As a demisexual who is tired of a subset of furries thinking I want to fuck them irl just cuz I showed them porn of my character or something, I say go ahead cuz fuck everything

I don't actually want an answer to this, because I don't actually want to understand furries any better, but how the fuck is showing someone porn involving an avatar you claim represents you not at the very least mixed fucking signals for wanting to fuck someone IRL?
The entire point of porn is sexual gratification.
The entire point of going "Oh, yeah, thats me in that porn" is to create a link between you as a person and sexual gratification.
Like, wtf?