meh, people were acting like there was no chance she liked you and projecting their own internal bullshit onto your situation. you come here and vent your frustrations and I see nothing wrong with that. this is an outlet for you, which is good. getting that stuff out of your head is not a bad thing. I think offering support can be more important than endless seemingly contradictory advice. you feel frustrated at times, because your situation is frustrating for you. it's not like you're just some asshole for no reason.
anyway, despite what we all have to say or think, you are doing just fine on your own