Vom, always remember your fundamentals: PENIS
- Pictures are the most important first step. You have to nail this or there's no hope. Work out, get headshots, do fun activities. Whatever it takes.
- Enthusiasm is what makes or breaks a first conversation. You want to really make the other person feel like you're interested in them. Everyone wants to be flattered. If you're just asking her questions it'll feel like a job interview or one of those obligatory phone calls you have with your mom.
- N word jokes
- Initiative. Be a man. Once the conversation is going well and you've got a feel for the person, stop wasting everyone's time and ask if they want to meet for coffee or food.
- Sexual flirting. Everyone's on dating apps for the same reason: busting their nut. You need to set this kind of tone as soon as possible and get flirty flirty flirty. If you're bad at flirting you will not survive. Depending on the girl this can happen before, during, or after the first date, but you want to sneak it in as soon as possible.