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« Reply #13260 on: October 09, 2019, 10:19:13 PM »
Sounds good. I'm just seeing a lot of parallels here between how you were at the end of your last job and your fuck-everything manic attitude now. Would be good to get all that stress off your back.
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« Reply #13261 on: October 09, 2019, 11:28:36 PM »
Atra is so stupid hahahaha
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« Reply #13262 on: October 09, 2019, 11:46:11 PM »
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« Reply #13263 on: October 10, 2019, 12:24:15 AM »
Attra:  beat that pussy up first then work on this stuff :brofist

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« Reply #13264 on: October 10, 2019, 03:20:55 AM »
For anyone keeping score on bire open arrangements, the wife and I stopped being open like 10 months ago, and mostly unrelated but weíre now on the rocks. Iím having a pretty hard time with it.

Really sorry to hear that :(

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« Reply #13265 on: October 10, 2019, 03:27:31 AM »
Does that BMW job pays well ? I'm not gonna slack honest factory work, maybe having something more steady and more rigidly organised is a good thing.
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« Reply #13266 on: October 10, 2019, 05:30:31 AM »
Dude... Iíve been doing acid all year (cuz it doesnít show up on drug tests) because I havenít been able to get stoned all year because Iíve been waiting alllll fucking year for this drug test so I get salaried + benefits  soooo I can finally go to/afford motherfucking therapy!!!!!!

Thatís why Iím all FUCKED UP right FuCking now about shit!!!!!!

Like I wanted to hurl myself into fucking traffic after that meeting with my supervisor or whatever the fuck his bullshit title is when he told me I wasnít essentially valuable enough to be a salaried employee because I cannot handle their chaotic mess of a workflow which is why Iím pulling a bunch of semi-all nighters this week trying to meet deadlines. Jesus Fucking Christ.

Did you switch to a new job? Because this sounds like the same kind of crap you were dealing with a year ago.

It sounded like the other place would fall apart if you weren't willing to maintain your self-destructive schedule. Now you're currently hearing you're not mission-critical? What would realistically happen if you took emergency medical leave? Or is that not available if you're not a salaried employee?

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« Reply #13267 on: October 10, 2019, 09:04:43 AM »
Yes I got a new job and Iím still getting fucked over.

And I can take a medical leave but I wonít get paid for it because Iím a contractor.

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« Reply #13268 on: October 10, 2019, 09:11:30 AM »
For anyone keeping score on bire open arrangements, the wife and I stopped being open like 10 months ago, and mostly unrelated but weíre now on the rocks. Iím having a pretty hard time with it.

Really sorry to hear that :(

Donít worry about me, Iím just listening to Dancing in the Dark on repeat and trying figure out my next move
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« Reply #13269 on: October 10, 2019, 09:32:22 PM »
I've been focusing on improving myself a lot lately but I feel the need to vent somewhere cause goddamn it's been months since i got laid and I want to munch on some pussy soooo goddamn bad it hurts.
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« Reply #13270 on: October 10, 2019, 10:38:36 PM »
I've come to the conclusion that I'm in an emotional affair. A very deep one.

All these movies, TV shows, and books about physical affairs with fucking, almost nothing about what happens with the heart and feelings being involved with no fucking.

I had no idea love could be so complicated! Fuck me brehs.  :-\
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« Reply #13271 on: October 10, 2019, 10:39:29 PM »
Not that it's your fault but you're really undermining your friend's marriage.
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« Reply #13272 on: October 10, 2019, 10:42:38 PM »
Not that it's your fault but you're really undermining your friend's marriage.

There's a lot to this, and I don't feel comfortable going into too many details here in a public setting.

Regardless of anything, I want to be friends with her. And I know boundaries can be set to prevent damage and heartbreak.
« Last Edit: October 10, 2019, 10:47:40 PM by mormapope »
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« Reply #13273 on: October 10, 2019, 10:51:18 PM »
As a general rule I say never chase after people who are taken, even if feelings develop after long term friendship. Best to chill and focus on hanging out with other people for a while.
« Last Edit: October 10, 2019, 11:04:44 PM by Dantizzinel »
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« Reply #13274 on: October 10, 2019, 10:59:18 PM »
As a general rule I say never chase after people who are taken, even if feelings develop after long term friendship. Bets to chill and focus on hanging out with other people for a while.

This is healthy advice and I'm grateful for healthy helpful advice.

I'm a hot mess that's been having very intense depression with suicidal thoughts for the past several months. My mindset is fucked right now and the future doesn't seem bright.

An absolute atomic clusterfuck of emotions is most likely going to happen. The way I view it, life is short, and I hold onto love very tightly. So many people are saying this will most likely end in disaster.

The big thing no matter what, is I'm aware of what's going on. So if I continue down this path, I will know in my heart I made the decisions.
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« Reply #13275 on: October 10, 2019, 11:01:33 PM »
There have been a lot of crazy people in this thread the past few days.
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« Reply #13276 on: October 10, 2019, 11:07:38 PM »
There have been a lot of crazy people in this thread the past few days.

I've always been a basket case, it's easier now to just admit to mental illness and bad behavior habits than beat around the bush or make up bullshit.
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« Reply #13277 on: October 10, 2019, 11:13:17 PM »
There have been a lot of crazy people in this thread the past few days.

Namely, shosta.
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« Reply #13278 on: October 10, 2019, 11:16:21 PM »
Compared to all you fuckers, I'm the most normal guy around :hmph
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« Reply #13279 on: October 10, 2019, 11:17:01 PM »
Oh yeah, did you end up fucking that co-worker of yours?
« Last Edit: October 10, 2019, 11:32:05 PM by Dantizzinel »
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« Reply #13280 on: October 10, 2019, 11:17:58 PM »
I'm a normie compared to you lot  :-[
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« Reply #13281 on: October 10, 2019, 11:19:37 PM »
Oh yeah, did you end up fucking that co-worker of yours.
For the last time, no! I got her transferred instead.
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« Reply #13282 on: October 10, 2019, 11:22:48 PM »
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« Reply #13283 on: October 10, 2019, 11:32:10 PM »
There have been a lot of crazy people in this thread the past few days.
the bore is the only place (besides 4chan) I can let my crazy out.


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« Reply #13284 on: October 10, 2019, 11:32:43 PM »
I'm a normie compared to you lot  :-[

I have no doubt you're a normie. Glad you can be an edgy little thottie online though  :-*
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« Reply #13285 on: October 10, 2019, 11:39:55 PM »
Cringe posting is like taking a psychic shit. Can't let it build up too much in your brain or it'll start to spill out IRL.  :brain

And I'm well aware how despicable I truly am but a good chunk of my friends out in meat space call me a saint or guardian angel (mostly because they're even more damaged or despicable than I am).  :doge
To put this into context, your extreme personality shifts and manipulative behavior is very On Cinema Tim Heidecker.  :doge

Let me get real as someone that generally tries to keep an even head:

You went from virgin -> fat chicks are easy -> bdsm moms hang together and are easy -> let me emotionally leech off the gf of some dude that almost ODíd on heroin, freeing my lane for this bitch I call dumb on the internet

Youíre not so much enjoying yourself as much you are exploiting the ladder of women that you feel are progressively under your ego.

Thereís a lot to digest here, at times I was one of the only positive posters trying to help you out. But bro, youíve totally fucked up.

Also, shifting hardcore into drugs as a form of ďenlightenmentĒ, not recreational enjoyment, and turning to astrology is some Fratboy burnout/13 year old diary writer bullshit respectively.

You could easily choose to progress and learn with your past experiences, use that to field and acclimate yourself from your supposed trauma, or use it as an excuse to get 😈 that a emotionally weak woman is crying in your arms as she struggles to maintain her relationship with her boyfriend that you hope will OD.

Also lmaoo itís funny seeing you criticize yourself in quoteposts and seeing that it was made under a year ago. Gain some fucking perspective.
« Last Edit: October 10, 2019, 11:58:15 PM by 213372bu »

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« Reply #13286 on: October 10, 2019, 11:50:57 PM »
I've been focusing on improving myself a lot lately but I feel the need to vent somewhere cause goddamn it's been months since i got laid and I want to munch on some pussy soooo goddamn bad it hurts.
I've come to the conclusion that I'm in an emotional affair. A very deep one.

All these movies, TV shows, and books about physical affairs with fucking, almost nothing about what happens with the heart and feelings being involved with no fucking.

I had no idea love could be so complicated! Fuck me brehs.  :-\


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« Reply #13287 on: October 10, 2019, 11:52:17 PM »
Dude... Iíve been doing acid all year (cuz it doesnít show up on drug tests) because I havenít been able to get stoned all year because Iíve been waiting alllll fucking year for this drug test so I get salaried + benefits  soooo I can finally go to/afford motherfucking therapy!!!!!!

Thatís why Iím all FUCKED UP right FuCking now about shit!!!!!!

Like I wanted to hurl myself into fucking traffic after that meeting with my supervisor or whatever the fuck his bullshit title is when he told me I wasnít essentially valuable enough to be a salaried employee because I cannot handle their chaotic mess of a workflow which is why Iím pulling a bunch of semi-all nighters this week trying to meet deadlines. Jesus Fucking Christ.
It really sucks, but this type of rapid slant into acid escapism to NEEDing some weed to not commit suicide is dangerous as fuck.

I remember recommending therapy and casually suggesting medication, but you declined because you were concerned about how it would affect your mental health. Fair enough, your choice.

You know what isnít great, gaining a drug dependency and dropping acid as a form of self-medication. Thereís programs that offer treatment at reduced/free costs.

These types of manic shifts ďjust letting the crazy out 🤪Ē are serious concerns for your mental wellbeing, physical as well for that matter.

And again to tl;dr:

Nah, SSRIs are whack -> let me drop acid all year -> I canít afford therapy or medication and also Iím struggling to juggle 2 drug dependencies that are preventing me from taking my life
« Last Edit: October 10, 2019, 11:59:51 PM by 213372bu »

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« Reply #13288 on: October 10, 2019, 11:54:03 PM »
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« Reply #13289 on: October 10, 2019, 11:59:21 PM »
Cringe posting is like taking a psychic shit. Can't let it build up too much in your brain or it'll start to spill out IRL.  :brain

And I'm well aware how despicable I truly am but a good chunk of my friends out in meat space call me a saint or guardian angel (mostly because they're even more damaged or despicable than I am).  :doge
To put this into context, your extreme personality shifts and manipulative behavior is very On Cinema Tim Heidecker.  :doge

Let me get real as someone that generally tries to keep an even head:

You went from virgin -> fat chicks are easy -> bdsm moms hang together and are easy -> let me emotionally leech off the gf of some dude that almost ODíd on heroin, freeing my lane for this bitch I call dumb on the internet

Youíre not so much enjoying yourself as much you are exploiting the ladder of women that you feel are under your progressively under your ego.

Thereís a lot to digest here, at times I was one of the only positive posters trying to help you out. But bro, youíve totally fucked up.

Also, shifting hardcore into drugs as a form of ďenlightenmentĒ, not recreational enjoyment, and turning to astrology is some Fratboy burnout/13 year old diary writer bullshit respectively.

You could easily choose to progress and learn with your past experiences, use that to field and acclimate yourself from your supposed trauma, or use it as an excuse to get 😈 that a emotionally weak woman is crying in your arms as she struggles to maintain her relationship with her boyfriend that you hope will OD.

Also lmaoo itís funny seeing you criticize yourself in quoteposts and seeing that it was made under a year ago. Gain some fucking perspective.

Bro I see you on Twitter all of the time running in my circles and I want to give u a kiss (unless ur not a Gregghead)
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« Reply #13290 on: October 11, 2019, 12:00:02 AM »
Wtf. 21337, add me on Twitter
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« Reply #13291 on: October 11, 2019, 12:17:12 AM »
Wtf. 21337, add me on Twitter
My Twitter is ass, but itís the same handle I use for my Online Only presence :doge

All my real social media is kept under lock and key though, sorry doxxman 🤭

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« Reply #13292 on: October 11, 2019, 12:52:22 AM »
There have been a lot of crazy people in this thread the past few days.

Compared to all you fuckers, I'm the most normal guy around :hmph


FACT CHECK:

At one point in my life I was making random visits to my girlfriend's house at night to try and "catch her off guard". Lifted her facebook password off of her laptop and ended up obsessively checking her facebook messages, multiple times throughout the day. Distrust and paranoia is extremely self destructive, don't do it.

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« Reply #13293 on: October 11, 2019, 06:03:33 AM »
note to self: consider asking 213372bu for advice

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« Reply #13294 on: October 11, 2019, 08:15:22 AM »
I guess since everyone has been giving updates:

Everything is still going good here. The gf and I actually spent two days out of town together a while back which was fun. I think things have finally settled back to normal there and it feels like it did before. The only thing that's different is we basically used to have a no text boundary that was really unspoken, but we would really only mostly chat when we were together. That's pretty much gone. We text and communicate on a daily basis throughout the day but I like it. I've always considered her a good friend and it feels a lot better that we don't really limit the friendship side.

The wife and I are trying to have a baby. If anyone remembers, we have always been told that it's likely not possible for and a 2 years back now (I think) she had a miscarriage. It sucked but it proved to us that 1) should can have a baby and 2) we really do want to have one together. So we've been seeing doctors and we've made progress to the point where we have more of a normal chance of it. We're avoiding anything like surgery, IVF or hormones. If we get to the point where those are our options we've decided to just adopt.

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« Reply #13295 on: October 12, 2019, 09:24:12 PM »
Yíall think Iím going to find someone else? It seems pretty impossible. I mean I got really lucky with who I had and well ruined it. Donít know how I could get lucky again. And looking at how people meet others(through social circles), mine isnít very hopeful. My friends are either married or have no female friends. Work is also a pretty solitary job. Just seems scary you know?

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« Reply #13296 on: October 12, 2019, 09:32:19 PM »
Yíall think Iím going to find someone else? It seems pretty impossible.
Yeah? People meet people all the time. Stop being a defeatist weirdo.

And atra jfc. You need to go cold turkey on your lifestyle.

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« Reply #13297 on: October 12, 2019, 09:47:12 PM »
On the other hand youíll never be a famous artist unless you kill yourself
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« Reply #13298 on: October 13, 2019, 12:07:25 AM »
Atra, have you seen the penultimate episode of Breaking Bad season 2? If you have, you'll know what I'm getting at. Possum Girl can still be your one and only, but you have to be willing to do all that is necessary.
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« Reply #13299 on: October 13, 2019, 02:05:23 AM »
to lighten things up and brag, im going on holiday in a few weeks to stay with a woman i met from australia (basically a one night stand after an exhibition i had a piece in a few weeks back. v romantic. though we did previously know of each other a little). ex ballerina, current filmmaker - being intentionally vague here - and sexy as all hell. "you can stay as long as you like" 

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also dating someone in my city. new operations manager in our office. very fashionable with a hint of sloot, a great ass, well read, cute, smart, likes to party and workout. bless.

had been fucking around a lil' elsewhere too, but that's off now (except the office romance, potentially a small dilemma) after meeting the strayan dream. it feels like a goofy romcom scenario, i've never really attempted a long distance thing but we've been talking every other day for hours, and messaging otherwise. have been upfront and transparent about my situ with all involved, but things have been so cute/ developing quickly with miss straya, and im a little bored where i am (though, this is also quite nice in many ways) so beginning to think if this works over the next month or two i might just recklessly up and move myself down under  8)
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« Reply #13300 on: October 13, 2019, 02:53:10 AM »
Yíall think Iím going to find someone else? It seems pretty impossible.
Yeah? People meet people all the time. Stop being a defeatist weirdo.


I don't meet people all the time. I hardly meet people.

I also don't know much about women and I'm unsure if I'm going to meet a woman who's going to have an interest in sex, allow me to do the same things, and also be as understanding about things. I'm just feeling a lot on anxiety about how I had a rather good thing that I blew.

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« Reply #13301 on: October 13, 2019, 02:56:07 AM »
I hope to god rahx finds some sexually aggressive whore thatíll fuck the mental illness right out of Ďim  :doge

(actually it makes it worse)

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« Reply #13302 on: October 13, 2019, 03:04:38 AM »
Does that BMW job pays well ? I'm not gonna slack honest factory work, maybe having something more steady and more rigidly organised is a good thing.
It pays better than my last job at a marketing/web design firm

But $600 less than my current job BUT I get my healthcare paid for + other benefits.

and yes, I could definitely go for something more rigid and less people oriented as of late...

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« Reply #13303 on: October 13, 2019, 03:09:14 AM »
Rahx I can tell you from experience that it can and most probably will happen. It will maybe take some time. Reading attraction cues can be tricky but that's why coffee and drink dates are for too.

Meeting new faces is an issue for a lot of people, if that's any comfort. That's why dating apps have become so popular.
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« Reply #13304 on: October 13, 2019, 06:13:12 AM »
Also I know now I love my ex. (Irony !) I honestly was a bit dizzy the last two times we parted ways after hanging out. I got the impression she was a bit febrile too but I don't trust my judgement on that. She has experience, was the one who splitted, was pretty convinced we wouldn't patch up and that her feelings didn't and wouldn't grow into love so I don't want to project and cling on.

I'm perfectly fine with it being entirely platonic, but I'll probably try to be open and sincere about this to her in the near future if only for finding the healthy distance and boundaries.

Edit : Might also be partly libido-related, I guess, as far as the flare up is concerned.
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« Reply #13305 on: October 13, 2019, 12:05:09 PM »
Atra, rather than trying to orchestrate a situation akin to Janeís death in Breaking Bad, is there any way you could narc on Heroin Boy and get him sent to prison? Weíve established just within the last few pages that people donít stay loyal when their SO goes to prison or lives several states away. Get him locked up, and youíll  have a clear path to Possum Girlís heart.
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« Reply #13306 on: October 13, 2019, 12:54:32 PM »
I don't meet people all the time. I hardly meet people.

I also don't know much about women and I'm unsure if I'm going to meet a woman who's going to have an interest in sex, allow me to do the same things, and also be as understanding about things. I'm just feeling a lot on anxiety about how I had a rather good thing that I blew.

To be frank, what you had seemed more like going through growing pains as opposed to a good thing you should have kept.

And dude, you will meet someone. Most of the time it happens when you least expect it to. The best way to go about it is to not look at yourself as this burden women need to deal with, but as this person a woman would want to be around. Acting like you're a burden or problem will make you into one more often than not.

By all means, grieve and mourn and all that. There's nothing wrong with feeling sad if you have something to feel sad about. But you'll bounce back, I know you will. Take it for me, prior saddest poster in this gin joint before I racked up my own experience and grew up. You'll be fine.
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« Reply #13307 on: October 13, 2019, 12:58:55 PM »
At the end of the day, sheís picking a heroin addict over you. Heroin addicts shit their pants regularly, have bad breath because their teeth are rotting and will do anything, no matter how humiliating, to get their next hit. Yet with all that, she still wants to fuck him over you. Your response is to sit idly by or even worse, pretend to be some puppet master instead of being relieved at dodging such a shit show.
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« Reply #13308 on: October 13, 2019, 01:06:02 PM »
Oof. OWH with the body slam.

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« Reply #13309 on: October 13, 2019, 01:13:44 PM »
Even crazier is by his own words she stopped being poly just to be with that guy. Definitely a sure sign of someone with no long term commitment in mind :lol :mjcry

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« Reply #13310 on: October 13, 2019, 03:24:53 PM »
naff, you had an art exhibition? Have you considered becoming a developer like stufte?
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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #13311 on: October 13, 2019, 03:35:31 PM »
Atra, rather than trying to orchestrate a situation akin to Janeís death in Breaking Bad, is there any way you could narc on Heroin Boy and get him sent to prison? Weíve established just within the last few pages that people donít stay loyal when their SO goes to prison or lives several states away. Get him locked up, and youíll  have a clear path to Possum Girlís heart.
Possum girl met with me and another friend of mine this Friday over drinks.

Sheís essentially done with him in a romantic sense but still with him for financial support until she lands a better job. Which hopefully will happen very soon.

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #13312 on: October 13, 2019, 03:53:13 PM »
Sheís essentially done with him in a romantic sense but still with him for financial support until she lands a better job.

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #13313 on: October 13, 2019, 04:01:49 PM »
 :idont :whatsthedeal :birb

Itís all gonna work out. Just watch.  :doge


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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #13314 on: October 13, 2019, 04:04:52 PM »
I'm not sure I can believe anyone can be with a heroin junkie for financial support.
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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #13315 on: October 13, 2019, 04:06:31 PM »
Heís on suboxone now or whatever, is in a support group, and has a job at TGI Fridayís.  :doge

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #13316 on: October 13, 2019, 04:12:19 PM »
This whole possum girl thing sounds like some comedy act tbh. I can kinda understand some rough spots in that relationship but theres nothing even remotely "normal" in any of this. Eh, if laying her will make you happy(though i doubt it)   :doge

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #13317 on: October 13, 2019, 04:17:36 PM »
Can't you financially support her and her possums with your new job?
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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #13318 on: October 13, 2019, 04:17:50 PM »
If you guys saw how shitty the dating scene was in my small city you would understand why Iím so hung up on possum girl.

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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #13319 on: October 13, 2019, 04:25:37 PM »
Can't you financially support her and her possums with your new job?
Sheís actually going to give away her possum pretty soon to a nature reserve for unreleaseable wild animals.

But yes.  :doge