I'm not really sure what concept of sexualization she has. By saying she thinks Chloe or Nadine from Uncharted are hot she isn't she already sexualizing them?
They are. And it's fine. The same way I objectify a cop when they pull me over. I see them as a cop. The same goes with a dentist while in the office, or a fireman, or a fisherman.
We objectify people because it's needed to create a schema to navigate life.
One thing I like about Linsdey Eliis was one of her "cultural appropriation," vids she said the act was not inherently wrong. It matters what you do with it. That's one thing Era never understood. These words were created by sociologist who didn't set about to "gotcha," people on the internet. They created these idea to explain human behaviors. And lets not forget how painfuly they've distorted the meaning of "white fragility/privilege."