I mean, I don't have a problem with adults being trans. They wanna do it, go for it. I'll use your (binary--can't stand the grammatical ambiguous mess that using "they" creates) pronouns of choice. Just don't try to force me to believe your absurd gender ideology. I'll use your pronoun to make you comfortable, but not to bend the knee and declare my allegiance to an ideology so far removed from reality. And I think that's where most people are at: Do what you want, but stop imposing on others while doing so (e.g. ruining women's sports, etc.).