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[Atramental]

I rarely get with anyone younger than 24 after I hit 28.

edit: I mean, sure I match with girls younger than 24 but I can tell that we aren't really on the same wavelength socially.

[Atramental]

I wanna hug all them beautiful cats. 

[Atramental]

I know I know.

I’m stupid. 

[Bebpo]

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[Tasty]

I know I know.

I’m stupid. 

Newsfeed.

[Atramental]

I’m fine with just being platonic friends from this point on. 

That’s my big fear is losing a super cool friend who can connect me to other cool people in my not so cool city. 

[Atramental]

I’m basically at her mercy if she wants something more.

I can’t force my will upon someone like her. She’s very independent and strong willed.

And I did flat out tell her that I was cool with being friends and that the ball was in her court if she wanted something more.

[VomKriege]

*sleepily browse the thread*

Well, you can't force your will on anyone, really.

[Atramental]

Sure. But some people are more pliable than others.

[brawndolicious]

It's common after an intimate moment for people to claim they accept just being friends but then continue to do confusing/flirty shit. After having your heart shit on a few times, people become more patient in establishing new friendships. Best to just be transparent, cool, and keep your wiener from trying to fuck everything up.

[Atramental]

It's common after an intimate moment for people to claim they accept just being friends but then continue to do confusing/flirty shit. After having your heart shit on a few times, people become more patient in establishing new friendships. Best to just be transparent, cool, and keep your wiener from trying to fuck everything up.

So... are you saying I should bone or not bone if she flings herself on me again? 

[Atramental]

She laugh reacted to my latest facebook post. 

[skullstorm]

[Atramental]

I swear. If you get them laughing that’s a great sign.

[CatsCatsCats]

https://m.

[Huff]

https://m.

[skullstorm]

It's only a matter of time until atra shows up at possum girl's work with a bunch of roses and a love letter 

[Atramental]

It's only a matter of time until atra shows up at possum girl's work with a bunch of roses and a love letter 

I’m not that far gone.

Sure I emote a lot here and come off as a love sick puppy but it’s a way to get it out of system so I can be calm & resolved.

[I'm a Puppy!]

Or choke her.

We'll, since she loves choking she'll love atra.

[Atramental]

She likes to get punched too. 

[skullstorm]

 

[Atramental]

She went to a BDSM thing on Halloween and she wanted a guy to fight her.

He gave her a bit of black eye.

Also she got spanked by a paddle and had a couple of bruises on her butt.

Needless to say... I like freaks. 

[Olivia Wilde Homo]

This is painful to read but it’s a great life lesson and we all have to learn the hard way.

[Atramental]

What do I need to learn here?

That I shouldn't be falling for her at all and that I should just move on to greener pastures?

[Mupepe]

I’d imagine for a woman that likes being punched and choked, the only thing that makes her dry up faster than a man who can’t get it up is one that wants her to make the move and overthinks every interaction with her. I think you need to learn that there’s a difference between taking a chance and going for it and asserting your will on someone. 

Real talk, i wanted my wife so bad before we had sex. We were best friends, fooled around but never fucked. I had built it up so much that the first time I couldn’t get it up for like half an hour and then we had the most unsatisfying sex. Ugh. It was shameful and I was pissed at myself. But instead of being all awkward and thinking how I blew it, I told her “trust me, I can do better” and then did so.

[Snowden]

What do I need to learn here?

That I shouldn't be falling for her at all and that I should just move on to greener pastures?

Yea.

[Nabbis]

What do I need to learn here?

That I shouldn't be falling for her at all and that I should just move on to greener pastures?

That pasture can certainly be green, you did manage to fuck her once and that speaks for itself. The issue imo is that you kinda like Zelda but went and bought Dark Souls.

[Nabbis]

He didn’t manage to fuck her.

Oh, well...Yeah. Then i personally i don't see this even slightly worth it if it takes a emotional toll.

[Atramental]

She’s a real life succubus.

Or at least my potted up brain feels that way. 

[Bebpo]

The issue imo is that you kinda like Zelda but went and bought Dark Souls.

Newsfeed plz

[Atramental]

She hasn’t texted me back a time when she’s going yet. 

[BlueTsunami]

My guess is youre experiencing the "Girl is not trying to hurt you by flat out eaying no" scenario, Atra. Abort, abort. Abort.

[Atramental]

[BlueTsunami]

Trying to bend her will will just get her to say what you want to hear so she doesnt have to deal with the fallout. Right now its on you to read the tea leaves and leave well enough alone. Sorry, dude. You only get told whats up from a real G of a woman. Mainly Puerto Rican females.

[Atramental]

She’s given me long stints of radio silence before.

This might not be any different.

I hope...

[I'm a Puppy!]

This arc of the season sucks. We have so many other more promising arcs.

[Atramental]

https://imgur.com/a/2ZX76v3

this was reblogged on her tumblr several hours ago but....

I think I get the infered message loud and clear.

[mormapope]

When a woman wants to fuck you, get closer to you, they'll put actual effort on their end. If you see no effort, she's not worth any of yours.

First sign of actual effort, do they make time to see you or talk to you? Does she surprise you in a positive way with the effort she's putting in? If the answer is no, time to giddy up somewhere else. And just like men, many women simply suck at being a friend or someone you can comfortably rely on.

Time is way more important than anything. Don't chisel your life or who you are away just so you can get an opportunity. The opportunity should be exciting and fun mutually.

[Mupepe]

Jesus. If she’s really posting passive aggressive shit to give you a hint then I’d say good riddance. I’d usually call you paranoid but she honestly sounds like a mess based on what you’ve told us here.

[Atramental]

So, the short order cook, Emily.

I’m wondering if I should message her Sunday to see if she’s free Monday.

Aren’t Mondays typically slow days at restaurants?

[brawndolicious]

It's common after an intimate moment for people to claim they accept just being friends but then continue to do confusing/flirty shit. After having your heart shit on a few times, people become more patient in establishing new friendships. Best to just be transparent, cool, and keep your wiener from trying to fuck everything up.

So... are you saying I should bone or not bone if she flings herself on me again? 

The last sentence was literally telling you to disobey your penis. Basically, I don't feel it's worth taking her up on the offer even if she throws herself at you because she is not in the zone of looking for a stable romantic relationship. If she's cool with being friends, that will naturally progress the less you pay attention to it. Probably best to not worry if weeks go by without hearing from each other.

Now, it's possible that you two end up happily ever after a year or two from now. I'm only saying that to hedge my bets but you shouldn't plan that far ahead.

[BlueTsunami]

I am sorry it turned out this way, Atra. Fuck her. On to the next one.

[MMaRsu]

My guess is youre experiencing the "Girl is not trying to hurt you by flat out eaying no" scenario, Atra. Abort, abort. Abort.

[Atramental]

So, the short order cook, Emily.

I’m wondering if I should message her Sunday to see if she’s free Monday.

Aren’t Mondays typically slow days at restaurants?

So, for real. What do?

I think I'll just keep waiting since I did put the ball in her court to message me when she's free from work.

[Atramental]

Alrighty.

I'll pop up again if I run into another pickle.

For now, I'm just going to focus on my own self improvement.

[BlueTsunami]

Alrighty.

I'll pop up again if I run into another pickle.

For now, I'm just going to focus on my own self improvement.

Not to toot my own dick but what I've been going through has been transformative for me.  I place it squarely on becoming physically well. Loving myself, so I can freely express myself. I'm sure you'll find it won't just help your love life but touch every aspect of you. Start as soon as possible.

[BlueTsunami]

https://imgur.com/a/2ZX76v3

this was reblogged on her tumblr several hours ago but....

I think I get the infered message loud and clear.

It’s highly unlikely that she’s trying to send you messages through Tumblr posts, dude.

Not to toot my own dick but what I've been going through has been transformative for me.  I place it squarely on becoming physically well. Loving myself, so I can freely express myself. I'm sure you'll find it won't just help your love life but touch every aspect of you. Start as soon as possible.

The 4aco can’t hurt either.

Tripping on that wonderful substance right now

[Atramental]

Alrighty.

I'll pop up again if I run into another pickle.

For now, I'm just going to focus on my own self improvement.

Not to toot my own dick but what I've been going through has been transformative for me.  I place it squarely on becoming physically well. Loving myself, so I can freely express myself. I'm sure you'll find it won't just help your love life but touch every aspect of you. Start as soon as possible.

So... feel free to PM this but... I kinda want to get some of these substances you're getting your hands on but I have no idea where to start.

[BlueTsunami]

Alrighty.

I'll pop up again if I run into another pickle.

For now, I'm just going to focus on my own self improvement.

Not to toot my own dick but what I've been going through has been transformative for me.  I place it squarely on becoming physically well. Loving myself, so I can freely express myself. I'm sure you'll find it won't just help your love life but touch every aspect of you. Start as soon as possible.

So... feel free to PM this but... I kinda want to get some of these substances you're getting your hands on but I have no idea where to start.

I'll send you the deets but please know it can turn into a well designed, heat seaking missle. Searching out your self hate. And if you think you know self loathing? Get back to me after the fifth hour of a trip where every negative facet of yourself is illuminated with a million lumen light.

[Atramental]

Errrr... damn. Maybe I’m not quite ready for that yet. 

Is there like a “training wheels” version of this stuff?

[BlueTsunami]

Errrr... damn. Maybe I’m not quite ready for that yet. 

Is there like a “training wheels” version of this stuff?

The only way I can envision you taking well to this is getting a head start on hitting that gym. The moment you can look in the mirror and begin to see the person youre turning into, happy with, youre ready.

I took this shit at my lowest. At my heaviest. I wanted to walk emotionless into the kitchen, grab a knife and jab it into my neck. Just end my pitiful excuse of a life. This is where it can take you.

[Atramental]

Errrr... damn. Maybe I’m not quite ready for that yet. 

Is there like a “training wheels” version of this stuff?

The only way I can invision you taking well to this is getting a head start on hitting that gym. The moment you can look in the mirror and begin to see the person youre turning into, happy with, youre ready.

I took this shit at my lowest. At my heaviest. I wanted to walk emotionless into the kitchen, grab a knife and jab it into my neck. Just end my pitiful excuse of a life. This is where it can take you.

Fuuuuuck dude. 

[BlueTsunami]

Errrr... damn. Maybe I’m not quite ready for that yet. 

Is there like a “training wheels” version of this stuff?

The only way I can invision you taking well to this is getting a head start on hitting that gym. The moment you can look in the mirror and begin to see the person youre turning into, happy with, youre ready.

I took this shit at my lowest. At my heaviest. I wanted to walk emotionless into the kitchen, grab a knife and jab it into my neck. Just end my pitiful excuse of a life. This is where it can take you.

Fuuuuuck dude. 

Once you're there, throw me that PM. We'll work out that round trip ticket to see the face of God.

[Atramental]

I guess I'll go to the gym tomorrow morning and get started with some basic strength training.

[Atramental]

Also, I'm starting to research that list of psychologists my company's chief of staff sent me.

[BlueTsunami]

I guess I'll go to the gym tomorrow morning and get started with some basic strength training.

Also, I'm starting to research that list of psychologists my company's chief of staff sent me.

The path towards the new you begins on this day. I can't wait to meet him.

[BlueTsunami]

And when they grab hold on them for dear life when you're taking them to the bone zone

[MMaRsu]

Is it now, MMaRsu?

I have some experience in this area, trust me

Also my arms are skinny af

[HardcoreRetro]

Strong enough to hold roses.



And choke a bitch.

[MMaRsu]

I lol'd hard