fapping and then having a nice meal afterwards always insured I didn't make poor choices.
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I can't quite get why acknowledging Sasha Grey was a very famous pornstar (if a bit overrated) was sexist. I mean, Resetera can't let go off some out-of-context quotes some minor Internet personality said eight years ago but saying Sasha Grey did porn is sexist?
Quote from: benjipwns on December 07, 2019, 02:31:01 PMQuote from: https://www.resetera.com/threads/elon-musk-wins-twitter-defamation-trial-brought-by-caver-vernon-unsworth.157607/post-27135410 User Banned (3 Days): Trolling and Misrepresenting Other Users; Prior Ban for TrollingGuy doesn't get $200 million for being called a name.Era: Fuck the Justice system!!!The people calling Musk a pedo in protest is odd. If they believe that Musk should face consequences shouldn't they then also face consequences for their post? Changing the system now goes against their interest
Quote from: https://www.resetera.com/threads/elon-musk-wins-twitter-defamation-trial-brought-by-caver-vernon-unsworth.157607/post-27135410 User Banned (3 Days): Trolling and Misrepresenting Other Users; Prior Ban for TrollingGuy doesn't get $200 million for being called a name.Era: Fuck the Justice system!!!
User Banned (3 Days): Trolling and Misrepresenting Other Users; Prior Ban for TrollingGuy doesn't get $200 million for being called a name.Era: Fuck the Justice system!!!
Quote from: HobbesWill Era ever impose a feature that hides threads from lurker view that are sensitive topics, like trans focused threads?Would it ever be possible to identify someone who screenshots posts and submits them to hate sites?I have the feeling hiding threads would be a victory for those sites, giving the impression they have power on people they dislike and force them to hide. Yes those websites exist and I am surprised by the amount of hate they display, even by Internet standards. Given the words, they use I am surprised they haven't been sued more. I know American laws allow a lot of thigs because of the holy freedom speech, but still surprised there haven't been more lawsuits.I don't think it would be possible to identify people's screenshotting posts without resorting to intrusive methods.The only solution that could be considered might be threads reserved to people belonging to subgroups I guess, some forums let you post in a section only if you request joining a specific group.(that limits spam but also other problems). However it might restrict the scope of conversations.
Will Era ever impose a feature that hides threads from lurker view that are sensitive topics, like trans focused threads?Would it ever be possible to identify someone who screenshots posts and submits them to hate sites?
QuoteQuote from: HobbesWill Era ever impose a feature that hides threads from lurker view that are sensitive topics, like trans focused threads?Would it ever be possible to identify someone who screenshots posts and submits them to hate sites?I have the feeling hiding threads would be a victory for those sites, giving the impression they have power on people they dislike and force them to hide. Yes those websites exist and I am surprised by the amount of hate they display, even by Internet standards. Given the words, they use I am surprised they haven't been sued more. I know American laws allow a lot of thigs because of the holy freedom speech, but still surprised there haven't been more lawsuits.I don't think it would be possible to identify people's screenshotting posts without resorting to intrusive methods.The only solution that could be considered might be threads reserved to people belonging to subgroups I guess, some forums let you post in a section only if you request joining a specific group.(that limits spam but also other problems). However it might restrict the scope of conversations.
Would love to see her co-op with Mia Khalifa.
User Banned (9 Days): Inflammatory Accusationsno, this is the nail in the coffin for ol' Bernard, who is the strongest against Trump in the general and is currently leading the field in California.It's funny to see who would prefer Trump over Bernie to the point that they have to rush to post every minor fuckup his campaign makes (and then rectifies not even an hour after they post it).At some point, aren't threads like this just bait? Like at least wait for the CNN article, don't go posting right-ring rags and Twitter reactionaries.
User Banned (duration pending): Inflammatory comments, history of infractions, account in junior phaseI love how Trump is fighting for fair trade from EU and China all while having awesome job numbers at the same time. And people swore China had all the leverage over us.
Quote from: https://www.resetera.com/threads/sanders-campaign-hires-staffer-with-history-of-slurs-against-marginalized-groups-also-body-shaming-ableism-up-campaign-has-parted-ways-with-him.157551/post-27128494 User Banned (9 Days): Inflammatory Accusationsno, this is the nail in the coffin for ol' Bernard, who is the strongest against Trump in the general and is currently leading the field in California.It's funny to see who would prefer Trump over Bernie to the point that they have to rush to post every minor fuckup his campaign makes (and then rectifies not even an hour after they post it).At some point, aren't threads like this just bait? Like at least wait for the CNN article, don't go posting right-ring rags and Twitter reactionaries.what an odd choice of days
A girl I really really like and had a major crush on said that she's not really interested when I asked her our last night. I was really hoping she would be up for going out, as I love her character and who she is. And she is also one of the few people I actually know here in Sweden that I'm interested in keeping in touch with, with most others being random people from work.Haven't slept, been overthinking a hundred situations of how maybe I approached her wrongly or didn't choose the right moment, or who the hell knows what.Also having a birthday in a few weeks when I turn 29 and not really having any friends to do anything with over the one month of vacation I have coming now for the holidays, is kind of hitting me hard. With all the burnout from work, I can just sense a self destructive period coming up again, just as I managed to get out of one.I have no regrets as those are pointless and all the mistakes I've done have made me who I am now, but stuff like this drains the life out of me and makes me question whether coming to Sweden was a good choice. Feel like leaving all behind and running away again as I did before I came here. 🤷
Having just rewatched this for the first time in like eight years, it's even better than I could have realized, it doesn't pull any punches in regards to just how truly, utterly miserable this holiday can be. A movie all about spending time with your family when your family just so happens to all be terrible, terrible people. I don't know how it is for everyone else here but my extended family are terrible and having to spend time with them for even a brief period of time is hell on earth, and because of that Christmas Vacation is probably the most relatable Christmas movie I've ever seen.
User Banned ( 2 Weeks): Objectifying and sexist commentary. Please do not reduce sex workers and former sex workers to their past work
https://twitter.com/Halalcoholism/status/1203291947453956096
User Banned (Duration Pending): Downplaying racismHow come season 1 is hated? This shit is golden. Micheal is basically super unfiltered. I am in the Dundies and he has literally Asian glasses in in Chilis as the camera zooms in on an Asian woman.I super get it is offensive but it seems tailored to be humorous and make a point Micheal is an awful person.Is the over top rudeness why season 1 is hated?
Did she ever apologize about the transphobic jokes she made?
Did she ever spend the time to apologize for her tasteless transphobic joke?
Yes truly, how dare she, a woman, speak with confidence about anything on the internet?
Calling an adult woman a girl while complaining about her being self-important? always very cool.
Did she ever apologize for the racist, sexist, and drunk stuff?
Oh shit there is more tea?
yes and how dare you try to hand wave criticism about a critic who has made problematic statements in the past and speaks about wokeness and yet has no Pocs at her wedding
Update: I did it and my brother as well, we talked for over an hour and my dad just sat there not saying much. We left and said we will talk to him one day but we all need to focus on ourself. The worse part of the day is finding out my 4k tv is cracked and broken.... 1500 down the drain... I barely used it this whole year. Had a 55 4k Sony 900e and now gotta look for a new TV. Hows the sony 950g?
QuoteI can never understand how people fell in love with this ghoul.God, they're insufferable.Just gonna take the time here to point to more blatant sexism in this thread, are we gonna need another 12 hours for our lovely mod team to decide if 3 days or a warning is good enough
I can never understand how people fell in love with this ghoul.God, they're insufferable.
QuoteCan you explain how "ghoul" is a sexist term, or are you going to continue to diminish actual sexism?I'm trying to avoid derailing the thread too much, but if calling her a witch is sexist than moving one step from that should be too. Mocking her voice is apparently a 3 day, and in a previous thread calling her a cunt is worth just a warning, so I'm not sure how the grading in this class works.
Can you explain how "ghoul" is a sexist term, or are you going to continue to diminish actual sexism?
QuoteCan you explain how "ghoul" is a sexist term, or are you going to continue to diminish actual sexism?Eh, it could be a dog whistle, a replacement word for something more sexist
https://www.resetera.com/threads/how-to-get-a-book-deal-in-ten-years-or-less-lindsay-ellis.157783/QuoteDid she ever apologize about the transphobic jokes she made?QuoteDid she ever spend the time to apologize for her tasteless transphobic joke?QuoteYes truly, how dare she, a woman, speak with confidence about anything on the internet?QuoteCalling an adult woman a girl while complaining about her being self-important? always very cool.QuoteDid she ever apologize for the racist, sexist, and drunk stuff?QuoteOh shit there is more tea?Quoteyes and how dare you try to hand wave criticism about a critic who has made problematic statements in the past and speaks about wokeness and yet has no Pocs at her weddinggood work team
How come this is okay but mentioning that Billy Dee Williams once attacked his girlfriend isn't
https://www.resetera.com/threads/tomorrow-im-going-to-tell-my-dad-i-dont-want-anymore-contact-with-him.157697/#post-27156311Quote Update: I did it and my brother as well, we talked for over an hour and my dad just sat there not saying much. We left and said we will talk to him one day but we all need to focus on ourself. The worse part of the day is finding out my 4k tv is cracked and broken.... 1500 down the drain... I barely used it this whole year. Had a 55 4k Sony 900e and now gotta look for a new TV. Hows the sony 950g?I cut my father out of my life today but the worst part of the day was finding a crack in the overpriced TV I never used. Maybe I’ll buy a more expensive one... Any thoughts??
https://www.resetera.com/threads/hillary-clinton-visits-the-howard-stern-show-for-her-first-interview.157162/post-27154319Quote from: loquaciousJennyQuoteI can never understand how people fell in love with this ghoul.God, they're insufferable.Just gonna take the time here to point to more blatant sexism in this thread, are we gonna need another 12 hours for our lovely mod team to decide if 3 days or a warning is good enoughQuote from: loquaciousJennyQuoteCan you explain how "ghoul" is a sexist term, or are you going to continue to diminish actual sexism?I'm trying to avoid derailing the thread too much, but if calling her a witch is sexist than moving one step from that should be too. Mocking her voice is apparently a 3 day, and in a previous thread calling her a cunt is worth just a warning, so I'm not sure how the grading in this class works.QuoteQuoteCan you explain how "ghoul" is a sexist term, or are you going to continue to diminish actual sexism?Eh, it could be a dog whistle, a replacement word for something more sexist
Quote from: benjipwns on December 07, 2019, 04:33:25 PMhttps://www.resetera.com/threads/how-to-get-a-book-deal-in-ten-years-or-less-lindsay-ellis.157783/QuoteDid she ever apologize about the transphobic jokes she made?QuoteDid she ever spend the time to apologize for her tasteless transphobic joke?QuoteYes truly, how dare she, a woman, speak with confidence about anything on the internet?QuoteCalling an adult woman a girl while complaining about her being self-important? always very cool.QuoteDid she ever apologize for the racist, sexist, and drunk stuff?QuoteOh shit there is more tea?Quoteyes and how dare you try to hand wave criticism about a critic who has made problematic statements in the past and speaks about wokeness and yet has no Pocs at her weddinggood work teamHow come this is okay but mentioning that Billy Dee Williams once attacked his girlfriend isn't If I didn't know better I'd say the mods are playing favorites.
Ghoul isn’t a sexist word you total waste of oxygen.
Quote from: ShutUp on December 07, 2019, 04:44:03 PMGhoul isn’t a sexist word you total waste of oxygen. It's one step removed from "witch" which is a sexist term for people who live in swamps.
...Did OP get banned for correctly pointing out that Michael's racial antics in the early episodes are both uncomfortable and also the point to establish that he's not a good person despite what he thinks?
seriously, what the hell? is that all it takes to get banned around here?
Banned for that? Wow
What the fuck is up with that ban.
What is going on here?
that ban... lmao
What is that ban...
How many mods looked at that post and agreed it was downplaying racism?Explain the reasoning.
This is the dumbest forum.
That OP ban is a bit tonedeaf, no?
lmao that ban
I was reading through the posts, why was op banned? Did I miss something? Also Kevin is the true goat
That's a ridiculous ban. OP is right, Michael is an offensive, bad person and highlighting that via the reactions of other characters is the core pillar of the show's humor. It's not downplaying racism. If you lack the intelligence to discern between bad thing and thing that look like bad thing, you probably shouldn't be a moderator.
Instead of derailing the thread over the ban, just report it and explain why you think it's an error.
The problem with that segment, and the show in general, is that they want to have their characters do terrible things to other people (here being a complete racist buffoon) while also painting them as sympathetic characters that we should care deeply about. Michael pulling that shit was ignominious but instead of confronting the shitty behavior the episode turned it into "awe shucks, michael is a good guy at heart and he just really wanted to do something fun with the dundies so lets cheer him on". Like instead of reflecting on the racist antics and making that the central issue, the episode turned it into a michael pity party when others at the bar started making fun of him. I disagree entirely that they wanted to highlight that he wasnt a good guy. They absolutely turned the episode into the theme of making him a sympathetic good guy. Also OP didn't make that argument, they just flat out stated "lawl his racism is funny".
the OP clearly states that the Michael’s stupidity and lack of self awareness, and not asians, is the target of the joke. There’s a difference.
Seriously. OP didn’t condone Michael’s behavior but pointed out that he is the butt of the joke because he’s an ignorant and oblivious boss who does completely inappropriate things in his role. How was that worth a ban?
I was reading through the posts, why was op banned? Did I miss something?
They are hopeless.
Bans are done by more than one mod. We need to know which ones thought that was downplaying racism and give an explanation of how they reached that conclusion.
User Banned (Permanent) - Cross forum drama, recently returning from a 2 week ban, and long history of infractions.@grandwizob - I've started a thread on GAF where me and other developers in the industry will be contributing by explaining topics in graphics tech from games with a little more in-depth analysis from some sites like DF. We will try to answer some really popular questions like what seems to be a sticking point in current gen graphics and what to look for in the next-gen consoles. I'm verified on that site and people don't take me for a "joke" so there's a lot less trolling and more listening.Cheers.
User warned: Antagonizing another userQuoteand not only completing a 60 hour RPG (Trails of Cold Steel), but moving onto its sequel almost immediately*snickers* Gosh, tell me more about how exciting you are!Mate, sorry to break it to you but you're even duller than the people who you assume do nothing but watch Netflix. I'm genuinely amused that you lambast others for being boring, yet this is your example of high quality excitement.
and not only completing a 60 hour RPG (Trails of Cold Steel), but moving onto its sequel almost immediately
prison is basically time out for adults. Would you give toys to a kid put in time out?
Once again not hard to tell who folks with real concerns are vs. the people coming in here sad they might not get to post about blackface. Some of y'all ain't slick.
First of all, thank you for the new updates and transparency. I know you guys work hard.I’m sorry but I want to bring this up. I don’t know if this is the right place to state this, but I’ve also noticed a big issue on this forum with toxic cravings for controversial threadbackfires against OPs asking for advice. Why is this a problem? Because the last two times I’ve seen it happen, it’s involved mental health issues. This affects people’s safety. I think when a thread involves mental health issues it warrants some tact and careful moderation and ive been seeing a lack of that.Last week someone posted that they have borderline personality disorder and their girlfriend left them and they were feeling suicidal. Some posters, instead of offering consolation and deeescalation of suicidal tendencies, decided to interrogate OP about why they broke up, which led to more personal details, which turned into a snowball of people attacking OP and summoning a thread backfire. OP had them admitted he started dating his girlfriend when she was 16 and he was 19. People then started implying he was a predator, even though he explained he lived in a part of Australia where age of consent was 16 and it was irrelevant anyway to the fact that OP was suicidal and this was years later. Now I’m NOT defending any inappropriate physical contact with a minor, it’s just seemed like he appropriately explained that he did nothing wrong and the main priority of the thread was that someone with BPD was suicidal and asking for help *now*. People showed gross ignorance and lack of tact for the OP’s borderline personality disorder. I tried to intervene and defend OP and they thanked me later via PM, but the thread ended up getting locked.https://www.resetera.com/threads/my-girlfriend-broke-off-a-6-year-long-relationship-i-am-very-mentally-ill-and-not-sure-how-i-can-handle-it.156608/The second time was this week where a frustrated OP announced his friend tried to commit suicide and he was grieving with anger and frustration. Some posters proceeded to call the OP a shitty, selfish friend, and derailed the conversation when OP said from the get go that it was just his personal feelings. Those comments from backlashers were not helpful or relevant, just petty petitions for a thread backfire.https://www.resetera.com/threads/friend-tried-to-commit-suicide.157293/Is there something we can do regarding the toxic culture of people attacking OPs who are mentally ill or looking for help? It’s honestly getting dangerous IMO
Any updates as to the population stats of the site? Are we seeing more users over time, or is the population largely stable?
QuoteInstead of derailing the thread over the ban, just report it and explain why you think it's an error.Are reports anonymous? I don't think I'm brave enough to do that otherwise.
Is this ban a result of the new rules?https://www.resetera.com/threads/on-another-viewing-of-the-office-and.157721/The OP was banned for pointing out that The Office uses racism to show what a bad person Michael is while simultaneously being awkwardly funny. Should we restrain from acknowledging any media which contains an element including racism or sexism? And if so should we have an official list of "cancelled" properties? That way we can avoid people claiming ignorance.
wokeness and yet has no Pocs at her wedding.
this is getting awfully off-topic, but we definitely don't need the former. as cool as accountability would be, privacy is way more important. longer ban explanations would be cool though.anyway on-topic haha the office amirite everybody, wacky jim please don't ban me I have an OT to update
I like how their "privacy" argument for not showing which mod banned someone is the same "privacy" argument that police departments use for not allowing the public to know any details about wrongdoing.The list of mods isn't hidden or anything.
QuoteHow is a ghoul one step away from witch?If somebody called her an ogre you think that wouldn't be sexist? You're calling her and ugly monster, it's open shut obvious, stop playing dumb.
How is a ghoul one step away from witch?
I call Hillary a ghoul because I suspect she eats the flesh of dead humans. No subtext.
Fuck people defending this ugly humor. None of you would be saying the same thing if the character had done blackface or some kind of minstrel shown nonsense. Seems to me like some of y'all only don't find it a big deal because he's making fun of Asians.Maybe don't describe such a horrible scene as "golden" while displaying your white privilege to not give a fuck all in one post? Saying that it's OK because it's just a character and they're making him out to be a terrible person doesn't change a damn thing when they are trying to get laughs from the audience.
Right up there along with the transphobic and homophobic Friends show! What great company. What a great idea to look at the most popular shows with white people to determine what is and isn't a problem.
Are reports anonymous? I don't think I'm brave enough to do that otherwise.
Kind of silly unless you're abusive or actually defending racism in your report. Just saying "I think you made a mistake and here's why..." would be fine. It happens from time to time. Don't forget that at least one person probably reported the post which is how it ended up in front of mods in the first place.
With how easily you apparently get banned on here (like OP), I wouldn't want to have the spotlight on me lol
Considering they banned someone for apparently liking season 1 of the Office too hard, I can understand the apprehension.
This is the best one in the Sasha Grey thread.Ron Paul: former modQuoteWould love to see her co-op with Mia Khalifa.https://www.resetera.com/threads/sasha-grey-plays-the-witcher-3.157436/post-27114228Mia Khalifa does indeed stream on twitch. Either playing video games or cooking. (Image removed from quote.) User Banned ( 2 Weeks): Objectifying and sexist commentary. Please do not reduce sex workers and former sex workers to their past workBanned for wanting to see two twitch streamers together on a stream. Also, it's kind of strange how smart Sasha Grey came off but then she revealed she was pressured into porn by her BF who claimed to be part of a spy task force called the DIA or some bullshit. He said her doing porn would be a great cover for him and his spy work.I know that smart people can be emotionally manipulated and she was still a teenager at the time but it does change the way I look at her choices. But in the end she came out of it with poise and dignity even if ERA thinks her past is shameful and all references of it should be banned.
On the one hand, laughing at racist characters who are supposed to be idiots shouldn’t be bannable.On the other hand I swear subpar is one of the more abrasive posters I’ve ever had a back and forth with.I’m torn.
User Banned (3 Days): Trolling and disingenuous commentary across multiple threadsseems you dont have an argument left in you. you clearly know hes a bigot. strange to even defend his bigotry as not bigotry.
Member has been banned (24h): Disingenuous argumentation in a MCU related thread. Unnecessaril hostile and condescending towards other members.So you don't take official statements as marketing. OK. Gotcha. Don't be inconsistent in the future, I got this on record. Ya just made the book of "gotchas" down the road.FYI, It does matter if it was 4 years ago but AS YOU CAN TELL NOTHING HAS CHANGED THAT MUCH WITH THE STORY SO THE 2014 ARTICLES STILL STAND.
QuoteDo you want people to get banned for liking Friends then? Is that where we're at?I'm still pretty new here and not going to try to tell anyone what should or shouldn't be banned. That's not for me to decide.I will say that I'm side-eyeing anyone who professes their love for that hateful garbage. We can either try to move forward as a culture and work to make things better for marginalized people or cling on to hurtful garbage from the past like so many idiots in the South do with their Confederate statues that they like to pretend are not blatant messages of hate towards black people.
Do you want people to get banned for liking Friends then? Is that where we're at?
