I have an easy time dating girls in their 20s when I’m in my 30s. Most guys in their twenties are garbage. It’s easy pickings if you have your shit together.
I can believe this. But I’m also pretty sure you had plenty of sex and female experience from your 20s to learn from and build upon into your 30s so of course “you can have your shit together”. Good luck being a 30 year old who fucks like a teen because of no experience to learn from. Yes, I’m sure that’s appealing.
Comments like these are just cold comforts to me.
My friend messaged me today to ask me about the new girl and I told him it probably won’t happen. And his reply was the usual bs.
“Oh it will eventually happen. It happens when you don’t expect it”
Well that’s a nice thought but I haven’t been expecting it for over 10 years now. How many years do I have to wait? Seems to happen quite often to others. Why do I have to wait such a long time and when did waiting become how this happens?
“Oh don’t obsess over it”.
That’s fine, but I’m not. I go about my life like I normally would. I enjoy things like I normally would. I’m not physically hurt. I just become frustrated because I’m a normal person who would like to have sex and connect with others. I don’t think that’s abnormal to want or think about.
I’m sure his heart is in the right place and it’s all anyone can say. Though these things all come from people who have had plenty of sex and relationships and have no reason to doubt their ability to have them again.
And yeah I know this is just me whining, but I just need to because in the end I know most of what people say is correct but I’m still annoyed at it.
But in more less whining news I guess I’m ok just being friends with the girl. Which I guess means I’ve passed the incel douche test. We’ve been playing Battlefield and texting recently and I guess I’m happy with it staying like that. I mean I get the vibe that she just wants friends and that’s cool. I do like having someone to play video games with. She’s a funny Daria like girl. And at least further evidence to me that some women think I’m ok at least.
But I guess as a resort of seeing that road kind of “close” I restarted tinder but it’s just the same people and this isn’t the way I like to meet people.
So I mean I feel like I’m just kind of at zero again. I don’t like online dating, there’s no real prospects, and my social circle has no women I’d be interested in.But I guess I know I’m not a shitty person, so there’s that. Well thank god for porn.