happier.
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I don't even know how to respond to this... I'm acting on the advice and council of doctors and professionals, and here you are telling me that I'm abusing my son.

Why the hell did I even come here?

Fuck this and fuck you.
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I'm not saying you're a bad or abusive parent, I'm saying you were lied to and tricked into an abusive therapy designed to break autistic kids. A lot of [tbh almost all] neurotypicals don't even realize it, but it's highly similar to gay conversion therapy that tries to force gay people to be straight and trans people to be cis. I'm not saying you're a bad parent, I'm saying you came here for advice, and I'd like to help in the interest of making sure your kid is happy and healthy.
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While I appreciate the defensive responsive against what you believed to be an accusation against your character as concerning your child, it's not a good look to be immediately dismissive of an actual autistic person raising their concerns about the matter.

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So such concern, particularly from autistic people who such systems failed to recognise or otherwise failed to properly support in their development, isn't just to be dismissed out of hand.
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They didn't "raise concerns" (whoever they are they are on my block list now), they said I was abusing my child.

Saying that someone is abusing their child for following the advice and council of doctors and trained professionals is fucked up, period. If you want to express concerns about ABA therapies you should speak from your experience. The ABA my son has involves him playing with toys and puzzles at a table for a few hours in the afternoon, learning to clean up after himself, and using PECs symbols to communicate needs and wants. Basic cooperative play, interpersonal communication, and life skills.

I'm under no illusions here. There hasn't been a single professional person involved that has told me that my son would be "cured" or that he would be "normal", ever.

The purpose of these therapies is all about giving my son the best possible chance at a full, independent life.

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Never. While there are struggles, overall being autistic has been a very positive experience in my life. I genuinely believe that if I were not autistic, I would most probably be a terrible person.
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Glad this one got banned, and Feisty should be too, just for being real pieces of shit. There’s not demeaning those with autism, and then there’s ranting about therapy to give them normal lives. Odds on them both being anti-vaccers, because they’re at the same level at this point.

I mean self diagnosis is valid??

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« Reply #4684 on: December 06, 2019, 02:09:45 PM »
This reminds me of the fat people who shop around to find a doctor that says 300lbs is fine
Is that comparable to looking for certain jurisdictions where fucking 14 year old girls is legal? :hmm

App idea:  an app that uses GPS to display the local age of consent as you travel.

check your pms
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« Reply #4685 on: December 06, 2019, 02:13:48 PM »
Glad this one got banned, and Feisty should be too, just for being real pieces of shit.
OniLinkPlus self-requested a ban during the TransEra uprising to try and be a martyr against the acephobic bigotry, but nobody cared. :lol

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« Reply #4686 on: December 06, 2019, 02:19:11 PM »
I actually know a guy who built a dating app/company. 

I just floated the idea to him; TBH while a total gross joke, it would probably make a dating app go viral/make the news if it put that feature in.
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7 ON YOUR SIDE signed up for a Yellow account, using a fictitious name and age: a 17-year-old named Samantha. Yellow’s rules say minors over 13 have to get a guardian’s permission, but it let us in anyway. Boys who claim to be anywhere from 17 to 13 reached out, writing mostly playful comments like, “Let’s have some fun.”

But Melissa Schaefer, a mom of three girls ages 19, 17, and 14 agreed to sign up her middle child. The comments were much more sexually suggestive: “Need a freak” and, “Ugly or not, will still take you.”
https://wjla.com/features/7-on-your-side/tinder-for-teens-the-dark-side-of-a-teen-app-called-yellow

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« Reply #4687 on: December 06, 2019, 02:20:53 PM »
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The comments were much more sexually suggestive: “Ugly or not, will still take you.”
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« Reply #4688 on: December 06, 2019, 02:20:58 PM »
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« Reply #4689 on: December 06, 2019, 02:23:56 PM »
You can't diagnose yourself. Wtf.

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« Reply #4690 on: December 06, 2019, 02:28:03 PM »
You can't diagnose yourself. Wtf.

No, but Benji can diagnose you for a small fee
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« Reply #4691 on: December 06, 2019, 02:31:19 PM »
You can't diagnose yourself. Wtf.

No, but Benji can diagnose you for a small fee

What’s the fee? Sales tips?

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« Reply #4692 on: December 06, 2019, 02:35:24 PM »
You can't diagnose yourself. Wtf.

If you disassociate hard enough, anything is possible.


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« Reply #4693 on: December 06, 2019, 02:48:17 PM »
You can't diagnose yourself. Wtf.
This is the statement of someone who has incredibly massive privilege and despises the marginalized disabled community.

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Hi! I have post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).

I’ve never been formally diagnosed with it, but I know I have it.

How? Because my experiences meet and exceed the criteria for a PTSD diagnosis.

I never managed to get a professional, clinical diagnosis for PTSD.

This is partly because I struggled to find a consistent and qualified counselor who was willing to diagnose me.

A few of my therapists didn’t want to diagnose me because they didn’t want me to get “held up” on a diagnosis, despite the fact that I wanted some kind of label and language so that I could articulate my pain.

I decided that I needed to start calling it PTSD.

I self-diagnosed. But this doesn’t mean my PTSD is any less real. It definitely doesn’t mean that it’s any less severe.

So here are a few reasons why self-diagnosis might be useful for people, especially those who are marginalized.

1. Self-Diagnosing Can Help Marginalized People Discuss Their Experiences
In many ways, professional diagnoses are usually only available for the privileged.

That’s because most marginalized people seldom have access to compassionate, comprehensive, professional mental healthcare.

It’s difficult to access if you don’t have money to pay for healthcare, or if you can’t travel far because you don’t have reliable access to transportation, or if you’re queer or trans or intersex and can’t find a therapist that is accepting of your identities.

Finding a therapist who isn’t bigoted against us is a challenge.

For this reason, being judgmental towards people who have self-diagnosed – or implying that we’re not really mentally ill – often ends up hurting the most marginalized people.

2. It Can Help Us Accept Our Illnesses
Something really fantastic happened when I accepted that I had PTSD: My mentality switched from There’s something severely wrong with me and I’m a bad person to I have an illness and I need help.

When I had flashbacks, I started recognizing that they were a result of my trauma and not a result of me being silly. I wasn’t simply hung up on something that happened years before; I had a mental illness as a result of my trauma.

Similarly, knowing I was depressed made me realize I didn’t simply need to “be positive” in order to overcome my chronic feelings of sadness and emptiness. Knowing I had anxiety made me realize I didn’t need to “just stop worrying and relax,” but that I needed a holistic, multi-pronged approach to treating my condition.

In other words, I stopped viewing myself as a failure and started trying to heal.

Would I have been able to reach that level of acceptance if I waited around for a diagnosis? I’m not sure. But I do know that accepting my mental illness was something I had to do before I could truly love myself.

For many people, realizing you have a mental illness is a relief. It’s a step towards self-acceptance, and thus a step towards healing. It helps us realize that we need to find treatment, support, and resources instead of simply engaging in self-hatred.

And if self-diagnosis is what we need to do in order to find that acceptance, we should be welcoming and kind towards those who self-diagnose.

3. It Helps Us Find Resources and Community
Self-diagnosing enables us to reach out to other folks who have mental illnesses; we can form a community where we support one another and exchange management tips and resources.

Once you self-diagnose with an anxiety disorder, for example, you might Google “tips for dealing with work pressure when you have an anxiety disorder” or “how to explain my anxiety disorder to a loved one.”

You might also find and join anxiety support groups – online or offline – which can help you feel less alone.

Battling mental illnesses can be draining and isolating. Having a community of some sort can be super valuable and healing.

It will help us feel less like outsiders, and more like we belong.

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Is self-diagnosing good? Naturally, there isn’t a straightforward answer to this question.

But in a world where mental health care is inaccessible for many, it’s pretty understandable why folks try to diagnose themselves.

The best we can do is be welcoming and understanding towards self-diagnosed mentally ill people
I get into arguments with people on the Internet a lot these days. It’s kind of one of the only ways to be a disability activist when there are a lot of days where you can’t leave your bed.

The most recent argument I had was with a particular kind of ableist disabled person, which, oxymoronic as it sounds, is a thing that actually exists. In fact, I’ve encountered way too many of them. It’s common for us to internalize the ableism we encounter on a regular basis, creating divisions and hierarchies within our own communities in an endless uphill battle to be the “good” disabled people. The ones our ableist society accepts and supports, if only as tokens.

The person I argued with was the type who devalues disorders that rely mostly on patient reporting of symptoms for diagnosis. This person believes there’s some kind of rampant trend of “faking” disability.

This happened on a post I made challenging the gatekeeping model used by too many agencies offering support and resources for disabled people. I had only asked people to consider what it might be like if, instead of focusing on trying to keep people out if they feel they don’t really need the services, such agencies focused on making sure that no one who needs them falls through the cracks.

But this, somehow, is a controversial position, even within the disability community. I see too many people who hold their formal diagnoses over the heads of people who don’t have them in the same way that some people who have college degrees hold them over those who don’t.

There can be many barriers to obtaining a diagnosis, and they often connect to other forms of systemic marginalization. Yet there are still people in our own communities who treat undiagnosed or self-diagnosed people like outsiders, as if no matter how hard your disability makes your life, it isn’t real until you can prove it.

The thing is, “self-diagnosis,” for all the stigma that term carries, is rarely a case of a person hearing about a complex medical condition or reading about it on the internet and deciding they definitely have it and don’t need a doctor to confirm it. More often, it’s a case of a person doing diligent research into their symptoms, learning the clinical criteria of syndromes that match them, and figuring out that they meet them. It doesn’t usually mean claiming to actually have a condition so much as recognizing how much you have in common with those who do and seeking out support among them.

I have multiple disabilities, some of them diagnosed and some not. I belong to an online support group for a genetic condition I strongly suspect I have due to meeting the clinical criteria and having the same kinds of problems show up, to varying degrees, scattered throughout my family. I was added to this group by someone else and yet still have constant feelings of being an imposter.

Even as I tell stories about my body that are nearly identical to those told by people who have been officially diagnosed, I feel often like those stories are somehow not mine to tell –- even though they are things that happened to me –- because I don’t have the piece of paper the others have declaring that my disability is real.

In the autism community, a disability I actually have been officially diagnosed with since childhood, I see a lot of this, because in recent years understanding of autism has grown and spread and people who spent their whole lives just thinking they were “weird” began to wonder whether they might actually be on the autism spectrum. The community has quickly gotten a lot bigger. But because many of these people had made it to adulthood –- in some cases, well into it –- without anyone ever suspecting it, they often found it hard to be taken seriously.

Even when people who think they might have a disability or chronic illness don’t encounter barriers to accessing medical care, the doctors themselves sometimes make getting a confirmed diagnosis difficult. Some doctors don’t seem to like it when people self-advocate and tell them that they have suspicions about the cause of their problems. People who do can get labeled drug-seeking or as hypochondriacs just for asking for a diagnostic screening.

Other doctors seem hesitant to give patients a diagnosis of a condition that has no known treatment, even if they fit diagnostic criteria.

The problem with this is that a formal diagnosis is usually needed in order to access any kind of support, especially when self-diagnosis has become a punch line. When a character on Glee announced she could say whatever she wanted because she had “self-diagnosed Asperger’s,” and when a reporter derisively stated that Rachel Dolezal’s mother had diagnosed herself with chronic fatigue syndrome to imply that a penchant for fabricated personal narratives ran in the family, the message sent to all of us was that if a person says they’re sick or disabled, but a doctor hasn’t, that person is making it up.

What if you have the exact same symptoms as a person with a confirmed diagnosis, but you can’t afford a doctor? Or there isn’t one in your area with the right specialty and you can’t travel? Or you do see one, but the doctor’s own personal beliefs or prejudices stand in the way of them giving your condition the attention it needs? Does any of that make your disability less real?

The fact is, as strange as it may sound to use this word, some chronically ill and disabled people are lucky. They’re the ones whose condition gets caught unexpectedly when they go to the doctor for an unrelated issue, or the ones who go in right away when they notice a weird symptom and a simple test gives them a diagnosis of something everyone’s heard of and knows how to accommodate. They’re the ones who have good insurance and competent, compassionate doctors in their area who know exactly how to help them. And too often, they’re the ones who turn on their own community and use their experience as the standard: if you didn’t get a diagnosis right away like I did, then your disability isn’t real like mine.

I’ve seen the accusations of “doctor-hopping” via the stereotype of a person who keeps going to different doctors until someone gives them a diagnosis. This steretoypes implies that if a person goes to one doctor who is dismissive, or won’t listen, or isn’t looking in the right place and doesn’t come up with an answer, they should just give up and go home.

If one doctor can’t help you, but something is still clearly very wrong with your body, what are you supposed to do besides keep trying to find a doctor who can help? If months or years stretch on and you still haven’t found a doctor who can help (or barriers are preventing you from even looking for one), but you have found community among people who share your symptoms and can commiserate and offer advice, even if their symptoms have a name and yours don’t, are you trespassing there if you don’t have the stamp of medical approval?

And all this would be slightly less awful if not for the fact that the “lucky” ones, in many cases, aren’t lucky at all — they’re just privileged. Class privilege usually comes with the good insurance and the good doctors and the presumption that you’re telling the truth when you go to see them. Doctors for poor people, assuming they can even access them, are too often overworked and jaded, trained to ferret out those seeking drugs or disability letters for nefarious purposes, more focused on guarding the gates than finding answers and giving help. That help is a lot harder to get when your doctor is trying to figure out what your “angle” is instead of trying to solve what they immediately recognize as a crucial medical puzzle.

Refusing access to self-diagnosed people in disability spaces is saying that, whatever the reasons those people may have for lacking formal diagnosis, their own word on their experiences in their bodies doesn’t count. Refusing to help people find the resources to confirm a diagnosis because they’re “fishing” for it, if they come to suspect it on their own first, doesn’t help anyone; it only turns your diagnosis into an exclusive club for the people who never had to try to figure it out on their own.

True disability justice has to happen inside disability movements, too. We can’t gain ground for disabled people as a group if we’re pushing others in our own communities into the margins. Ultimately, we need to break down all the barriers that are preventing some of us from accessing the same care that others take for granted. But until then, the first step is to recognize that those barriers exist and that the people on both sides of them are equally valid.
Content note: autism, medical gaslighting, sexism in medicine.
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If you trundle around speaking to people in various corners of the internet and you mention self-diagnosis, chances are you will find controversy or anger. Either two sides arguing over whether self-diagnosis is valid, or someone saying that those silly Tumblr people self-diagnosing for coolness points are hurting people who actually have the condition. A very popular condition to argue over is autism.

The sentiment usually goes, “you’ve googled your symptoms and you’ve decided that you have autism, but a doctor would never diagnose you because you’re just a 13-year old making it up to fit in.”
This has always made me feel really angry.

After years of noticing in my 20s that I was disproportionately making friends with and identifying with autistic people, I started to think that maybe a job working with autistic people specifically might be something that could work for me… and then my physical and mental health declined so far that I became unable to work. When I made yet another friend who later told me they were autistic, and I said to them that I thought maybe I might be autistic, they said, “yeah of course you are.“

I was self-diagnosed for 1–2 years, until my physical and mental state got so bad that I was living well below the poverty line on standard short-term sickness benefits. I went to my GP to talk about my problems but was dismissed. I had to fight the NHS for over a year. I was referred to the Community Mental Health Team (CMHT), who told me that there was no specialist able to diagnose me and then expected me to just discharge myself. One doctor wrote in my medical notes that she didn’t think I was autistic, and that was added to my Disability Living Allowance (DLA) application, and I was denied the correct amount of money for my level of ability; she was a trainee CBT therapist. I had to push for months to get a referral to a locum specialist. No one was able to diagnose autism, in the second-largest city in Wales.

I can’t even count the number of times a less desperate or determined person than me would have given up. I was told so many times that I didn’t seem to be autistic, from my GP onward. When I told non-autistic people I thought I was autistic they seemed worried about me and they doubted me, including my own mother, a teacher in a specialist school for autistic children (all boys). But when I told autistic people they congratulated me and helped me. Even after being self-diagnosed for such a long time, when I finally got that letter saying I was autistic it took me weeks to come to terms with it. I used it to be awarded the correct amount of DLA, and I wrote to that trainee CBT therapist to tell her the harm that her misdiagnosis had done. She wrote back justifying her position.

So many autistic people are slipping through the net, because of doctors just not being very good at this. It’s not their fault that research progresses more slowly than autistic people’s understanding of themselves and their autistic peers, but they are failing us. And they are especially failing women and girls.

Being an undiagnosed autistic adult has been enormously difficult for a very long time, and to those of us on Tumblr who’re used to the idea that women and girls and nonbinary people are equally likely to be autistic it can be a huge shock to be faced with the sexism in medicine that is still very much prevalent. Men and boys are still much more likely to be diagnosed, and people who aren’t men have been trained since birth to mask their difficulties until they fall apart.

So yeah, when you’re autistic and not a mute white boy who rocks occasionally, it’s self-diagnosis or nothing. No one is going to notice that you’re autistic and refer you to the right specialist. You will have to notice on your own, and diagnose yourself, and then fight.

I am also completely unsurprised that online communities of autistic people diagnosing themselves and connecting with each other knew better than the medical community. I trust people to know themselves. I know one person who has been told he’s wrong about his autism because his social skills are too good — the result of being assigned female and various complicated life situations that don’t actually negate his autism but have given him skills he wouldn’t otherwise have. To me he fits into the autistic community perfectly. I am expecting him to be diagnosed maybe in a few years’ time, when doctors are as wise as their autistic patients.

I’m not just speaking in defence of those who self-diagnose. I am actively celebrating self-diagnosis. Until there are people willing to professionally diagnose us, self-diagnosis is for some people the only thing available.
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Refusing access to self-diagnosed people in disability spaces is saying that, whatever the reasons those people may have for lacking formal diagnosis, their own word on their experiences in their bodies doesn’t count. Refusing to help people find the resources to confirm a diagnosis because they’re “fishing” for it, if they come to suspect it on their own first, doesn’t help anyone; it only turns your diagnosis into an exclusive club for the people who never had to try to figure it out on their own.

True disability justice has to happen inside disability movements, too. We can’t gain ground for disabled people as a group if we’re pushing others in our own communities into the margins.
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I’m not just speaking in defence of those who self-diagnose. I am actively celebrating self-diagnosis. Until there are people willing to professionally diagnose us, self-diagnosis is for some people the only thing available.
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My self-diagnosis explains me to me and that’s all I need.  If it explains me to other people that’s a bonus.  After 75 years of not understanding who I was, it was a revelation.  As with most people, an offiicial diagnosis was too expensive anyway.  Thanks for 2 very good articles.

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« Reply #4694 on: December 06, 2019, 03:01:37 PM »
I have self-diagnosed at someone with an IQ for 210.

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« Reply #4695 on: December 06, 2019, 03:03:36 PM »
Sasha Grey, who still uses her porn name professionally including on that stream and on her novels, seems like the last person to actually care about those kind of jokes.

She would probably get a kick out of the jokes.

But the white males on ERA know what’s best for her, so she should just sit down and listen.

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« Reply #4696 on: December 06, 2019, 03:03:45 PM »
I have self-diagnosed as someone with an IQ for 210.

Seems legit.

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« Reply #4697 on: December 06, 2019, 03:04:30 PM »
I have self-diagnosed as someone with an IQ for 210.

Seems legit.

 :science

dont you dare fucking marginalize me
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« Reply #4698 on: December 06, 2019, 03:05:14 PM »
So, uh, if what I just heard is accurate, not only is FeistyBoots a troll, but he (yes he identifies as male) is not the only one with some degree of visibility.

I have a friend in the TransEra discord that is aware of 4 other posters excluding Feisty in there that are total trolls, 2 of which are high profile posters. Out of all 5 of these alleged trolls, only 1 is actually trans/nb, and she's apparently the biggest edgelord of them all.

FeistyBoots is the only name I've been given since my friend wants to see how far the others can take it and she thinks he's laying it on way too thick and is probably going to get exposed soon anyway. And no, I'm not going to name my friend either since she actually does like it in there even if she acknowledges it gets heavy handed at times.

Of course she could also be totally fucking with me here. Wouldn't be the first time. I asked her if I could post it here and she said yeah since it would be funny (I know you're reading this, lol). I guess we'll see what happens and if they ever get exposed.
Wow at this alt-right smear against a key leader of TransEra who was at The Summit which SweetNicole opened with a foreward. This is yet another attempt by the gators to spread myths like that Enzom21 was a poster or that the ads on ResetERA.com are a problem or that an LLC can have a single owner.

This definitely makes the calls for summits more important than ever.

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« Reply #4699 on: December 06, 2019, 03:07:19 PM »
Word just came in from the big boss that theyre moving me from Windows 7 to Windows 10

HELP
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« Reply #4701 on: December 06, 2019, 03:09:25 PM »
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I’ve never been formally diagnosed with it, but I know I have it.
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« Reply #4702 on: December 06, 2019, 03:11:21 PM »
I'm gonna stop making fun of slayven, he/she is probably dyslexic.

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« Reply #4703 on: December 06, 2019, 03:12:52 PM »
Lmao at ABA being child abuse

A parent trying to do what they can to help their autistic child have the best chance possible in life? Nah fuck that noise, listen to ERA instead!  :dead

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« Reply #4704 on: December 06, 2019, 03:13:18 PM »
I'm gonna stop making fun of slayven, he/she is probably dyslexic.
dyslexix  :wag

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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4705 on: December 06, 2019, 03:15:47 PM »
https://www.resetera.com/threads/how-ok-are-you-really-with-joe-biden-as-the-democratic-nominee.157345/post-27124436
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In my opinion Biden is too far right and a status quo Democrat in 2021 is not what the world needs to move forward in the face of rising fascism, wealth inequality, climate change, anti intellectualism and bigotry. The world is on it's back foot and needs a visionary progressive leader with access to a large economy - not some moderate old white man who at most will slow the pace of decay.
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82 year old Biden in 2024 for another term LMAO. Fuck you America for even entertaining this scenario, especially with the planet on fire. Garbage tier country.
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Lots of people don't deny climate change and continue its acceleration. Is that really a standard you feel comfortable with.
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Yep, at the point we're at, if you're not into radical change to get off fossil fuels and address our overconsumption, then you're effectively a climate denier.

Denying climate change isn't simply bringing a snowball into Congress and saying that it's still cold outside. A deniar can also be someone like a Pelosi or Biden or some other fossil fuel lover Dem centrist who scoff at getting off of fossil fuels in the time scientists have said we have left to course correct (less than a decade folks).

Or to describe it differently, this planet has terminal stage III lung cancer and it's tilting towards stage IV, and we're the cause. Biden recognizes that, but he would rather just get you new pillows to sleep on, change your diet slightly, no chemotherapy, and all this while allowing you to continue to chain smoke daily. Except now instead of 10 packs a day it's more like 8 and then over the years, if you're still alive, you'll continue cutting down on the daily intake.

With the stakes so high, we can't afford to continue our 4 decades slow response to climate change. So thus why Joe "fucking love fracking" Biden to me barely ranks above a climate change denier.
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lol I'm not american. I am however aghast at how comfortable people seem with a Biden presidency. Your country doesn't have four years to spin its wheels, it needs a new permanently mobilized progressive (anti-corporate) political movement yesterday.
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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4706 on: December 06, 2019, 03:18:00 PM »
Word just came in from the big boss that theyre moving me from Windows 7 to Windows 10

HELP
Key logger, FBI tracking and Chinacom exploit come pre-installed  8)
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ShutUp

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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4707 on: December 06, 2019, 03:18:39 PM »
If Biden is the nominee, I’m not voting!

- a very real possibility that ERA adopts this mentality next year, assuming a site implosion doesn’t happen before then

Lonewulfeus

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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4708 on: December 06, 2019, 03:20:11 PM »
Word just came in from the big boss that theyre moving me from Windows 7 to Windows 10

HELP
Key logger, FBI tracking and Chinacom exploit come pre-installed  8)

Like James isn’t already being tracked by the FBI :sabu

Nintex

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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4709 on: December 06, 2019, 03:21:11 PM »
If Biden is the nominee, I’m not voting!

- a very real possibility that ERA adopts next year, assuming a site implosion doesn’t happen before then
They're not voting anyway. The election happens in the middle of BOTW2, PlayStation 5 and Xbox #2.

If they vote they solve their problem and they can't complain and be suicidal anymore.
They're already frothing at the mouth preparing the: "I'm ending it all because Trump got re-elected and you are all Nazi's!!!!" posts.
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benjipwns

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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4710 on: December 06, 2019, 03:21:14 PM »
Like James isn’t already being tracked by the FBI :sabu
Or isn't already working for them, look at how often he's trying to provoke people into doing something illegal or to create probable cause...

Lonewulfeus

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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4711 on: December 06, 2019, 03:23:31 PM »
Like James isn’t already being tracked by the FBI :sabu
Or isn't already working for them, look at how often he's trying to provoke people into doing something illegal or to create probable cause...

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Pissy F Benny

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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4713 on: December 06, 2019, 03:31:50 PM »
Yo self diagnosis will do its part to solve a lot of the healthcare problems America has  :brain :brain :brain

Trump 4 Self Diagnosis 2020  :trumps
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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4714 on: December 06, 2019, 03:38:03 PM »
I have self-diagnosed as someone with an IQ for 210.

Seems legit.

 :science

dont you dare fucking marginalize me

Why would I slather a butter substitute all over you?

 :kobeyuck   ...    :beetlejuice

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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4715 on: December 06, 2019, 03:38:11 PM »
Like James isn’t already being tracked by the FBI :sabu
Or isn't already working for them, look at how often he's trying to provoke people into doing something illegal or to create probable cause...

click those links I pmed you Benji they are good libertarian content
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« Reply #4716 on: December 06, 2019, 03:41:20 PM »
real feminists don't let the state decide how old you have to be to use your own body
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« Reply #4717 on: December 06, 2019, 03:45:10 PM »
the cia killed shosta and made it look like a suicide
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« Reply #4718 on: December 06, 2019, 03:45:53 PM »
cream and PsychoBee are the same person
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« Reply #4719 on: December 06, 2019, 03:46:18 PM »
Phoenix Dark is half white
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« Reply #4720 on: December 06, 2019, 03:46:37 PM »
im self diagnosing as having a mental breakdown
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« Reply #4721 on: December 06, 2019, 03:46:46 PM »
:pika
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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4722 on: December 06, 2019, 03:49:37 PM »
https://www.resetera.com/threads/summary-from-11-24-19-meeting-involving-transera-community-resetera-staff.155481/post-27121395
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I'm now calling for AutisticEra to also be heard. People on this site are advocating curing autism, which is not a disease.
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« Reply #4723 on: December 06, 2019, 03:51:18 PM »
Yo self diagnosis will do its part to solve a lot of the healthcare problems America has  :brain :brain :brain

Trump 4 Self Diagnosis 2020  :trumps
"We will completely deregulate healthcare you can have the any healthcare that you want as cheap as you want.
Look I never trusted my doctors. No one trusts their doctors you'd rather go the guy that fixes your car, he's reliable right?
On Google everything is on Google these days even heart surgery Ben knows this right Ben?
The great Ben everybody boy did he pull them apart didn't he but that's probably not something you can Google. He nods hahaha great guy Ben
We're very seriously looking into this based on my suggestion but it is happening soon"

im self diagnosing as having a mental breakdown
So you've decided to run for office, good lad
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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4724 on: December 06, 2019, 03:56:21 PM »
im self diagnosing as having a mental breakdown
Win 10 isn't that bad.

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« Reply #4725 on: December 06, 2019, 04:08:56 PM »
Good Ol slaven:

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Imagine trying to burn someone and being slaven.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/sanders-campaign-hires-staffer-with-history-of-slurs-against-marginalized-groups-also-body-shaming-ableism-up-campaign-has-parted-ways-with-him.157551/post-27127400

I wish I could find a glowing meteorite that would give me the power for a single day to understand what slayven was thinking before his flailing attempts at trying to communicate his thoughts.  And also why he would have that thought.  So often he posts some bizarre tangent seemingly because of a "keyword" in the thread title.  Maybe he does have some issue.

I know we shit on him all the time because he's stupid and ubiquitous but he's not toxic bully like the others we shit on.
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joeboy101

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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4726 on: December 06, 2019, 04:13:38 PM »
Good Ol slaven:

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Imagine trying to burn someone and being slaven.

https://www.resetera.com/threads/sanders-campaign-hires-staffer-with-history-of-slurs-against-marginalized-groups-also-body-shaming-ableism-up-campaign-has-parted-ways-with-him.157551/post-27127400

I wish I could find a glowing meteorite that would give me the power for a single day to understand what slayven was thinking before his flailing attempts at trying to communicate his thoughts.  And also why he would have that thought.  So often he posts some bizarre tangent seemingly because of a "keyword" in the thread title.  Maybe he does have some issue.

I know we shit on him all the time because he's stupid and ubiquitous but he's not toxic bully like the others we shit on.

My mind just surrendered after glancing at that post first, wondering what the fuck he was talking about. But, seeing it in here again, I sadly get what he thought he read.

Oh Slayven. The word is constituency. A term for a group of people someone represents or leads. Often used when talking about politics and government.

The word is not contingency.

 :snoop

Pissy F Benny

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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4727 on: December 06, 2019, 04:39:59 PM »
lol there’s a decent chance that someone who works in the medical field popping into a ree health issue thread saying ‘yo man self diagnosis for anything more severe than the flu is fucking insane, see a doctor for fuck sake’ getting banned for medisplaining or some shit  :rash
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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4728 on: December 06, 2019, 04:54:47 PM »
Lmao at ABA being child abuse

Dancing Queen sucks though

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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4729 on: December 06, 2019, 05:01:14 PM »
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I slightly teared up when watching a video of this for the first time, and I haven't seen a single second of a Star Wars movie.
https://www.resetera.com/threads/video-of-full-size-x-wing-drones-taking-off-from-galaxys-edge-in-disney-world-fl.157586/post-27131405

 :huh

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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4730 on: December 06, 2019, 05:05:46 PM »

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Strong disagree. Autism is only hard because neurotypicals make it hard. It needs to be demedicalized and normalized, and people need to embrace the idea of neurodivergence.

Holy fucking shit. My friend's child was recently diagnosed with autism and it makes me mad reading this. It has been so much better for the kid and the family after the diagnosis and further therapy for the condition.

Now imagine these pieces of shit getting their way and getting to banbait some poor cunt looking for advice for actually diagnosed issues because so-fucking-special-they-wish-they-were-special era read something about doctors bad on some 'affirmation' website.

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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4732 on: December 06, 2019, 05:10:54 PM »

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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4733 on: December 06, 2019, 05:15:00 PM »
Word just came in from the big boss that theyre moving me from Windows 7 to Windows 10

HELP

don't worry, windows 10 is actually much younger than 7


GreatSageEqualOfHeaven

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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4734 on: December 06, 2019, 05:15:46 PM »
How the fuck you even "cure" autism

do an online test then self diagnose yourself as fixed apparently

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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4735 on: December 06, 2019, 05:25:45 PM »
How the fuck you even "cure" autism

do an online test then self diagnose yourself as fixed apparently

at some point in the future we will be able to diagnose children in utero and genetically remove things like autism (and a host of other things). But that means our future generations won't be special. And that's apparently eugenics, and not OK.

GreatSageEqualOfHeaven

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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4736 on: December 06, 2019, 05:32:07 PM »
 :nope            the reasoned conclusions of a trained medical professional after an examination

:ohyeah     your own feels and the self-serving feels of other people online rationalising their own anti-science

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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4737 on: December 06, 2019, 05:34:08 PM »
era: these flat earthers and anti-vaxxers zealous anti science doctrines are damaging to society at large and to the very principles of the scientific method.

Also era: welcome, self diagnosing trans and autists, here's your ban pass.

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« Reply #4738 on: December 06, 2019, 05:37:33 PM »
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If you have created PoC characters, wouldn't you send out a casting call for PoC voice actors? Otherwise why bother creating PoC characters to then whitewash them.
Because they're a bunch of opportunistic white people who want to look like they are good and progressive, but not actually do anything to help or elevate POC.

Worthless ass non-apology, but what do you expect from a group of white people? Their promises to do better have meant nothing for centuries.
https://www.resetera.com/threads/wargroove-chucklefish-is-receiving-criticism-for-casting-white-actors-for-its-poc-characters-dev-respond-see-threadmark.157376/post-27129816

Sounds like on-screen representation doesn't matter after all?

also lol when he's comparing color blind voice casting with the shit white people did in the last centuries
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Re: DOJ |OT| SUMMIT NOW SUMMIT NOW
« Reply #4739 on: December 06, 2019, 05:43:22 PM »
Shosta’s last post was on 11/20, Marrec’s last post was on 11/19.  Marrec is a shosta pluralgang alter confirmed!