Seriously Atra :
- You're reasonably proficient at getting matches on dating apps, certainly more so than I am, despite being stuck in bumfuck, USA.
- You've been getting dates.
- You've had sex in various forms with several different women.
You're fine. Stop overthinking (especially all that social media stuff and "signs") and second guessing yourself, 90% of any angst you share here seem to come from that, especially now that your dry spell ended. Unless you want to be a "player" or are struggling to navigate longer term relationships (or looking for suitable mate for that stronger bond), you're doing pretty okay. Enjoy the ride more and explore what you like all while having good times out with the ladies.